10 Day Meme: Day 7
15 years ago
General
Day One: Ten things you want to say to ten different people right now
Day Two: Nine things about yourself.
Day Three: Eight ways to win your heart.
Day Four: Seven things that cross your mind a lot.
Day Five: Six things you wish you’d never done.
Day Six: Five people who mean a lot (in no order whatsoever)
Day Seven: Four turn offs.
Day Eight: Three turn ons.
Day Nine: Two smileys that describe your life right now.
Day Ten: One confession
1. Poor Hygeine. Aye; nothing quite kills the urge to get 'up close and personal' than a severe dose of Funk.
2. Lack of intelligence. Oh yes; I'm quite serious. Without a certain amount of brainpower; even a very attractive woman repels me...
3. Excessive Pushiness. 'nuff said XD
4. Dishonesty. I can tolerate a lot; and I can be very understanding. But Dishonesty cuts me deep; and not just lying (you can be dishonest in many other ways) Betraying my trust in this way is the most surefire way to'no-longer-knowing's-me-ville'.
Day Two: Nine things about yourself.
Day Three: Eight ways to win your heart.
Day Four: Seven things that cross your mind a lot.
Day Five: Six things you wish you’d never done.
Day Six: Five people who mean a lot (in no order whatsoever)
Day Seven: Four turn offs.
Day Eight: Three turn ons.
Day Nine: Two smileys that describe your life right now.
Day Ten: One confession
1. Poor Hygeine. Aye; nothing quite kills the urge to get 'up close and personal' than a severe dose of Funk.
2. Lack of intelligence. Oh yes; I'm quite serious. Without a certain amount of brainpower; even a very attractive woman repels me...
3. Excessive Pushiness. 'nuff said XD
4. Dishonesty. I can tolerate a lot; and I can be very understanding. But Dishonesty cuts me deep; and not just lying (you can be dishonest in many other ways) Betraying my trust in this way is the most surefire way to'no-longer-knowing's-me-ville'.
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Funny, I can think if one of your exes that had all four... Haaa.. Well, she weren't stupid, but she's no brain scientist, ifyaknowwhatImean.
Okay, she's kinda smart, but stupid... foolish choices and all that. Since she kept making them, would that mean she's insane? You know there is a rather fine line between genius and insanity... Cereal. (lol)
I'm on a weird tangent. Maybe I otter go to bed.
Whas the difference between pushy and assertive?
Anywho, being assertive has more finality involved (e.g. "This is how I am; and nothing will change me."), whereas being pushy is just short, being a progressive kind of action. ("You have to do this, and this, and this; cuz I say so!") Long story short, Assertiveness is putting your foot down, while being pushy is like nagging loudly.
But some people need the step by step instructions to remember what they're doing... I mean I understand no one really likes their other half to be like a mom or dad, but... 'Ell, even I need to be pushed sometimes.
I think what you mean is, Assertive is someone who controls themselves and by extension those around them have to bend, break, or avoid. Pushy is someone who controls others by force, but not by knowing what they themselves are, just what they want nao?
Ego vs Id?