Last night I was told to text someone this morning, to see what time I needed to be there to help out. So I wake up nice and early, send them a text at the same time I do every Sunday. Normally takes them about 5-10 minutes to text me back and tell me what time I need to be there. It's now an hour later, and I've not heard anything. Let me back up a little...
Yesterday I was helping out at the place I normally help out at, the person who I texted this morning is supposed to be my "boss" while I'm there, it's actually my Aunt. I can separate things, as in the fact that she's related to me doesn't come into play when I'm working and work doesn't get in the way of things that happen with her as my aunt. However I don't think she can separate things. Last night after things were all closed down, I was in the house and trying to relax a little before going home. That and my car was blocked in I couldn't have left if I wanted to, had to wait for someone else to leave first. Sitting in the house she starts to go back into "aunt" mode so I went back to treating her different then I do when she's my "boss"
So my uncle and I started joking around and I guess my Aunt didn't like it because she started screaming at me. then she goes on to tell me that I don't do anything when I'm there, the only thing I do is get in the way and Make things harder on everyone around me. I asked her if she felt that way if she wanted me out there Sunday to "help" She said to text her in the morning like normal to find out what time she wanted me there. This was AFTER a huge fight, her husband started yelling at her and when she told me I was worthless as a person I yelled back at her.
So now, here I am waiting on a text that I know isn't coming since she apparently can't separate work life and personal life. I also know that she's going to tell grandpa, that I never texted her this morning and that I just didn't show up without a word to try and get me in trouble. How do I know this? Because she's done things like that before when she was mad at me over something dumb. (I live with my Grandfather, and he's the one who owns the business. So in a way he does have to know about me not showing up and why.)
I saved the text message of me asking what time to come over this morning... This is annoying and really childish... Is it really that hard to separate work and Personal life?