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12 years ago
So I dropped off the face of the planet.
Yes I know it's mean of me, yes I know I should have warned someone or given another way to contact me but honestly I think it was for the best at the time that it happened.
I am now living in my own place, in a way, I live with my mate and our friend. My furry children live with me, sadly however my Sparta passed away about a year ago now, however my attention loving cats cuddle with my Mate and I daily. If we don't give them the attention they want they demand it in obnoxious ways.
I met someone (shocker considering I mentioned him right before this) We have been together for a year and 6 months now, he moved in just a few months ago. Out of every relationship that I have ever had, this one is bar far the best. Being with him is completely different then it was with anyone else I was with. Hard to explain in a way, but I'm so much more comfortable around him then others I've been with, I'm free to be me and not this image of what they want me to be. It's the best feeling.
Lastly My mate and I are now expecting our first child, which in itself is exciting, but to have overcome cervical cancer and after being told I could never have children because the Radiation and Chemo made me sterile, to find out that I was able to conceive and that we are going to have a baby... is indescribable. We are both super excited, and working hard to make sure we can support our little bean as soon as they are brought into this world. No we don't know the baby's gender yet, we actually just found out that we are expecting about a week ago, I will be going to the doctor to get a due date as soon as she can get me in for an appointment. After that I hope to at least give small updates even if it's just the due date and the baby's gender.
For now I am going to log off, seeing as it's 4am and I'm tired. Excitement seems to keep me awake a lot, that and nausea from the baby lol.
I hope that all of you are doing well, I do miss you my friends, and hope to be able to get in touch with you all soon. Take care!
Yes I know it's mean of me, yes I know I should have warned someone or given another way to contact me but honestly I think it was for the best at the time that it happened.
I am now living in my own place, in a way, I live with my mate and our friend. My furry children live with me, sadly however my Sparta passed away about a year ago now, however my attention loving cats cuddle with my Mate and I daily. If we don't give them the attention they want they demand it in obnoxious ways.
I met someone (shocker considering I mentioned him right before this) We have been together for a year and 6 months now, he moved in just a few months ago. Out of every relationship that I have ever had, this one is bar far the best. Being with him is completely different then it was with anyone else I was with. Hard to explain in a way, but I'm so much more comfortable around him then others I've been with, I'm free to be me and not this image of what they want me to be. It's the best feeling.
Lastly My mate and I are now expecting our first child, which in itself is exciting, but to have overcome cervical cancer and after being told I could never have children because the Radiation and Chemo made me sterile, to find out that I was able to conceive and that we are going to have a baby... is indescribable. We are both super excited, and working hard to make sure we can support our little bean as soon as they are brought into this world. No we don't know the baby's gender yet, we actually just found out that we are expecting about a week ago, I will be going to the doctor to get a due date as soon as she can get me in for an appointment. After that I hope to at least give small updates even if it's just the due date and the baby's gender.
For now I am going to log off, seeing as it's 4am and I'm tired. Excitement seems to keep me awake a lot, that and nausea from the baby lol.
I hope that all of you are doing well, I do miss you my friends, and hope to be able to get in touch with you all soon. Take care!
