Housing problems, may affect commissions, please read!
13 years ago
Hi guys. At the moment I am being told almost constantly by my mother to move out, and last night we had a huge argument in which she told me to get out and 'get a real life'. It was the last straw. I went to the citizen's advice bureau and asked them what I can do. They told me to tell the housing department that I was being threatened with homelessness because my family has a big problem with me being trans/being unemployed/being a post-graduate/being me/having a boyfriend etc etc etc
They made an appointment for me on April 5th, so I will attend that and see what I can do. Also managed to bring my shrink appointment forward 2 weeks because I am pretty much desperate to talk to him because of the constant anxiety and depression issues (which according to mum, are not real).
On Sunday, I am going to try and sell a bunch of my stuff at a car boot sale to clear it out, so I am more prepared to move out.
I'm so upset, anxious, worried and scared, and I hope everything will go okay. This is just it though, I can't take it anymore.
I am not sure how long it'll take to get somewhere to stay, but depending on where it is, I may not be online. I should be able to post a journal from my phone, so if I am offline for an extended period of time, I will let you guys know.
Thanks for your ongoing support!
They made an appointment for me on April 5th, so I will attend that and see what I can do. Also managed to bring my shrink appointment forward 2 weeks because I am pretty much desperate to talk to him because of the constant anxiety and depression issues (which according to mum, are not real).
On Sunday, I am going to try and sell a bunch of my stuff at a car boot sale to clear it out, so I am more prepared to move out.
I'm so upset, anxious, worried and scared, and I hope everything will go okay. This is just it though, I can't take it anymore.
I am not sure how long it'll take to get somewhere to stay, but depending on where it is, I may not be online. I should be able to post a journal from my phone, so if I am offline for an extended period of time, I will let you guys know.
Thanks for your ongoing support!
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I really hope everything will be alright
It's a real shame that some people can't let others be their own person. I really feel for you hon. *hugs*
Have you got somewhere to stay in the meantime? :<
My mother was pretty much the same, she couldn't deal with the issues I had concerning panic attacks, depression and anxiety and not really being able to keep a job under my belt. We were constantly in eachother's faces and pissing eachother off, the fighting and shouting was just relentless. On new years eve back in 2007 (I think!) I was with friends and my boyfriend in Sheffield about to celebrate the new year when she phoned me rather drunk, we had a shouting argument about something stupid, and it resulted in her telling me over the phone to not bother coming back home ever again.
So.. I didn't.
I had to sneak into the house days later to get my stuff out of my bedroom. Clothes and such. She found out later and threatened to call the police of me for 'trespassing'.
Long story short though, leaving home was the best thing that ever happened to our relationship. We are so much better with eachother and things are good. It was a difficult few months of having to stay with people I didn't know and fearing for the worst. But it worked out, but I was lucky.
I really hope something can be sorted out for you. I know we don't talk a whole lot but I'm around if you ever want to chat. I know what you're going through.
And I'd really like to see you at confuzzled and stuff, I'll come visit you in the dealer's den, though I don't have a table this year so I won't be able to buy anything, probably D:
Thanks so much again ;w;
And yes! Come visit me! I'm hoping to be suiting around but I'm not 100% sure on that right now so I'll either be at my table or running around in a bright blue and orange fox suit XD Either way I'll keep an eye out for you and give you a cuddle <3
I think it will be good ounce everything is settled down and your in your own space.
*hugs* good luck, ill help how i can.
And well, CAR BOOT SALES : D