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Relationship meme.
13 years ago
Copy, paste, fill it out and tag some peeps. Im going to bed after this :P
*How old were you when you had your first relationship?
First REAL relationship? Like 23. (Hehe, shy about girls in high school)
*Are you taken/single?
Single :3.
*How old were you when you had your first kiss?
16.
*What color is your underwear?
Um I'm filling this out at home so lets just say skin tone :).
*Do you like anyone right now?
I like a few people right now.
*Miss anyone right now?
Nobody in particular. I miss having someone though.
*Who was the last person you sent a text to?
Co-worker, bleh
*Last person to text you?
Co-worker, double bleh
*Last person you saw?
Co-worker
*What was the last thing you said to someone?
Have a good one doodles. Yes I said doodles :).
*Who is top in your top friends?
Internet friends list = not worth much hehe. But people who matter? My Dad,
Ularewolf, 
Ahnen
*Why?
My Dad is an awesome guy with a huge heart that's always there and never judging. We think alot alike and while he might not always understand what I like he always tries, is supportive, and is there with love/advice/help whenever he can be. He saved me from the horrible person my family would have turned me into had he not been around. For that I can never be thankful and appreciative enough.
Ularewolf is an old net friend for around 10 years now who I am not afraid to share anything with, ahnen is a new friend but she prolly understands me better than most anyone but the first two listed. It's not often you run into someone who can understand you AND is awesome in and of their own right.
*Who do you trust the most in your life?
My Dad
*Who do you love most?
Family? My Dad. Otherwise? Nobody atm.
*Ever been in love?
Twice. Ironically my first love was good, my second was a horrible idea lol.
*Who has hurt you the most?
My Ex-wife. I cannot even begin to express the extent.
*Has a tragedy ever happened in your life?
Of course.
*Are you happy?
Yes, after a year of recovery I'm my normal joyous happy go lucky spazzball self again :).
*How many good friends do you have?
3
*Are there some songs you cant listen to because they remind you of someone?
I have learned to leave such things mostly behind. Places, songs, etc are exactly that. They might always contain memories of my past, but those memories are just that, in the past. I might get a sad smile for a moment, then move on.
*Have you ever cheated on a partner?
No. I don't do cheating. If you have a serious issue you talk to your partner and figure it out. I'm unsure if I could manage an open relationship but I would try that as well if my partner needed it. Big deal here is trust and honesty whether open or closed.
*Ever been cheated on?
I hope not.
*Ever been told someone loved you?
Yes :).
*Ever told someone you loved them and meant it?
2 separate people. Heart and soul.
*Not meant it?
Maybe on accident, or because I was confused, but never intentionally.
*Are you happy with where you are relationship-wise now?
I'm kind of enjoying being single again, just relaxing, but I'm also a little lonely. It's just not the same without a loving partner to share it with.
*What is your idea of true love?
Respect, affection, friendship, trust, and a bond that stands the test of time. (I'll keep this one, it seems like a good answer. XD, added trust though)
*When they slip, do you think you can let go the small stuff?
Of course, nobody is perfect. So long as they are good to me and try the small stuff doesn't matter.
*Do you believe in love at first sight?
nope, thats ludacris. I believe in lust or desire at first sight. Love takes time to form. (<-- This)
*Why or why not?
Because it takes time! Patience dammit! D:< (<--- This still)
*Do you believe that it is best to have a friendship first then love?
I don't think you can have a love that wasn't first your friend. Even when dating.
*Do you believe that love can be found in bars or is that too much of a risk?
I was asked out while working at a bar and that was my best relationship and love. So a definite yes.
*Should people go to bars to find love?
You shouldn't look to find love. You go about your life and do stuff that's fun. Love finds you, no Soviet Russia required.
*Or should they go to places where people who like what they like hang out?
See last answer.
*Should men and women be expecting the other to buy the other gifts?
You should never "expect" anything, but appreciate it when it happens. And you should CERTAINLY try to be nice and buy them something special sometimes too! (<this 100 times over)
*Who should wear the pants in the relationship or should it be a mutual give and take?
Equality, we can both wear pants :> (AGREE!)
*Should chauvinists of either gender be in a relationship?
Once they learn not to be a jerk, yes.
*What is the first thing you notice about a guy/girl?
It differs depending on the person. One girl it might be the way she acts or laughs, another it might be her eyes, a 3rd it might be *facepalm* her chest. It all depends on the girl. There are countless things that can catch your eye, besides the obvious male flaws. Even actions or a smile :).
* What excites you about a guy/girl?
personality/how genuine they are.
* What turns you off?
Someone that isn't a whole person, being fake, uncalled for meanness, being super skinny (there is a difference between slender and OMFG eat something....here I'll buy!)
* Who sleeps next to you at night?
Nobody..only a pillow that I snuggle... :[
* Have you ever had a long distance relationship?
Yes, unfortunately. Though distance was not the problem, and we fixed that part way through anyways.
* Did it work? Why or why not?
It failed because it ended up being a 1 sided relationship and I could never give enough though it was destroying both me and my life. I didn't even realize how destructive it was at the time (love really is blind), just that it was very much bad for me and that it needed to end.
* Have you broken someone's heart?
Yeah. Ironically I broke both my and my ex-wife's heart both when I divorced her ;/.
* Has your heart been broken?
Twice.
* What is your longest relationship?
2 years.
* When was your last kiss?
