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So my grandma may have figured out I'm bi
14 years ago
A DAY IN THE LIFE OF NIBBLER: My mom told me about it; she'd been talking to Grandy (Grandma Sandy) and here's how their dialog went apparently:
G- So, Emily still doesn't have a boyfriend?
M- Nope.
G- You know... I wouldn't be surprised if she brought a girl home instead.
M- *chuckle* You might be right.
G- ...Is she interested in girls?
M- I don't know, why don't you ask her?
G- No, no, I'll just leave it.
It's interesting how long it's taking people to figure it out on their own. I've been out of the closet for almost 3 years now, yet no one in real life to my knowledge has figured it out on their own; every one who knows was told, so it's nice that some one is finally figuring it out.
My mom is still determined to believe I'm just going through a phase, but she did say "At least girls can't get you knocked up." so I don't know if that means she's okay with it or just looking at the bright side, but it's still a good thing... Right? And because I don't know how my mom feels about my sexuality, it's too much of a gamble to tell her about my crush in case she actually hates the idea about her daughter liking girls; on the other hand, it could help prove to her that I'm more than just bicurious.
I don't know if I should let the rest of my family, ie grandparents, uncles, aunts, know that I'm bisexual or just leave them to figure it out on their own. Especially with Grandy and Aunt Megan; Grandy pretty much figured it out on her own, she just needs confermation, and my aunt is my role model and my closest family member friend-wise aside from my mom.
I don't know, what do you guys think?
G- So, Emily still doesn't have a boyfriend?
M- Nope.
G- You know... I wouldn't be surprised if she brought a girl home instead.
M- *chuckle* You might be right.
G- ...Is she interested in girls?
M- I don't know, why don't you ask her?
G- No, no, I'll just leave it.
It's interesting how long it's taking people to figure it out on their own. I've been out of the closet for almost 3 years now, yet no one in real life to my knowledge has figured it out on their own; every one who knows was told, so it's nice that some one is finally figuring it out.
My mom is still determined to believe I'm just going through a phase, but she did say "At least girls can't get you knocked up." so I don't know if that means she's okay with it or just looking at the bright side, but it's still a good thing... Right? And because I don't know how my mom feels about my sexuality, it's too much of a gamble to tell her about my crush in case she actually hates the idea about her daughter liking girls; on the other hand, it could help prove to her that I'm more than just bicurious.
I don't know if I should let the rest of my family, ie grandparents, uncles, aunts, know that I'm bisexual or just leave them to figure it out on their own. Especially with Grandy and Aunt Megan; Grandy pretty much figured it out on her own, she just needs confermation, and my aunt is my role model and my closest family member friend-wise aside from my mom.
I don't know, what do you guys think?
I guess if they ask you, then you can tell them the truth or lie, but if they never ask it's not lying. I think most people who feel the need to "come out" secretly, deep inside, just crave the drama it will create, because that's all that will come out of it. At least wait until you're living on your own before you do something like that. If they are against you being who you are, do you want to spend the next few years with them being all upset about it or even trying to "change you"? And if they don't have a problem with it, then it's not an issue anyway. If it ain't broke, don't fix it.
Cause it aint a huge deal.
Just my opinion, bro.
As for your family.... Hnng
I would stand firm with what you have already told them, and anwser truthfully if they ask.
But then again I don't have a lot of expierence in family situations.