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Warning: Personal drama ahead, hard hat recommended.
Ok, so this one chick I know, well, knew now is threatening to knock my teeth out Monday when we exchange the items we have lent/given to each other. Why?
Well it all started just a few days ago. Another friend of mine is moving just a few blocks over, and needed some one with a truck to drive over 3 larger pieces of furniture, so just one trip. So I asked this friend who recently got a truck if she could do it. She said she would if I finished the commission I told her I would do as a gift 3 months ago. # months ago when I said I would be happy to do the pic she wanted for her and her mate, my que was high so I told her it was gonna be a while, paying customers come first, I need the money. I agreed to push the paying customers aside to have her picture done first. (last month she offered me 20$ to hurry me up, but never did give me any money)
That was the day we took the first load over, which was the most of it sense the couches fit in the SUV, sometime during that day, hauling around boxes and couches I managed to tear my right rotator cuff, so the next day I sent her a message letting her know doing any serious painting was quite impossible for at least the next 2 weeks.
She then asked "how far are we moving the stuff".
I said "Just one load two blocks over, its just 3 pieces".
She responded, " so Either you finish my commission before any other work "Before end of December" or gimme 30.00 :3
Then you guys have me for the day
The 30.00 is to pay my other friend to do the commission for me"
Maybe I am being overly sensitive, but this commission was supposed to be done as a gift, I was unable to finish it, and for the pic I was doing I would have charged any one else 60$ - 70$... Any ways, I was HURT, I felt like I was going to cry.
So I said, "what?
ummm...
wow
never mind
I mean I was charging you 20$ which is less then half of what I charge other people cause we were friends... I cant afford 30$
I am hurt"
(Which I was not charging her 20$, she offered me 20$, I was upset and not thinking.)
She said, "Im hurt that you said youd do thie commision and never did
its been months
I want this for Mitch and i for xmas"
(It was about 3 months ago she asked for it... And she was told my que was high and paying customers come first. She asked if I would do a painting of her and her mate after I did this free sketch for her ~Sketch removed by said shitty friend after seeing this journal~)
After that we argued about it for a bit, then argued about the clothing I lent her that I wanted back cause at that point I just wanted nothing to do with her anymore. We agreed she would come to my place around 1pm Monday to exchange my clothing and bike lock I lent her, for a old purple hoodie with a broken zipper she gave to me, cause I am poor, and hoodies are expensive. I even said she could keep the jewelry I gave her to remember me by.
Then she went on to say that I fucked her around many times in the past as well. Which, I was gonna help her fix a vacuum at a car wash place, she was gonna start a contracting company and said she wanted to try me out so I would come in and help her with it for no pay. The night before my boss called and offered a full day shift, which I could just not pass up, the fall is the slow season, I can't afford to miss one shift sense I only get up to 5 a month this time of year. So I told her right away I had to cancel. Then there was a few time we where supposed to hang out but I got distracted or something had come up. Horrible person arn't I?
So at this point tempers where high and you could smell the cattyness from the computer screen.
She then asked for the purple sweater she gave me back, saying "i gave it to my friend...
Seeing as your pulling this shit it makes me question that " I responded "You wanting me to give tyou 30$ to move one truck load of alicas stuff 2 block so you could pay some oen else to finish the commission I started for you?
That has me questioning our friendship
that is why I asked for mystuff back"
She never did really respond to that, the next thing she said was "If youd simply finish it for me id do it for free" Of course I then said "I could simply finihs it if my arm was not in a sling >:C"
THEN, that very night she texts the fur who introduced me to both her and the girl who was in need of help moving, asking when to be there. Then tells me today over MSN she was going to help her move regardless...
I also remembered to ask for the bike lock I lent her back on MSN this am, she responded with "get a life :p" So at that point I went full bitch and said "if you want to sink to insults, I can too. I sold the line work for the picture I was doing for her to some one else as a 'your character here' kinda deal for 50$, then I said something else that was insulting, I forget what now. Then she just said I was being a bitch, IDK about you guys, but in my experience when you are shitty person, people are shitty towards you(bitch begets bitch).
