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<<...is it bad to feel nothing?
17 years ago
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I have a problem. This girl I have met says she likes me. She cares about me, and she's more intimate than anyone else I've been with. You think I'd be happy and I'd be all yays, right?
But the problem is...I don't think I feel a thing for her. I try to say I love you, and the words don't reach my lips. I kiss her, and all I feel is lips on lips, not that spark I remember from any other affectionate kiss. She's never pleased after I try to please her, and every time I've spent the night at her place, it's ended where we wake up, her unsatissfied and me completely depressed over failing at it.
So guys, I gots ta ask:
is it bad that I don't feel a thing for this girl?
and should I end the relationship before it gets anywhere too deep?
I just don't know what to do =(
~savitarus
But the problem is...I don't think I feel a thing for her. I try to say I love you, and the words don't reach my lips. I kiss her, and all I feel is lips on lips, not that spark I remember from any other affectionate kiss. She's never pleased after I try to please her, and every time I've spent the night at her place, it's ended where we wake up, her unsatissfied and me completely depressed over failing at it.
So guys, I gots ta ask:
is it bad that I don't feel a thing for this girl?
and should I end the relationship before it gets anywhere too deep?
I just don't know what to do =(
~savitarus
1.Have you two ever sat down and talked?
2.Do you two have things in common with each other?
3.What are her beliefs and values and then compare them to yours.
If you haven't done number 1. You need to do that so you know where you two truly stand with each other.
If number 2 has failed and number 3 finds you two not so compatible.
It's time to be honest with yourself. Don't live a lie.
It's time to end it.
hmm...alright, thanks mate =)
~savitarus