Sometimes you just need to rant.... Things have been going well here for the most part. I'm moving forward with my life. Temp job, two new mates(yes two) and I will soon be going back to school.
I am polyamorous. This is something I really haven't discussed in detail except to a few close friends. I am able to love more than one person and I was lucky enough to find two others that mean a great deal to me. After a few months of hanging out with them regularly we decided to start dating. I must make something clear. Polyamory doesn't mean a lack of loyalty. pisses me off. Why do people think if you have more than one partner you are disloyal?! Especially if your two or more partners are also dating and aware of each other. I have no issue with mono- couples. I understand there is legalese against poly. But I don't love either partner less than if I only had one.
Also I came out partially to my mother. in that I am dating another woman. She took it poorly. She even went as far to say "you can date other people casually, you know" "it doesn't have to amount to anything serious". >.> She is hopeless.
A few friends seem to feel slighted that I haven't been around as much lately. I feel bad about it but I really am stretching myself thin. I spend much of the day on the phone arranging things for jobs and school. Admittedly yes I spent last weekend with my partners. Is it too much to ask for a break and some alone time with the ones you love?
-Mira