STUPID CONNOTATIONS FUCKING WITH PEOPLE!

The association of anal sex being something only gay men do is something society has ingrained in idiots heads. Mostly it's just mindless retards that think this sort of stupid shit.

Pretty much this. :O I used to think that before I was with my husband since I'd never met or heard of a straight man liking that sort of thing, but I'm pleased to say I'm not that dumb anymore! Pegging is awesome. B)

High five for people who aren't closed-minded! XD

Oo is it fun?
Me and my boyfriend are REALLY into it but we havent gotten to try it yet.

It is. c: I really have to be in the mood to want to do it, but when I am it's enjoyable for both of us and it's nice knowing I made him feel good.

Awesome ^_^ I cant wait to try it out. Unfortunately that’s prolly gonna have to wait a couple of years. I don’t wanna try it until we’re living together XD

God I'm glad I'm not the only one who thinks it's stupid. I keep hearing this more and more often and I'm just like "How does that even make sense?"

Too many people try to give meanings to something that just doesn't need it in my opinion. If it feels good, do it :I

Folks like pigeon holing others but don't like it when they themselves are.

I just don't get why people just assume that, you know? So you like things done to your rear-end, and that's supposed to mean something more than "this feels nice"? Girls do it too, and they're not gay for some reason.

Indeed. Plus all that "gay" (or for that matter "straight") is really is a label..Sometimes it's accurate, sometimes it's self applied, sometimes not so much.

Now that you say that, this makes a lot more sense to me XD You are TOTALLY right about it being a label. I guess other people have they're own things that put you into a certain category.. Even if it still doesn't make much sense to me, lol

Very few things in this life do hon. Sad but true.

*shrugs* no idea
hell, i've seen straight guys who like chicks with strap-ons
hell, one of my coworkers does (he's a guy X3)

I know men who are totally straight, but every once and a while hook up with a buddy because they like the feeling and it makes them feel even better sexually. I also know tons of men who are straight but their women use strap-ons on them because either 1-the woman doesn't want them going to a real man (but they sometimes will cheat and do it anyway to feel the real thing and get filled with cum, because even that feels great, physically and mentally) or 2-the woman likes seeing her husband with something up his ass, knowing he loves the feeling too. ;3

So much THIS right here. I agree with this so hard X3

Anal can really boost the amount of pleasure for the guy, I've noticed. Makes orgasms more intense, and they can last a few more seconds, from what I've seen. And if the girl has penis-envy, using a strap-on can be pretty awesome for both parties XD

Anal actually makes me cum faster, when I'm fucking someone--like, if someone else is fucking me, or I have a toy in me and am pumping in and out of someone. The feeling is just overwhelmingly pleasurable. I personally am bisexual--so it can be a guy in me, or a toy in me, as I am in a guy or a girl--either is great. ;3 (well, so long as she doesnt get pregnant...I do pull out. ;P)

I've never had my boyfriend try anything like that, but now I kind of want to XD How would you even get a toy to stay -in- there, though? They get pretty slippery x) I'll have to make a mental note of that. Toys + anything sexual = totally yes, apparently!

Ahh the old "pull out" method XD never a good idea, but damn it's fun lol Then the cum can go in different places!

If you can get your foot around to put your heel on the base of the toy, you can actually use your foot to shove the dildo in and out of him--as if you are fucking him as he fucks you. ;3 It's pretty hot. That, and you could have him lay on his back, inserting the toy into him with his legs up, and then lay his legs down to ride him like a cowgirl/cowboy, and if he does the thrusting up into you--every time he goes back down, he'll be impaled again and again by the toy. ;3

And I love the pull out method personally--the risk is hot to me, and yeah--the cum can go in different places. ;3 Even if it's just on her pussy. *winks*

Wow, I'll definitely have to give that a shot! Sounds a little tricky, but I'm sure practice makes perfect! It sounds like it'd be a blast for him, too X3

I very much agree! It's very hot! And cum on the belly = BEST THING EVER. Or, well, for me, anywhere XD I'm apparently a cum dumpster like that, lmao!

You sound like fun! ;P I bet your boyfriend loves being intimate and playful with you. <3

Aww, thank you! ^_^ I'm just a girl who -really- likes sex and isn't shy about it! XD

And he says he does! So I can only hope he's telling the truth, lol! <3

more or less depends on the situation...if your a guy that like cock up in there...then yeah...but if your a gay and your wife does it to you...then it's for fun...i though beleive for my person....its an exit, not an entrance

Don't knock it til you have had one (real or toy...real is SO much better) up there. ;3 It actually does feel amazing.

tried a toy once...like i said...it's an exit

the way i think of it if you like stuff like butt plugs its not gay, thats just adding pressure to the prostate for a different orgasm. but if you like a long rod up there then you are a little gay at the least, why? because the natural part of the body with a design to reach deep in your butt is the penis. but you can still call yourself straight if you dont like men sexually.