February 2011 =<
Tags? Hmmmmm
ularewolf
*How old were you when you had your first relationship?
First REAL relationship? Like 23. (Hehe, shy about girls in high school)
*Are you taken/single?
Single :3.
*How old were you when you had your first kiss?
16.
*What color is your underwear?
Um I'm filling this out at home so lets just say skin tone :).
*Do you like anyone right now?
I like a few people right now.
*Miss anyone right now?
Nobody in particular. I miss having someone though.
*Who was the last person you sent a text to?
Co-worker, bleh
*Last person to text you?
Co-worker, double bleh
*Last person you saw?
Co-worker
*What was the last thing you said to someone?
Have a good one doodles. Yes I said doodles :).
*Who is top in your top friends?
Internet friends list = not worth much hehe. But people who matter? My Dad,
Ularewolf, 
Ahnen*Why?
My Dad is an awesome guy with a huge heart that's always there and never judging. We think alot alike and while he might not always understand what I like he always tries, is supportive, and is there with love/advice/help whenever he can be. He saved me from the horrible person my family would have turned me into had he not been around. For that I can never be thankful and appreciative enough.
Ularewolf is an old net friend for around 10 years now who I am not afraid to share anything with, ahnen is a new friend but she prolly understands me better than most anyone but the first two listed. It's not often you run into someone who can understand you AND is awesome in and of their own right.*Who do you trust the most in your life?
My Dad
*Who do you love most?
Family? My Dad. Otherwise? Nobody atm.
*Ever been in love?
Twice. Ironically my first love was good, my second was a horrible idea lol.
*Who has hurt you the most?
My Ex-wife. I cannot even begin to express the extent.
*Has a tragedy ever happened in your life?
Of course.
*Are you happy?
Yes, after a year of recovery I'm my normal joyous happy go lucky spazzball self again :).
*How many good friends do you have?
3
*Are there some songs you cant listen to because they remind you of someone?
I have learned to leave such things mostly behind. Places, songs, etc are exactly that. They might always contain memories of my past, but those memories are just that, in the past. I might get a sad smile for a moment, then move on.
*Have you ever cheated on a partner?
No. I don't do cheating. If you have a serious issue you talk to your partner and figure it out. I'm unsure if I could manage an open relationship but I would try that as well if my partner needed it. Big deal here is trust and honesty whether open or closed.
*Ever been cheated on?
I hope not.
*Ever been told someone loved you?
Yes :).
*Ever told someone you loved them and meant it?
2 separate people. Heart and soul.
*Not meant it?
Maybe on accident, or because I was confused, but never intentionally.
*Are you happy with where you are relationship-wise now?
I'm kind of enjoying being single again, just relaxing, but I'm also a little lonely. It's just not the same without a loving partner to share it with.
*What is your idea of true love?
Respect, affection, friendship, trust, and a bond that stands the test of time. (I'll keep this one, it seems like a good answer. XD, added trust though)
*When they slip, do you think you can let go the small stuff?
Of course, nobody is perfect. So long as they are good to me and try the small stuff doesn't matter.
*Do you believe in love at first sight?
nope, thats ludacris. I believe in lust or desire at first sight. Love takes time to form. (<-- This)
*Why or why not?
Because it takes time! Patience dammit! D:< (<--- This still)
*Do you believe that it is best to have a friendship first then love?
I don't think you can have a love that wasn't first your friend. Even when dating.
*Do you believe that love can be found in bars or is that too much of a risk?
I was asked out while working at a bar and that was my best relationship and love. So a definite yes.
*Should people go to bars to find love?
You shouldn't look to find love. You go about your life and do stuff that's fun. Love finds you, no Soviet Russia required.
*Or should they go to places where people who like what they like hang out?
See last answer.
*Should men and women be expecting the other to buy the other gifts?
You should never "expect" anything, but appreciate it when it happens. And you should CERTAINLY try to be nice and buy them something special sometimes too! (<this 100 times over)
*Who should wear the pants in the relationship or should it be a mutual give and take?
Equality, we can both wear pants :> (AGREE!)
*Should chauvinists of either gender be in a relationship?
Once they learn not to be a jerk, yes.
*What is the first thing you notice about a guy/girl?
It differs depending on the person. One girl it might be the way she acts or laughs, another it might be her eyes, a 3rd it might be *facepalm* her chest. It all depends on the girl. There are countless things that can catch your eye, besides the obvious male flaws. Even actions or a smile :).
* What excites you about a guy/girl?
personality/how genuine they are.
* What turns you off?
Someone that isn't a whole person, being fake, uncalled for meanness, being super skinny (there is a difference between slender and OMFG eat something....here I'll buy!)
* Who sleeps next to you at night?
Nobody..only a pillow that I snuggle... :[
* Have you ever had a long distance relationship?
Yes, unfortunately. Though distance was not the problem, and we fixed that part way through anyways.
* Did it work? Why or why not?
It failed because it ended up being a 1 sided relationship and I could never give enough though it was destroying both me and my life. I didn't even realize how destructive it was at the time (love really is blind), just that it was very much bad for me and that it needed to end.
* Have you broken someone's heart?
Yeah. Ironically I broke both my and my ex-wife's heart both when I divorced her ;/.
* Has your heart been broken?
Twice.
* What is your longest relationship?
2 years.
* When was your last kiss?
February 2011 =<
Tags? Hmmmmm
ularewolf
Speaking of long days *keels over dead...asleep*