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Some Very Hard Decisions: Updates and Changes Being Made
13 years ago
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Dear Furiends,
Ok, just so everyone knows, If you ever want to get a group picture with me in it or a picture of me, please get it only from 
Fierglief since he is freaking brilliant, a genius, and he is one of the greatest brothers and friends Ive ever had. I envy him quite a bit for a few reasons, and if anyone wants to get a pic with me, request it from him.
Now onto a more serious matter...I have had to make a very hard choice yesterday and today... this was a choice that I have had to make in the very beginning of our relationship, but right now the stakes have been raised. I had to answer one question, and one question that will decide the fate of two lives. "Should
Scion_Z_G_R_V come live with me and move in next week, or wait a semester or two in Flagstaff, Arizona with his family?" To many of you, you may think that that answer is a no brainer. However, it required a lot of brain and heart in order to make the most ethical, selfless, mature choice that would most likely benefit his future, mine, and our relationship. For those of you who know the full story, you know the decision isnt an easy one...for anyone... With the luxury of time leaving me, I was asked to make my final decision today about the situation.
This morning, I did what I normally do on every single situation that I do. I over calculated this. Over and over, I thought about what could possibly happen with each decision and each possible best and worst outcome for us and our futures. Last night I talked to
Fortuneotter and Scion and discussed the situation and what I should do, as well as my father in real life. He reassured me no matter what my decision, he would support it. Finally, I came up with my decision.
My Decision: Scion_Z_G_R_V is going to be moving in with me on the 25th of this month. I do not know if I indeed made the right choice... nor do I honestly know what the right choice is anymore. But this is my decision, and in no which way was it easy to make. But as my father stated to me, "I am making the choice if Scion can come and stay with us. However, HE is the one making the choice to leave Arizona. That truth must be kept clear so in the future we are not blaming each other if things end up not working out. I am taking a rather large risk in my decision. I hope it was worth it. Only time will tell.
Here goes everything... I am thankful for all of my friends and family who have, are, and will support me in this, and throughout this crazy ride. Thank you everyone. I am forever grateful.
Fierglief since he is freaking brilliant, a genius, and he is one of the greatest brothers and friends Ive ever had. I envy him quite a bit for a few reasons, and if anyone wants to get a pic with me, request it from him. Now onto a more serious matter...I have had to make a very hard choice yesterday and today... this was a choice that I have had to make in the very beginning of our relationship, but right now the stakes have been raised. I had to answer one question, and one question that will decide the fate of two lives. "Should
Scion_Z_G_R_V come live with me and move in next week, or wait a semester or two in Flagstaff, Arizona with his family?" To many of you, you may think that that answer is a no brainer. However, it required a lot of brain and heart in order to make the most ethical, selfless, mature choice that would most likely benefit his future, mine, and our relationship. For those of you who know the full story, you know the decision isnt an easy one...for anyone... With the luxury of time leaving me, I was asked to make my final decision today about the situation. This morning, I did what I normally do on every single situation that I do. I over calculated this. Over and over, I thought about what could possibly happen with each decision and each possible best and worst outcome for us and our futures. Last night I talked to
Fortuneotter and Scion and discussed the situation and what I should do, as well as my father in real life. He reassured me no matter what my decision, he would support it. Finally, I came up with my decision.My Decision:
Scion_Z_G_R_V is going to be moving in with me on the 25th of this month. I do not know if I indeed made the right choice... nor do I honestly know what the right choice is anymore. But this is my decision, and in no which way was it easy to make. But as my father stated to me, "I am making the choice if Scion can come and stay with us. However, HE is the one making the choice to leave Arizona. That truth must be kept clear so in the future we are not blaming each other if things end up not working out. I am taking a rather large risk in my decision. I hope it was worth it. Only time will tell.Here goes everything... I am thankful for all of my friends and family who have, are, and will support me in this, and throughout this crazy ride. Thank you everyone. I am forever grateful.
I'm hoping as well that you both prove not all internet relationships turn out futile, that you and Scion beat the odds! I am currently of such opinion (the exceptions being you and Scion, and my fur sister Mei and her mate Keon) that nearly all internet relationships that go beyond friendship and siblingship are futile. Things oft never turn out as one expects. There doesn't seem to be anyone that interesting nor outstanding irl around where I live, so of course I used to seek out relationships online, all of them ending in disaster of one sort or another. But sooner or later, most people break up online without even meeting IRL to begin with.
I have a feeling you and Scion are different than that and that you both can make it work.
Sorry for the TL:DR but this is something i thought i should share as i was where you are last year and figured you would need some advice of whats to come. Good luck from a silly huskita!