THAT GAY MEME
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1. How long have you known you are part of the LGBT community?
Uhhh I admitted it to myself when I was a senior in high school. Still not out of the closet to my family, however my friends know. <3
2. Was it a struggle (emotionally) for you at the beginning?
Very much so. Especially since I am a Christian woman, but I feel that God made me the way I am, and he couldn't have made me wrong. God will accept me whether I love a man or a woman.
3. How did you start to discover your sexuality? (Example, thoughts, feelings…etc)
In seventh grade I had just as many thoughts of kissing girls than I did boys. I was relatively horrified, because since, at the time, I was a fat chick with short hair, I was naturally teased as being a 'lesbian' (like it was a bad thing). And for a kid in denial, being teased about it just makes it worse.
4. What part of the LGBT community do you belong to? (Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, etc)
Pansexual
5. How long have you been out of the closet, or if your not, do you plan to be at some point?
I honestly don't really talk about it much. My sexuality isn't the deciding factor of my personality, but for the most part I am fairly open about it and if asked I won't lie. I am a girl that likes girls and boys and everything in between. c: I've debated for a long while about telling my parents and family, and I know in my head they would accept me (pretty sure my parents already know lol), but it's just... kind of terrifying.
6. Does your parents/parent know, or will they ever know?
I'm sure they know, but I haven't said anything.
7. Did they take it well, or do you predict that they will take it well?
I... think they would... my Dad would, I know, but I'm not totally sure about my mom. I don't quite fit in with the standard 'upper class of suburbia' image she likes.
8. Would you…
a. Hold hands with your same gender partner in public?
I did that before I knew I was queer ;3
b. Kiss them in public?
Cheek kisses and hand kisses and little lip kisses are all good. <3 Something sweet and affectionate, but I won't make out with anyone in public or anything.
c. Introduce them as 'your girl/boyfriend' to family and friends that haven't met them?
Friends --> Yes
Family --> UM. If I'm out of that family closet lol.
9. What 3 things ANGERS THE HELL outta you about people's terrible 'opinions' about the LGBT community or certain comments, acts, etc...
-That there are LAWS about gay marriage. Who the fuck is the government (or even it's citizens who do not support it) to say people shouldn't "be allowed" to marry their same gender. Just.. fdklsafhjdsalk pisses me off.
-When ignorant people don't recognize that transgender is not a CHOICE. When they think it's a fad or some other bullshit and try to force their opinions and social norms on a transgendered boy or girl. I have HUGEHUGEHUGE amounts of respect and empathy for the transgendered, and the amount of people who are completely ignorant and stupid about the subject really make me loose my cool.
-In reverse, I hate people that use their "sexuality" as a crutch. PEOPLE DO NOT ALWAYS HATE YOU BECAUSE YOU'RE KISSING THE SAME GENDER. If your nasty self has your tongue rammed down someone's throat and are dry humping your significant other in public, and some poor security guard sees you and you're told to cool your jets, it's not because you're gay. It's because you're being gross and nobody wants to see that. Straight people get in trouble for the same things, it's not just you.
10. Do you like/love someone right now of the same gender?
I like a lot of girls. :'D Now, if the question is do I feel attracted to someone romantically, I would say that I may have a crush, but nothing is certain. c:
11. If so, do they know?
Haha nope.... well... maybe. I'm not the most subtle of people (read: subtle as a brick wall)
12. Have you told someone about your sexuality and they took it badly?
Not one! :'D I tend to be friends with other gay or open minded people, so for the most part, it's all good.
13. Are you proud of who you are?
Mostly. I've done things that I'm not proud of, and I'm not always happy with the choices I've made, but I kind of like who I am, haha.

1. How long have you known you are part of the LGBT community?
Uhhh I admitted it to myself when I was a senior in high school. Still not out of the closet to my family, however my friends know. <3
2. Was it a struggle (emotionally) for you at the beginning?
Very much so. Especially since I am a Christian woman, but I feel that God made me the way I am, and he couldn't have made me wrong. God will accept me whether I love a man or a woman.
3. How did you start to discover your sexuality? (Example, thoughts, feelings…etc)
In seventh grade I had just as many thoughts of kissing girls than I did boys. I was relatively horrified, because since, at the time, I was a fat chick with short hair, I was naturally teased as being a 'lesbian' (like it was a bad thing). And for a kid in denial, being teased about it just makes it worse.
4. What part of the LGBT community do you belong to? (Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, etc)
Pansexual
5. How long have you been out of the closet, or if your not, do you plan to be at some point?
I honestly don't really talk about it much. My sexuality isn't the deciding factor of my personality, but for the most part I am fairly open about it and if asked I won't lie. I am a girl that likes girls and boys and everything in between. c: I've debated for a long while about telling my parents and family, and I know in my head they would accept me (pretty sure my parents already know lol), but it's just... kind of terrifying.
6. Does your parents/parent know, or will they ever know?
I'm sure they know, but I haven't said anything.
7. Did they take it well, or do you predict that they will take it well?
I... think they would... my Dad would, I know, but I'm not totally sure about my mom. I don't quite fit in with the standard 'upper class of suburbia' image she likes.
8. Would you…
a. Hold hands with your same gender partner in public?
I did that before I knew I was queer ;3
b. Kiss them in public?
Cheek kisses and hand kisses and little lip kisses are all good. <3 Something sweet and affectionate, but I won't make out with anyone in public or anything.
c. Introduce them as 'your girl/boyfriend' to family and friends that haven't met them?
Friends --> Yes
Family --> UM. If I'm out of that family closet lol.
9. What 3 things ANGERS THE HELL outta you about people's terrible 'opinions' about the LGBT community or certain comments, acts, etc...
-That there are LAWS about gay marriage. Who the fuck is the government (or even it's citizens who do not support it) to say people shouldn't "be allowed" to marry their same gender. Just.. fdklsafhjdsalk pisses me off.
-When ignorant people don't recognize that transgender is not a CHOICE. When they think it's a fad or some other bullshit and try to force their opinions and social norms on a transgendered boy or girl. I have HUGEHUGEHUGE amounts of respect and empathy for the transgendered, and the amount of people who are completely ignorant and stupid about the subject really make me loose my cool.
-In reverse, I hate people that use their "sexuality" as a crutch. PEOPLE DO NOT ALWAYS HATE YOU BECAUSE YOU'RE KISSING THE SAME GENDER. If your nasty self has your tongue rammed down someone's throat and are dry humping your significant other in public, and some poor security guard sees you and you're told to cool your jets, it's not because you're gay. It's because you're being gross and nobody wants to see that. Straight people get in trouble for the same things, it's not just you.
10. Do you like/love someone right now of the same gender?
I like a lot of girls. :'D Now, if the question is do I feel attracted to someone romantically, I would say that I may have a crush, but nothing is certain. c:
11. If so, do they know?
Haha nope.... well... maybe. I'm not the most subtle of people (read: subtle as a brick wall)
12. Have you told someone about your sexuality and they took it badly?
Not one! :'D I tend to be friends with other gay or open minded people, so for the most part, it's all good.
13. Are you proud of who you are?
Mostly. I've done things that I'm not proud of, and I'm not always happy with the choices I've made, but I kind of like who I am, haha.
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