Well, I do think girls are really cute, but in my experience I have had a much greater emotional attraction towards males.

I gotta update my "panromantic demisexual" thing to mention that.

hmm. it seems I'm a varied type. I have physical attraction to the female form more than the male form, but if I see a woman, and hear that tone of voice that sounds like a man trying to sound like a woman, I get that jolt, and the thought 'she's a guy?' and my next thought is 'is she available?' because I might be more attracted to the female form, but if I have to choose what's between her legs, I'd prefer it be a penis.

with that said, I understand my preferences are 99% fantasy. which is why I'd rather get along with the person. I've had more fun with people I've known as people than with with beautiful/hunky one night stands. most of them I wasn't aware or even didn't care about their personal life, and I was all about the other person being a piece of meat. get me off, I get you off, lemme know when you're done, if I'm done I'll let you finish (I'm not a complete jerk), and I'm out. or if in my place, smalltalk, I ain't kickin' someone out that just made me come. but I know you as a person, I'm not all about the sex, I'm fine with hangin' out, if one of us is hot 'n bothered, the other ain't, it's focus on getting rid of the distraction, and moving on. like 'you came, I'm not feelin' it. video games?' but the 'pieces of meat', I'm there for the sex.

but if someone is taking estrogen, was born male, and dresses like a woman...that's where I wanna know everything about the person, even if we just met.

and my varied type is physically for the physically fit or well endowed, and my emotional attraction is for people I have things in common with and I think the genderfluid attraction might be a fetish? I dunno. it just gives me that jolt. I don't literally hear dreamweaver playing in the background, but if it started playing, I wouldn't notice.

Your response and icon have now singlehandedly forced me to re-evaluate my lifelong beliefs about hockey and gender normativity~.

cool.

I'm in Wisconsin. of course I like hockey.

and my response...it takes all kinds, don't it?

Very helpful website, thanks for sharing!