Then I brought up how she pulled all that crap on me and destroyed our friendship, because of the favor I asked.
"Yeah, she mentioned you texted kris... Kinda fucked up...
you have some serious mental issues, you REALLY pull that bull shit on me, loose me as a friend, yet you are gonna help out any ways?
what the fuck kind of sense does that make"
Then she blocked me, but I was not done. I was pissed and was still hoping she would see who was really being the cunt here and apologies. I went about it poorly, but, I do allot of things poorly when I am pissed.
So I texted her "Seriously? LOLOLOL and you said I need to get a life. What I said after that has been removed as 'suggested' by police" (Yeah, she ACTUALLY called the cops on me, about an FA journal, even though she threatened violence against me. *facepalm*)
She responded; "Ok I'm gonna knock your teeth out cunt, hope you are ready"
(She lost ALL her friends. She was originally a he, married to a well paid man with a luxurious lifestyle. Then decided too pull a Mr.Garison and pop a sex change on her homosexual husband, who like Mr.Slave was not ok with that. Even most of her family wont talk to her after the shit she pulled when that drama was happening. She didn't talk to me much back then. It was not until she was kicked out of her husbands house that she bothered to even befriend me, which, as some of you know I'll be friends with just about any one. I am an easy going person.
I texted her back "Hey. you where the one who wanted to start tossing around insults, don't threaten me cause you know I'm right." Then after a while of no response I texted her again "Just remember, you can apologize for being such a cunt to me any time today and I will forgive you for asking such a thing of me. Up to you"
I should also mention this is the person my 'Perfection" rant is about.
Yes the quotes are all copy +pasted from the convo, you can tell where I lost my temper by how shitty my typing gets.
I have decided, I will 'NEVER' offer free art to 'ANY' friend 'EVER' again. It just leave me open to bull shit like this making a repeat. I really hate being so cynical, but I am a sensitive person.
:'C
Thoughts and comments are appreciated. I am pretty sure I was in the right to be so hurt, upset, and angry with her. I could be wrong.
*EDIT*
Yeah, I deleted this Journal. The dumb cunt finally apologized for the shit she did, and promised to leave me alone and let the fight go. Only to turn around and lie. Apparently I am slandering her making a group I admin 'unsafe' for her.
*Face Palm*
This is has gone beyond getting old to straight up zombied.
*EDIT EDIT*
(Rumor removed due to it causing problems for people not involved in this beef)
I posted that in the comments of the original journal that it blew up my front yard planter.
(Check out he pics of the Damage to the planter here) http://ontariofurs.com/board/index.......html#msg73213
Ok, so this one chick I know, well, knew now is threatening to knock my teeth out Monday when we exchange the items we have lent/given to each other. Why?
Well it all started just a few days ago. Another friend of mine is moving just a few blocks over, and needed some one with a truck to drive over 3 larger pieces of furniture, so just one trip. So I asked this friend who recently got a truck if she could do it. She said she would if I finished the commission I told her I would do as a gift 3 months ago. # months ago when I said I would be happy to do the pic she wanted for her and her mate, my que was high so I told her it was gonna be a while, paying customers come first, I need the money. I agreed to push the paying customers aside to have her picture done first. (last month she offered me 20$ to hurry me up, but never did give me any money)
That was the day we took the first load over, which was the most of it sense the couches fit in the SUV, sometime during that day, hauling around boxes and couches I managed to tear my right rotator cuff, so the next day I sent her a message letting her know doing any serious painting was quite impossible for at least the next 2 weeks.
She then asked "how far are we moving the stuff".
I said "Just one load two blocks over, its just 3 pieces".
She responded, " so Either you finish my commission before any other work "Before end of December" or gimme 30.00 :3
Then you guys have me for the day
The 30.00 is to pay my other friend to do the commission for me"
Maybe I am being overly sensitive, but this commission was supposed to be done as a gift, I was unable to finish it, and for the pic I was doing I would have charged any one else 60$ - 70$... Any ways, I was HURT, I felt like I was going to cry.
