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I just dont understand.....
14 years ago
I just dont understand why Im treated like a bad guy on a couple gay dating social type sites just because Im in no way into girly/femmy guys,or guys old enough to be my dad or worse my grandpa.And why is it anyone's business that Im ONLY into white guys.I get messages all the time bitching me out for not liking this kind of guys.......My thoughts are the fallowing. Girly/femmy guys........Ok If I wanted someone that dressed,acted like,and was built like a girl.I would fucking be with a god damn girl.I like my guys to be that....Guys...And stop shaving yer junk and butt guys.....The razor bumps are a fucking turn off. Now old guys.....It seems like the guys on these sites that are 50 or older are the most desperate disgusting and pathetic human beings I have ever seen.They will send you count less messages and friend request to the point you have to send them rather rude messages in return.Then they have the nerve to get pissed off when you dont accept their friend requests.It got sooooo fucking bad that I have blocked about 23 guy that are 50 or older this year alone. Now Im not into black men...Or men of color..They just dont do it for me.I dont understand why Im branded a racist when Im only sexually or physically attracted to mostly white guys.Umm theres a certain G-Shep that gets me hard LOL..Come on people.We all have out things that get us going...That get out rocks off.So why am I treated like a bad guy when I tell someone that they are too girly,or too old,or not the right color?????...Im also not into the steiotypical gay guy.........Dont think I need to explain that on ferther.
Arnt we supposed to be the "Gay Community"? I thought we were supposed to support one another and support out differences....Guess I was wrong on that one.
Anyway Im just bitching cause Ive been up all night and cant sleep due to a damn headache..So the rambling sheppy will bid you a fair well.
PS......EVERY DAY IM SHUFFLIN!!!! LOL
Ryhcer MAXX Kourgra.
Arnt we supposed to be the "Gay Community"? I thought we were supposed to support one another and support out differences....Guess I was wrong on that one.
Anyway Im just bitching cause Ive been up all night and cant sleep due to a damn headache..So the rambling sheppy will bid you a fair well.
PS......EVERY DAY IM SHUFFLIN!!!! LOL
Ryhcer MAXX Kourgra.
I stopped placing ads on sites a while ago due to the same reasons you've run into. And while not trying to sound like an ass, a lot of those guys have spent their whole life behind a computer in a basement...they really don't know how to interact socially, and it shows in their interaction online. That and they don't know any better how a young 20-something can't possibly think they're the hottest ticket in the world.
I know it could take a while, but I'll meet someone else without resorting to internet sites or a quick fling at a bar/club (I'm not the kind of guy who'll sleep with someone as soon as I get to know them, lol).
It might sound stupid, but when I met my first boyfriend, I wasn't actually looking for a boyfriend. Obviously, 'fate' (i.e.- black ice) had other ideas, but that's not the point.
My point is, when you stop trying so hard, you'll meet someone. There's a fine line between shutting yourself off and and trying, but the main aspect is to deal with yourself. Focus on your life, your interests, your career. I'm doing the same; I've grown tired of pining away for that special guy, and figured out I need to stop holding myself back from life.
Hope this helps you out