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12 years ago
Not really....seriously guys...not a fan
This journal encompasses a general update on how I am handling life, as well as my very small business. I've had lots of stats thrown at me over the last month regarding this. As some of my journals may have mentioned, I am not doing so well financially after moving. Every small amount of cash I've made has gone toward attempts to keep supplies in my small studio space...but the reality is that I don't drum the business just yet to have this be productive. Thus, I've recently picked up a part time job so that having a steady income source. This is far more realistic than underselling myself and hoping people jump on the opportunity. I don't want to be seen as a sinking ship guys. I enjoy this craft and want to continue onward!
SO! That said, I am more or less announcing that I will be changing my approach to dealing with clientele. I would love to be friends with every person I do business with, or at least maintain a friendly, if not laid back approach to communication. This hasn't been working so well. Personal updates on my life sometimes creep into messages, but such sharing doesn't always equal compassion or empathy. The same goes vis versa when receiving messages. Due to past friendly interactions I had my name literally run through the mud when a client decided it was better to publicly air their dissatisfaction rather than approach me directly with what issues they had. This experience was a catalyzing moment toward the decision to be less 'friendly' with people who buy from me.
I am also coming to the slow conclusion that I have to dismiss what some might consider a normal social life. To be honest, I don't get along with many people on a regular basis. I have a small handful of friends and prefer it that way. I expect a lot from them, and give a lot back. It's....exhausting. SO- that said, I would hope that my not making friends with every client makes more sense. Friendship is something to be built over time, unless there's an immediate connection. If you aren't sure if we had one of those--perhaps try interacting with me more through this account! I still love y'all and appreciate every watch, favorite, and comment--- I don't mind these, OR responding to them!
It's when people bug me on messengers every time I log on that I start feeling overwhelmed, or overtly pressured...despite claims of 'seeing how I am doing.' I know what that's usually code for and have yet to be wrong in any instance. I very much prefer 'check-ins' via email. It's just plain more professional- which is what I want to strive toward.
This will be a slow process. I am a friendly person, hell, even lonely sometimes...but I am getting better at accepting this and finding social fulfillment in different ways. This is what's going to work best for productivity. From this point forward, work days are work days--period. My part time job is 5 days a week and involves shifts anywhere from 3 hours to 8- after which I plan to work on the business I present to you all here. My days off-- will be for personal projects and time off. I think that establishing this routine is vital for my mental health. I hope that you all understand, and appreciate any time taken to read this journal. I've not been having a good time emotionally for about a month now and am just now beginning to feel relief.
This journal encompasses a general update on how I am handling life, as well as my very small business. I've had lots of stats thrown at me over the last month regarding this. As some of my journals may have mentioned, I am not doing so well financially after moving. Every small amount of cash I've made has gone toward attempts to keep supplies in my small studio space...but the reality is that I don't drum the business just yet to have this be productive. Thus, I've recently picked up a part time job so that having a steady income source. This is far more realistic than underselling myself and hoping people jump on the opportunity. I don't want to be seen as a sinking ship guys. I enjoy this craft and want to continue onward!
SO! That said, I am more or less announcing that I will be changing my approach to dealing with clientele. I would love to be friends with every person I do business with, or at least maintain a friendly, if not laid back approach to communication. This hasn't been working so well. Personal updates on my life sometimes creep into messages, but such sharing doesn't always equal compassion or empathy. The same goes vis versa when receiving messages. Due to past friendly interactions I had my name literally run through the mud when a client decided it was better to publicly air their dissatisfaction rather than approach me directly with what issues they had. This experience was a catalyzing moment toward the decision to be less 'friendly' with people who buy from me.
I am also coming to the slow conclusion that I have to dismiss what some might consider a normal social life. To be honest, I don't get along with many people on a regular basis. I have a small handful of friends and prefer it that way. I expect a lot from them, and give a lot back. It's....exhausting. SO- that said, I would hope that my not making friends with every client makes more sense. Friendship is something to be built over time, unless there's an immediate connection. If you aren't sure if we had one of those--perhaps try interacting with me more through this account! I still love y'all and appreciate every watch, favorite, and comment--- I don't mind these, OR responding to them!
It's when people bug me on messengers every time I log on that I start feeling overwhelmed, or overtly pressured...despite claims of 'seeing how I am doing.' I know what that's usually code for and have yet to be wrong in any instance. I very much prefer 'check-ins' via email. It's just plain more professional- which is what I want to strive toward.
This will be a slow process. I am a friendly person, hell, even lonely sometimes...but I am getting better at accepting this and finding social fulfillment in different ways. This is what's going to work best for productivity. From this point forward, work days are work days--period. My part time job is 5 days a week and involves shifts anywhere from 3 hours to 8- after which I plan to work on the business I present to you all here. My days off-- will be for personal projects and time off. I think that establishing this routine is vital for my mental health. I hope that you all understand, and appreciate any time taken to read this journal. I've not been having a good time emotionally for about a month now and am just now beginning to feel relief.
Well, hun, I hope things start getting better for you! I'm sorry things haven't been easy. :c
Ps- I've appreciated the talks we've had, so don't be trippin about my 'messenger' message in this thing. <3
I try not to bother you too much, since I know you have a lot on your plate, but if you want to chat or if I can do anything for you. Just let me know. :)
Ps- Totally painting Alea's crest feathers today. My airbrush nearly made me rage quit until I decided to go MANUAL-- hand painting is where it's at. <3
Oh, awesome!!! :D :D :D
and tsk,tsk, airbrush! xDD haha
leaves me going 'oh, they didnt really want to talk to me, they were just getting to the part where they asked me how their work is coming on.'
Ive loved what Ive bought from you, its one of the best quality bases ive bought and you were really accomodating with my request for not having eyes on, so dont give up or get down, use it as a learning experience and move on the better and brighter things :3
I work a full time job and its hard to come home from dealing with idiots and work for other people. much rather make premades XD
before i veer on a harder tangent, chin up :3 good luck with new job, and dont worry i dont think people will think youre a sinking ship.
Still I like writing mails with you a LOT :D
Due to awesomeness. You do nice stuff and I enjoy watching others art-ing.
Keep going, but always keep your basic income safed, too! :3 I think you are on a very good way.
It just needs some time to get used to it.
MAYBE---once I am moved, you could totally come out this way. You're more than welcome to and you'd finally ride that damn ferry!
All i can say is just be you, set time aside for things and keep a cool head.