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About “Why i don’t ask questions anymore ?”
11 years ago
Sorry for this loong loong story... but if you wanna dig through all of this ... you have t be full of strenght !
Well, this is a thing which I wanted to address many times before and a long time ago, I hadn’t really the courage to do it because it obviously offends a lot of people here.
So I apologize for those who take this personally, but to cite a well-known band… it’s “sad but true”.
Firstly I wanna tell my personal background, history experience and development in a few short words.
Back in 2003 when I found out about the fur-community, I was astounded by how much there was, a world about animals, people which have dedicated their lifes to the community, the pictures, the art, the people themselves, the culture and how long it has been there already without the rest of the people knowing about it. The result was the community I has gotten another one, I was totally into it and one of them from that point on. (basically I was an otherkin since I can think but from this day on I was officially a furry/scaley whatever)
After a while I have found out about the fictional word” yiff”…. result of this was, I became an even bigger fan of it. I was totally into it even more. It was new to me and fresh for my mind, a new experience ! A fun an great time for the draggy!
Time has passed and I have gotten to the point that I created pictures for people, drew commissions, which is kinda stressful for a draggy like me, It feels like you’re under pressure all the time. Sure, it’s self-induced stress, but I couldn’t change that, that’s how I am. It has gotten worse, my parents (both of them) have gotten sick severly, butit’s not the topic I wanna talk about here. Result of this, I don’t have time anymore, even to this day I can’t really start a new picture… but there is more … I will address this later on.
To the actual topic. Over the years I have met a lot of people online, nice one, not as nice ones, nice but weird ones and nice but kinda creepy ones. And later also in RL. In the end they’re all nice, but the one topic everyone has talked about was… yiff. Sure I was also into it, firstly, It is fun to talk about, RPing and stuff. Later on I was like “oh … this again ?”… next I was like … “not this again O..o”… then I have gotten annoyed of it and then tired… and now I’m just fed up with it greatly.
Why is it, that furries have to talk about it for such a long time?
Why is it, that furries always have to do such innuendoes ?
Why is it, that furries always want in each others panties ?
Why is it, that furries are so into that, haven’t you also gotten tired of looking at always the same pictures, stories … and all around the same stuff?
Why can’t a have a normal and decent conversation between you and me without pointing at this topic anymore ?
Why is it, that a common furry’s intelligence in general comes out of their pants ? Apparently yes… but let’s get into details.
This community was and is disappointing me (and a very lil amount of others furs think that too, I’m just speaking it out loud). Every time I wanna give it a new chance I stumble upon another furry which grabs my head and rubs it in the same old shit. Really every time I wanna speak about god and the world (I’m everything but religious btw.) and have fun I’m getting a punch in the face . It has gotten worse and worse. All the time I’m getting links from people to yiffy pictures which I don’t wanna look at, and then I’m asking why, only getting a “murr”or something like that as answer. No, I don’t wanna know how long your schlong-dong is, I don’t wanna get a picture with you showing your hairy ass, I don’t wanna know how often you have and had sex before and I don’t wanna know how horny you are at the moment, also I don’t wanna know how much you spooge when you come, or even worse things… whatever, there is so much more, but I’m just stating the most often used ones.
The next case is about meets. To shorten is up, No, I don’t wanna be touched in the private zone, I don’t wanna have your sweat sticking to me or rubbing your body on me, no I don’t wanna touch your private zone and finally no I don’t wanna lick your balls/ass… and whatever, cuddling is ok, but if it’s too much and too private I’m getting hateful and unfriendly.
I’m fed up as you can tell. And I wanna talk about it, firstly to prevent such “incidents” in the future.
However, I am at the point where I wanna leave the fandom, wanna leave everything behind because I’m ashamed of myself and the fandom, but I wanna give it another chance, despite those many chances before.
