i need help...breaking up with my boyfriend
12 years ago
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Now I return you to the regularly scheduled journal
i am going to be breaking it off with my boyfriend of 2 years on saturday.
i'm just not happy with him anymore, and he's not happy with me.
he's been blaming everything on me, constantly screaming at me
he's been getting drunk and high, even though i'm allergic to weed, and popped pills tonite.
he hangs out with his ex girlfriends, one of which just had a baby and is doing all his homework for him (the homework i told him i could help him with)
he's extremely jealous of every guy i talk to
he went through my phone when i wasn't there and when my dad yelled at him to stop he kept going through it until he said "put the fucking phone down now, i don't care if she looked at your phone, that's my daughters phone" fyi i never went through his phone.
he blows me off to hang out with his friends all the time but blames me for never spending time with him
he says i don't make time for him, and i don't plan the dates out for him
he's jealous of the car my mother and i bought for me (using inhertiance money)
he says that i know what i want to do in life and he doesn't and i need to support him, but he shoots down every single idea i give.
all he wants to do is illegal shit.
he got mad because i didn't support him when he told me he wanted to do illegal drag racing on private property(trespassing) when he doesn't even have his liscence yet.
so tell me if i really am just being a bitch, or if i right to say that it's time to end it, and make myself happy.
i'm just not happy with him anymore, and he's not happy with me.
he's been blaming everything on me, constantly screaming at me
he's been getting drunk and high, even though i'm allergic to weed, and popped pills tonite.
he hangs out with his ex girlfriends, one of which just had a baby and is doing all his homework for him (the homework i told him i could help him with)
he's extremely jealous of every guy i talk to
he went through my phone when i wasn't there and when my dad yelled at him to stop he kept going through it until he said "put the fucking phone down now, i don't care if she looked at your phone, that's my daughters phone" fyi i never went through his phone.
he blows me off to hang out with his friends all the time but blames me for never spending time with him
he says i don't make time for him, and i don't plan the dates out for him
he's jealous of the car my mother and i bought for me (using inhertiance money)
he says that i know what i want to do in life and he doesn't and i need to support him, but he shoots down every single idea i give.
all he wants to do is illegal shit.
he got mad because i didn't support him when he told me he wanted to do illegal drag racing on private property(trespassing) when he doesn't even have his liscence yet.
so tell me if i really am just being a bitch, or if i right to say that it's time to end it, and make myself happy.
My serious suggestion for you though is to, regardless of how old you or him are, take a parent, or someone who can protect you, with when you do the breaking up. I've seen it happen to many times, he may not come off as violent, but with all the shit he's already doing, you can never be too safe. And I also think you should do what Kieraa mentioned: everything in this journal, explain it to him. And I don't care how many times he pleas "I'll get better, don't leave me" don't listen. Don't give into the temptation.