No one cares
13 years ago
I'm starting to think that the only ones that care about me are my friends, my dogs, and my step brother. Everyone else in my family seems to love putting me down and pointing out my "mistakes" (like wanting to be a furry) over and over.
Vex_The_Hyena
~vexthehyena
Family can be complicated, but you gotta remember they love you and even though you may make choices that they don't agree with, they still care. For now, just wait it out. If you think they are acting this way because you're a furry now, just lay low. They'll get over it sooner or later. If they don't that's their problem, not yours.
Musha
~musha
OP
But this is different.I have been laying low for months but every time we have a family get together some how the topic goes right to me wanting to be a furry.It's really starting to bug me now.
Vex_The_Hyena
~vexthehyena
Well then accept it, they're trying to get you to change your mind about it, let them know (POLITY!) that you are a furry and it doesn't matter what others think as long as you're happy with yourself. I had to sit my parents down, explain what a furry was and show them that yes it can be a disgusting fandom, but it's something I love and I refuse to be in the adult section of this fandom until I'm old enough to make that decision, the seemed cool with it, so don't shy away from their talking! Embrace it! Stay positive! Don't let their thoughts drag you down.
Musha
~musha
OP
I'll try.
Vex_The_Hyena
~vexthehyena
Everything will be fine :)
Musha
~musha
OP
Thnx:)
Vex_The_Hyena
~vexthehyena
No problem, let me know if you need any help with something, I'm always open to talk
Musha
~musha
OP
Ok I will:D
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