My theory is that, either I have stumbled upon the more worse (not the worst) kind of furries, because there are also very decent ones out there(a few of them are even very close friends), those worse kind of furries are either sex-addicted or have a great lack of it(which includes young ones, under 20 and below, sure they are old enough … I get it but it annoys me even more). Also myself was in the age where I wanted to … yeah, but this was back then. There is also this disingenuous kind of furries. For instance, I’ve met a few furries a few months ago and as always we have gotten to this topic of course *rolls his eyes annoyed*, I have talked to this new furry I’ve never met before (4 people), and he told me that he is also sick of it like me… time went on and we decided to rest, all in one room. This new one grabbed another one of my friends and started cuddling. Sure, everything’s all right until now, but then followed what I already predicted… they started to have a yiff and caused mess on their mattress…it was dark and I couldn’t see anything, but it was hard not hearing them and at the following day I saw the mess … well, I’m very proud of you furries…decency is something you have lost long ago. First he says he doesn’t like this kind of practice and in the next moment he fucks the next best one lying around. *shakes head*
Well, for me is not important what someone says, it’s just hot air… it’s only their action, what they do, what counts.
Well …to sum it up, I don’t ask questions anymore because can predict the outcome, with furries it’s always the same unfortunately. Whether online or in real life… it’s monotonous. But more importently, sex … is nothing special ! All I can say about it is, either I haven’t had any good times yet or it’s just another exhausting orgasm. For all those who want to have sex at any price… don’t be disappointed at the end. My advise, don’t push it at all costs, don’t be ashamed to still be a virgin, it happens when it happens, even when you are much older. Sex is NOTHING special, it one of the most natural things in the world. Well, for me it’s boring and a lil uncomfortable.
There are even worst cases but yeah, that’s my daily life when it’s comes to furries.
Many would say, that it’s bullshit, but when I take a look at all those yiff-pictures on here or somewhere else …and looking at people reacting…or there is at least one that’s verbally jerking off to it(and most likely also jerking off in real life while typing this comment) … it just tells another story. Again it’s always the same.
Well, there is another thing which is getting on my nerves. That miserable overreacting and exaggeration about stuff from furries for furries, for instance, someone drew a cool looking picture and everybody goes NUTS about it … or an example in Real Life…a fursuiter throws a stone in to the water and again everybody goes nuts about it …. Hey there is still a guy wearing a cute suit throwing a stone… what is there to be so enthusiastic ? If it were just the guy without the suit you would ignore him entirely… I always see it what it is … it’s still just a fursuiter grabbing a stone and throwing it into water … yeah … go on nothing to see here… there is so many things which are way more important ! In my case, I will get 2 fursuits in the near future and I’m doing it for me … not because I wanna draw attention ! That’s far from me, I even dislike too much attention, it makes me uncomfortable !
And this is why I don’t ask questions anymore…
…Okay, sorry for this entire punch in the face for furries, many of you will be offended I guess and I’m sorry if you take this personally, but think about what you do and how it effects your environment and people.
I’m wondering what you, who pay attention, say to this ? … Am I right ? Do you have another opinion .. or am I wrong ? I open to suggestions…
I’ve gotten cynical …wow i just realized that, maybe that’s what happens to someone who has gone through so much …shit.
And I know I may have forgotten one or other things…I’m just done here, wanna get this over with. I had to vent and let it all out once and for all.
So let me know what you think !
Thanks for reading and sorry about this lengthy story here o..o
Well, this is a thing which I wanted to address many times before and a long time ago, I hadn’t really the courage to do it because it obviously offends a lot of people here.
So I apologize for those who take this personally, but to cite a well-known band… it’s “sad but true”.
Firstly I wanna tell my personal background, history experience and development in a few short words.
Back in 2003 when I found out about the fur-community, I was astounded by how much there was, a world about animals, people which have dedicated their lifes to the community, the pictures, the art, the people themselves, the culture and how long it has been there already without the rest of the people knowing about it. The result was the community I has gotten another one, I was totally into it and one of them from that point on. (basically I was an otherkin since I can think but from this day on I was officially a furry/scaley whatever)
After a while I have found out about the fictional word” yiff”…. result of this was, I became an even bigger fan of it. I was totally into it even more. It was new to me and fresh for my mind, a new experience ! A fun an great time for the draggy!
Time has passed and I have gotten to the point that I created pictures for people, drew commissions, which is kinda stressful for a draggy like me, It feels like you’re under pressure all the time. Sure, it’s self-induced stress, but I couldn’t change that, that’s how I am. It has gotten worse, my parents (both of them) have gotten sick severly, butit’s not the topic I wanna talk about here. Result of this, I don’t have time anymore, even to this day I can’t really start a new picture… but there is more … I will address this later on.