So I said, "what?
ummm...
wow
never mind
I mean I was charging you 20$ which is less then half of what I charge other people cause we were friends... I cant afford 30$
I am hurt"
(Which I was not charging her 20$, she offered me 20$, I was upset and not thinking.)
She said, "Im hurt that you said youd do thie commision and never did
its been months
I want this for Mitch and i for xmas"
(It was about 3 months ago she asked for it... And she was told my que was high and paying customers come first. She asked if I would do a painting of her and her mate after I did this free sketch for her ~Sketch removed by said shitty friend after seeing this journal~)
After that we argued about it for a bit, then argued about the clothing I lent her that I wanted back cause at that point I just wanted nothing to do with her anymore. We agreed she would come to my place around 1pm Monday to exchange my clothing and bike lock I lent her, for a old purple hoodie with a broken zipper she gave to me, cause I am poor, and hoodies are expensive. I even said she could keep the jewelry I gave her to remember me by.
Then she went on to say that I fucked her around many times in the past as well. Which, I was gonna help her fix a vacuum at a car wash place, she was gonna start a contracting company and said she wanted to try me out so I would come in and help her with it for no pay. The night before my boss called and offered a full day shift, which I could just not pass up, the fall is the slow season, I can't afford to miss one shift sense I only get up to 5 a month this time of year. So I told her right away I had to cancel. Then there was a few time we where supposed to hang out but I got distracted or something had come up. Horrible person arn't I?
So at this point tempers where high and you could smell the cattyness from the computer screen.
She then asked for the purple sweater she gave me back, saying "i gave it to my friend...
Seeing as your pulling this shit it makes me question that " I responded "You wanting me to give tyou 30$ to move one truck load of alicas stuff 2 block so you could pay some oen else to finish the commission I started for you?
That has me questioning our friendship
that is why I asked for mystuff back"
She never did really respond to that, the next thing she said was "If youd simply finish it for me id do it for free" Of course I then said "I could simply finihs it if my arm was not in a sling >:C"
THEN, that very night she texts the fur who introduced me to both her and the girl who was in need of help moving, asking when to be there. Then tells me today over MSN she was going to help her move regardless...
I also remembered to ask for the bike lock I lent her back on MSN this am, she responded with "get a life :p" So at that point I went full bitch and said "if you want to sink to insults, I can too. I sold the line work for the picture I was doing for her to some one else as a 'your character here' kinda deal for 50$, then I said something else that was insulting, I forget what now. Then she just said I was being a bitch, IDK about you guys, but in my experience when you are shitty person, people are shitty towards you(bitch begets bitch).
Then I brought up how she pulled all that crap on me and destroyed our friendship, because of the favor I asked.
"Yeah, she mentioned you texted kris... Kinda fucked up...
you have some serious mental issues, you REALLY pull that bull shit on me, loose me as a friend, yet you are gonna help out any ways?
what the fuck kind of sense does that make"
Then she blocked me, but I was not done. I was pissed and was still hoping she would see who was really being the cunt here and apologies. I went about it poorly, but, I do allot of things poorly when I am pissed.
So I texted her "Seriously? LOLOLOL and you said I need to get a life. What I said after that has been removed as 'suggested' by police" (Yeah, she ACTUALLY called the cops on me, about an FA journal, even though she threatened violence against me. *facepalm*)
She responded; "Ok I'm gonna knock your teeth out cunt, hope you are ready"
(She lost ALL her friends. She was originally a he, married to a well paid man with a luxurious lifestyle. Then decided too pull a Mr.Garison and pop a sex change on her homosexual husband, who like Mr.Slave was not ok with that. Even most of her family wont talk to her after the shit she pulled when that drama was happening. She didn't talk to me much back then. It was not until she was kicked out of her husbands house that she bothered to even befriend me, which, as some of you know I'll be friends with just about any one. I am an easy going person.
