I've been going through a lot of personal discovery the past few months. Actually, I think more than being about "discovery" it has been about coming to a place of accepting what I've already known most of my life. I've wanted to talk about it and hear myself say it out loud but my lifestyle doesn't exactly allow for such a bold move. But I'll talk about it here because I feel like it's safe to talk about it in this outlet, as most of us don't fit inside any sort of a traditional mold. I'm gay. Uh. Bisexual? Pansexual? I'm not clear on all of the terms. But I am definitely attracted to females stronger than most attractions to other persons. And I'm in a heterosexual marriage to a man who is at least bisexual.

I feel like I should grow a backbone but I don't really know how.