To the actual topic. Over the years I have met a lot of people online, nice one, not as nice ones, nice but weird ones and nice but kinda creepy ones. And later also in RL. In the end they’re all nice, but the one topic everyone has talked about was… yiff. Sure I was also into it, firstly, It is fun to talk about, RPing and stuff. Later on I was like “oh … this again ?”… next I was like … “not this again O..o”… then I have gotten annoyed of it and then tired… and now I’m just fed up with it greatly.
Why is it, that furries have to talk about it for such a long time?
Why is it, that furries always have to do such innuendoes ?
Why is it, that furries always want in each others panties ?
Why is it, that furries are so into that, haven’t you also gotten tired of looking at always the same pictures, stories … and all around the same stuff?
Why can’t a have a normal and decent conversation between you and me without pointing at this topic anymore ?
Why is it, that a common furry’s intelligence in general comes out of their pants ? Apparently yes… but let’s get into details.
This community was and is disappointing me (and a very lil amount of others furs think that too, I’m just speaking it out loud). Every time I wanna give it a new chance I stumble upon another furry which grabs my head and rubs it in the same old shit. Really every time I wanna speak about god and the world (I’m everything but religious btw.) and have fun I’m getting a punch in the face . It has gotten worse and worse. All the time I’m getting links from people to yiffy pictures which I don’t wanna look at, and then I’m asking why, only getting a “murr”or something like that as answer. No, I don’t wanna know how long your schlong-dong is, I don’t wanna get a picture with you showing your hairy ass, I don’t wanna know how often you have and had sex before and I don’t wanna know how horny you are at the moment, also I don’t wanna know how much you spooge when you come, or even worse things… whatever, there is so much more, but I’m just stating the most often used ones.
The next case is about meets. To shorten is up, No, I don’t wanna be touched in the private zone, I don’t wanna have your sweat sticking to me or rubbing your body on me, no I don’t wanna touch your private zone and finally no I don’t wanna lick your balls/ass… and whatever, cuddling is ok, but if it’s too much and too private I’m getting hateful and unfriendly.
I’m fed up as you can tell. And I wanna talk about it, firstly to prevent such “incidents” in the future.
However, I am at the point where I wanna leave the fandom, wanna leave everything behind because I’m ashamed of myself and the fandom, but I wanna give it another chance, despite those many chances before.
My theory is that, either I have stumbled upon the more worse (not the worst) kind of furries, because there are also very decent ones out there(a few of them are even very close friends), those worse kind of furries are either sex-addicted or have a great lack of it(which includes young ones, under 20 and below, sure they are old enough … I get it but it annoys me even more). Also myself was in the age where I wanted to … yeah, but this was back then. There is also this disingenuous kind of furries. For instance, I’ve met a few furries a few months ago and as always we have gotten to this topic of course *rolls his eyes annoyed*, I have talked to this new furry I’ve never met before (4 people), and he told me that he is also sick of it like me… time went on and we decided to rest, all in one room. This new one grabbed another one of my friends and started cuddling. Sure, everything’s all right until now, but then followed what I already predicted… they started to have a yiff and caused mess on their mattress…it was dark and I couldn’t see anything, but it was hard not hearing them and at the following day I saw the mess … well, I’m very proud of you furries…decency is something you have lost long ago. First he says he doesn’t like this kind of practice and in the next moment he fucks the next best one lying around. *shakes head*
Well, for me is not important what someone says, it’s just hot air… it’s only their action, what they do, what counts.
Well …to sum it up, I don’t ask questions anymore because can predict the outcome, with furries it’s always the same unfortunately. Whether online or in real life… it’s monotonous. But more importently, sex … is nothing special ! All I can say about it is, either I haven’t had any good times yet or it’s just another exhausting orgasm. For all those who want to have sex at any price… don’t be disappointed at the end. My advise, don’t push it at all costs, don’t be ashamed to still be a virgin, it happens when it happens, even when you are much older. Sex is NOTHING special, it one of the most natural things in the world. Well, for me it’s boring and a lil uncomfortable.
There are even worst cases but yeah, that’s my daily life when it’s comes to furries.
Many would say, that it’s bullshit, but when I take a look at all those yiff-pictures on here or somewhere else …and looking at people reacting…or there is at least one that’s verbally jerking off to it(and most likely also jerking off in real life while typing this comment) … it just tells another story. Again it’s always the same.