Wow, awesome response. I totally agree. It's one thing for toys.. they add to the pleasure, and, well, so would a penis XD But I think you'd already have to like dudes to get anything from.. well, gay sex lol.

I just hear if a guy likes a girl using a strap-on on him, he's gay, or bisexual :I And it doesn't make much sense to me honestly.

yeah lol, well as i said if you like things like that up your ass that bad then your at least a little gay even if you arent so gay you would date a man. its stupid that they jump on the gay/bi tag so fast.

though i do have to say when my friend found out his dad had a 12 long dildo he uses on himself hes gotta be bi if hes taking something that big up there xD

oh my god that is so funny XD I guess it might depend on the colour. If it's blue, green, or red, then he's straight, but if it's black, pink, or purple, then we have a problem!

(but not really, some colours for some reason just seem gayer than others? XDD)

Pegging! By definition, it *must* have a girl!

Well, that could still be lesbian, but still!

lesbian is a much more strict term it seems though, lmao XD

I wonder, if you have two twinky guys... :/

Well, twinky guys sound awesome, and delicious. Will they have cream filling?

this can possibly be arranged!

Like most peopple have been saying, some dudeslike pegging, no big deal.lol


its possible for some men to like 'releasing' from anal pleasure instead of penis pleasure :U
It doesnt make you gay, unless you dont like vaginas and are more turned on by men
or somthing like that.

im bad at this because i dont have a penis :c

THANK YOU, GOD. I'm glad to see other people have common sense!

I agree, as long as you like vagina's, you're not gay >:I I think the people who think it makes you gay should try it, because they obviously have no idea about what they're missing >:I

I dont even know what there missing lol, im still one of them virgins xD

lol

No idea. Then again I can't even define my sexuality so meh.

That must get really confusing at times, I'd imagine :C

Only confusing for others, it seems.

I'm a panandrogenous nympho, I like all sorts of types of play and that includes anal. And I love introducing my partners, depending on gender, to the various pleasures they didn't know about as that gender. So of course, making sure a guy understands that it's ok to enjoy the prostate is one thing I enjoy doing. The more we can do, the closer we can bond.

Everyone has a butthole man :C You're only gay if you enjoy something that's exclusive to that gender. Like tits or dicks. And dildos don't count, because they don't have a gender >:U

I very much agree with this! XD

I love the last line. Dildos don't have a gender. I can imagine being at an adult store saying "ew I don't want any of the girl dildos..." lol

straight guys usually get angry if you put things in there.

That is hilarious to imagine XD

...If this was true, then needing to use the restroom would make you gay. :/

Damnit, I've been gay since day 1 :C

This is an interesting debate idea. I've never seen it before. I imagine most people might assume that "a thing" up a man's ass must be another man's dick. Although there's many things that fit in there (safely) that feel good (if done right lol). Any man who's ever experienced prostate stimulation can't deny that it feels good.

So then I started to wonder, because I'm gay, if a woman provided anal stimulation to a gay man would that man still be gay?

I know for certain it wouldn't be the same experience but would it leave him feeling strange or grossed out even if it felt good? If it was enjoyable why wouldn't that gay man be considered bi after that?

I very much agree! I mean, men have their prostate, which can immediately lead to orgasm. It's gotta do that for A reason, I'd imagine. Men are a lot like women sexually, even in their sex organs, there's tons of similarities. Woman can reach vaginal orgasm through constant stroking of the G-spot (or cervix for some women) can make them reach, without clitoral stimulation. It's really fascinating that guys have that too.

It definitely wouldn't be the same experience. I'd imagine that it would feel almost wrong doing it with the oppisite gender if you're completely one-way. I guess it depends on your personality, though. For example, a man might still get hard even if a women is trying to rape him. (kind of an extreme example but I hope you know what I mean) Your body reacts to it even if your brain is like "NOOOO!!" And I'd imagine if you were willing it would feel better.

But, I can tell you, if your a gay man had a girl wear a strap on and do him, and he enjoyed it, he'd still be gay. For example, lesbians. Some lesbians, even though they don't like the penis in any way, still like to penetrate their partner, or be penatrated, in the ass or vagina, doesn't matter. So if lesbians can be penetrated and still be considered lesbians, I think it's true for guys. You're still gay, unless you like vagina's.

Also, I like the points you made. You're a good debate partner! XD

A little anatomy lesson.

The male prostate doesn't end where it joins the body. It continues on down and alongside the last part of the large intestine.

The reason guys enjoy anal sex is because they are getting a part of their cock stimulated, even if you can't see it.

i'm a girl and i like it up the butt, does that make me gay?

You. Me. lets do it up the butt and be gaaaaaaay <:

-YG