how do you identify yourself?
13 years ago
hey everyone, thank you for all the watches and support, it's most appreciated!
today I was curious as to how all of you identify yourselves
what terms do you use most often?
what are your preferred pronouns?
just some questions I thought I'd throw out there, looking forward to what you all have to say :>
all the best,
blackantlers
blackantlers
today I was curious as to how all of you identify yourselves
what terms do you use most often?
what are your preferred pronouns?
just some questions I thought I'd throw out there, looking forward to what you all have to say :>
all the best,
blackantlers
blackantlers
FA+

I kinda have a personal preference for 'they/them' when referring to myself though.
gender expression: Androgynous
preferred gender pronoun: Female
I don't have many friends that truly understand gender identity, and the ones that do still call me a "she". Unfortunately, my brain and my body are very different. Though I feel like I am neither gender, my body is EXTREMELY feminine. I'm curvy and keep my hair somewhat long, and just look female in general. I'm too vain to change my appearance to make my external self reflect my internal self.
Besides, the "me" on the inside is special in that only I really know my own true inner workings. I like it that way and don't really see the need to change.
Proud to be a queer cis-woman bi-lesbian.
Pronouns: Either she or he, depends on the person and what name they're calling me (Brooke/Elliott)
I agree with him. I feel like I'm a sexy girl trapped inside a male body, even though I kinda look male but still deep down inside myself I know that I am female, and I'm trying everything I can right now w/o surgery to have my inside shine threw my male body.
I just am what I am.
I'm really fine with any pronouns. I use female ones myself for the sake of convenience and avoidance of awkward conversations about my gender (or lack there of), but I'm definitely not opposed to being called a dude.
Still, I can't accept myself as all male, all the time. I just don't feel it. I have a female side and it kills me that I don't present more androgynous.
I have no preferred pronoun. I'm whatever you see before you. Those who call me by female pronouns are usually those who know me best, though.
Still, I can't accept myself as all male, all the time. I just don't feel it. I have a female side and it kills me that I don't present more androgynous.
I have no preferred pronoun. I'm whatever you see before you. Those who call me by female pronouns are usually those who know me best, though.
I suppose I ID as "pansexual" (or "sapiosexual" if I'm feeling particularly cheeky), and "genderqueer" - though I'm not really a fan of that word.
Gender pronouns... I guess I usually just tolerate female pronouns since I'm physiologically female.
I feel like I need to respect and reclaim and re-validate my femininity first, because I realized that my gender abolitionism was really anti-feminine, I was trying to be masculine, not androgynous.
i primarily express myself as female, and i am female-bodied. so, most refer to me with feminine pronouns - i am perfectly comfortable with this.
however, i am comfortable with masculine pronouns, and even more comfortable with neutral pronouns (they/them).
i have a variety of names, masculine, feminine & neutral which i am content to be called by.
overall, i am entirely flexible/openminded with my gender expression & interpretations of my gender expression.
so i never really bring up pronouns with anybody, whatever their first impression is generally sets a pronoun on it's own so thats fine
I consider myself androgynous or neuter -- the latter is, I think, more correct, but the former label has fewer negative connotations.
I'm genetically male, and since my style of dress is androgynous to slightly masculine people generally refer to me with male pronouns. If someone chooses to use female ones that's fine too. Actually, I'd be perfectly happy with "it" but I know that'd make other people uncomfortable.
I am extremely feminine-looking and have a rather high voice.
I've always been rather androgynous, but have been exploring it more in the past few years.
I consider myself to just be me, not really assigned to anything,
but for convenience I use male pronouns.
I accept being called female because I am biologically female and so I sound female but it really flatters me to be called 'he'. I like both styles of dress equally but it's hard to be neutral in female dress. ;A;
I don't have a pronoun preference.
I'm so glad there's a group for this on FA though!