Well, there is another thing which is getting on my nerves. That miserable overreacting and exaggeration about stuff from furries for furries, for instance, someone drew a cool looking picture and everybody goes NUTS about it … or an example in Real Life…a fursuiter throws a stone in to the water and again everybody goes nuts about it …. Hey there is still a guy wearing a cute suit throwing a stone… what is there to be so enthusiastic ? If it were just the guy without the suit you would ignore him entirely… I always see it what it is … it’s still just a fursuiter grabbing a stone and throwing it into water … yeah … go on nothing to see here… there is so many things which are way more important ! In my case, I will get 2 fursuits in the near future and I’m doing it for me … not because I wanna draw attention ! That’s far from me, I even dislike too much attention, it makes me uncomfortable !
And this is why I don’t ask questions anymore…
…Okay, sorry for this entire punch in the face for furries, many of you will be offended I guess and I’m sorry if you take this personally, but think about what you do and how it effects your environment and people.
I’m wondering what you, who pay attention, say to this ? … Am I right ? Do you have another opinion .. or am I wrong ? I open to suggestions…
I’ve gotten cynical …wow i just realized that, maybe that’s what happens to someone who has gone through so much …shit.
And I know I may have forgotten one or other things…I’m just done here, wanna get this over with. I had to vent and let it all out once and for all.
So let me know what you think !
Thanks for reading and sorry about this lengthy story here o..o
Don't know what to tell you. I'm not crazy about anybody walking up and getting in my personal space either.
I just had to rant and dump the bad experiences out which accummulated over the years o..o
I used to be rather stupid in my interactions, and I had my reasons. Took a bit to shock me out of it, and I still have to make sure I don't slip back into that pattern.
It was an outlet, I suppose.
I crave some actual interaction a lot of the time, and it's nigh on impossible to find here a lot of the time. I would think I would like having the ability to know and befriend those of or in a like-minded position, but it's just so, so difficult. I have had my own issues, and did make some young mistakes when I first entered this community. Even if of age, I am still embarrassed
But..even wanting to try being social is difficult anymore, feeling like purely sexual experiences are all anyone wants from me anymore. The thought of that bleeding into life outside the internet is very unsettling to me, and I'm getting to a cynical enough point where I want to be very displeased at anyone that suggests the such anymore. I'm scared to even attempt to speak in voice to anyone in fear/annoyance that it's going to turn sexual.
It's..just a very difficult spot to be in. I need to work on some of my own problems, indeed, but the only reason I am not gone is because of some dumb curiosity, otherkin things, and those that I have met that are good friends. Not everyone is perfect, and gosh knows I am not, but I am still trying to see some good and making it through. I think you have a lot of base to your opinions, and I agree with them a lot. It's a very stressful road.
so yeah, like you I just want a normal conversation with people with a common interest without it going into the yiff zone. that is why this site is starting tio disgust me more and more, it just the same fucking thing all the time. sure, there are the good furries out there like you said, but finding those kind of furries is getting hard.
I think discussing such things is the first step on finding this like-minded people o..o
yeah, I'm thinking you venting out your true feelings about something lets you find out who the like-minded people are and those who are not.
Well, i have found a very lil amount of other furs which are like-minded, they're pissed off as well, like me ^^
I get what you're saying though, this is definitely a big part of what's wrong in the fandom... hell, I've gotten a bunch of adult rated pictures in the past and I still get 'em, but I don't act like some sex-crazed rabid dog like some of the other anthro enthusiasts around, especially on this site. There are some characters who are created just to be sexual deviants, and do nothin but fuck, hah! I have a character who I created to be the more 'raunchy' one of the bunch, but I don't go around acting like what ya say in your journal.
I just read your most recent journal and I wish you luck on other art-sites, your work was truly a sight to behold over here.
Meets, conventions or parties whatever, whenever furries are meeting each other it's all about fucking, yiffing,pounding, humping... getting in each others pants. You may think i just act up myself and exagerate... well i have met a lot of furries IRL and i know what i'm talking about. It's not that non-furries would do that as well, they do of course ... but in the fandom it's way worse.
In the current state with me it's like "the more i experience about it, the faster i wanna disappear and forget about it".
The fandom is to me like a huge bunch of mentally underaged and stupid sex-addicts, the faster and more often they have sex the dumber they become o..o
It's dull, monotonous and repetitive, it's always the same...furries meet and i have to look away. I just feel ashamed.
Or frankly, whoring around is what pisses me off the most !
Again, wish ya the best man, GL out there.