I texted her back "Hey. you where the one who wanted to start tossing around insults, don't threaten me cause you know I'm right." Then after a while of no response I texted her again "Just remember, you can apologize for being such a cunt to me any time today and I will forgive you for asking such a thing of me. Up to you"
I should also mention this is the person my 'Perfection" rant is about.
Yes the quotes are all copy +pasted from the convo, you can tell where I lost my temper by how shitty my typing gets.
I have decided, I will 'NEVER' offer free art to 'ANY' friend 'EVER' again. It just leave me open to bull shit like this making a repeat. I really hate being so cynical, but I am a sensitive person.
:'C
Thoughts and comments are appreciated. I am pretty sure I was in the right to be so hurt, upset, and angry with her. I could be wrong.
*EDIT*
Yeah, I deleted this Journal. The dumb cunt finally apologized for the shit she did, and promised to leave me alone and let the fight go. Only to turn around and lie. Apparently I am slandering her making a group I admin 'unsafe' for her.
*Face Palm*
This is has gone beyond getting old to straight up zombied.
*EDIT EDIT*
(Rumor removed due to it causing problems for people not involved in this beef)
I posted that in the comments of the original journal that it blew up my front yard planter.
(Check out he pics of the Damage to the planter here) http://ontariofurs.com/board/index.......html#msg73213
I have a mental checklist of signs I look for when I screen people that implicate people to have either this or an anti-social personality. Or as you put it "complete psychopath." Which isn't for them to be hard to be, actually, when you look at their MO.
This mental checklist has saved me a LOT of potential anguish and pain going forward, as I've been able to identify and quietly remove these people from my life before they had a chance to integrate themselves into it. I've learned some lessons the hard way though, and you still have cunning predators out there who can fool you if you get attached to them, particularly as a friend.
That is something I said to her. It i one of my life philosophy's, if some one does something shitty, they are going to get shitty right back. I mean, I am a very understanding and forgiving person, but if some one wants to fuck with me, I will fuck their shit up.
Bitch begets bitch, or more politely, you get what you give.
The worst feeling in the world to a sociopath isn't drama or tension. It's boredom. What she's been doing here Tormenting Sateva hits spot on to this. She thrives off of tension, ANYTHING other than boredom and peace it seems.
It's so poisonous. We people who haven't been dropped on our heads as kids, we have more important things to do than abuse people for lulz.
Some of you may have gotten a note that has thus far been sent to 38 people. By Sunday I will be posting links to the texts sent between us to prove that this thing is a lying psychotic POS. Then I am DONE with this zombied topic.
Sent By: _________ to ___________ On: January 6th, 2013 06:59
"
Im leaving the fandom.
Im the she he that Sateva is refering to.
I didnt do any of that.
We got in an argument and she went public and blew it out of proportion. She then made it a point to destroy my reputation and laugh in my face. I didnt vandalize her house. The whole story is twisted. I didnt kill My Dog. I loved him allot and it killed me that _________ and i had to bury him. I Held him as we put him down.
Because of this allot fo people including complete strangers wont even look at me. This is why i have to leave the fandom.
Believe who you will but Im not a monster. I just wanted to be left alone.
Goodbye.
p.s.
I put this stupid fight behind me over a month ago and cut ties. Friday i went on the net to find out i was banned from ladyfurs. Then i saw that she had reposted and added to the journal. I begged her to stop. She just twisted everything.. I even bought her a new lock and apolagised. She wouldnt drop it and i even hav to change my cell phone number."
The text between her and I will prove this notice many of you on my watch list received is no more then a desperate last attempt for... I don't even know what?
I did get her to finally apologize for the shitty shit it did, I even removed the previous journal regarding this ugliness and allowed her to rejoin lady furs if she would fallow the rules and stop harassing me, and, well, the rest is in the texts.
I do hope this will finally ward off the evil bitch.