Farewell, old friend
14 years ago
A good friend of my family died today, not even 100 meters away from our house. He had already 2 strokes and it seems these was his 3rd, but we are not sure yet. I just came to the scene when the ambulance and the emergency medic already had arrived. First I only noticed his dog and asked the medics if I could come closer since I believed to know the man. And as I came closer, it was him. At least this allowed the cops to inform his family since he hadn't his papers with him and by me they could find out who he was. But there is one thing that terribly hurts me: I planned to leave for town center 30 min earlier, but decided to clear some open questions belonging my studies first. If I had left as I planned, I perhaps would have been able to find him earlier and help him. That's one thing that is really chewing on me, to not know if I could have saved him by just leaving earlier...
He was a fine guy, always greeting when you met him, always friendly... he will be missed painfully.
He was a fine guy, always greeting when you met him, always friendly... he will be missed painfully.

Batch
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My thoughts and condolences to family and friends involved. I've seen a man having a stroke before. It's terrifying to see.

Thanathan
~thanathan
OP
Thanks for the condolences. We dunno if it was a 3rd storke or a heart-attack. The worst thing is although he collapsed at the most open space of the whole street (there is a huge T-crossroad), the area is so calm that perhaps he lay there for more than half-an-hour without anyone noticing him

Batch
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I see... Well, in situations like these people tend to try and pin the blame on someone, even if it means blaming one's self. I want to think that no one is to blame here, and that this was just an unfortunate incident that no one could have prevented or made a difference in. You can only rest your mind knowing that he's in a better place now.

Thanathan
~thanathan
OP
Yeah, you are right. And he was a very good-hearted person, if he doesn't make it to heaven, no one will do...