I do think you are putting out the worst case scenarios there bud. Yes, you've had some rather unpleasant experiences with people that make you uncomfortable. Everyone does. But 'the fandom' is not the only place like this, and you'll soon find this out.
You got people here who do enjoy just chilling and shooting the breeze whilst talking with ya that doesn't always have to be around such things. Perhaps you should seek out more like minded people to enjoy company with rather than leave just because of a few creeps.
But, it's your choice I suppose. I don't really see it as a solution since be it here, or otherwise you will always find such people.
Yeah, i kinda do and it doesn't change the fact that it's the truth.
Sure the fandom is not the only place like this and i already found out multiple times, no need to find it out again. I have been in other fandoms before, but this one here is the worst when it comes to that.
Why do i act up this way ? Well i think i've grown kinda old and consider myself an adult which acts sophisticated and smart, seeing and watching other furries which are only a few years younger acting like little childs wanting to have that motley lolly and many of them getting it, lets me shake my head in shame.
Well, seeking out such people is easier said than done, you know. I made the first step, which is letting everyone know how i feel and then some may come and share your feelings about a certain topic. I'll see what i get.
Hm, you said, i shall let those creeps be and enjoy the company of like-minded people, would be a solution as long as there won't be at least one showing me picture on their smartphone of some of their acquaintances showing of their schlong-dong into the camera while wearing a suit and such.
There is at least one who enjoys it to this day and have seen this a million times before... and as i said in my last journal "why don't they get tired of this ?"... i don't know and i don't get it.
And yeah i always will find such people, particularly inside the fandom. You never can't get out of their way unless you leave it behind.
And the best solution would be leaving it entirely.
Sorry, it just pisses me off to see people whoring arround which don't even know what the words dignity and self-respect mean.
I won't disappear into a puff of air, Deviantart or direct email, or skype ... or whatever i'll still be arround o..o
Just not active in the fandom anymore o..o
Sadly I don't really browse DA for mostly the same reasons you're leaving FA ironically. XD However, as noted and appreciated the gesture is, I don't think we have all too much in common to warrant any direct methods of contact in such a fashion. Not that you don't seem like a chill guy.
I'll most likely pop in your DA once every so often to see how you're doing through your profile page, unless you plan on wiping everything and locking down too. XD But try not to be a total stranger even still eh? Hope to see you around again sometime.
Wow. Tut mir leid zu hören das du so unangenehme Erfahrungen gemacht hast.
Ich hab selbst öfters das Gefühl, dass ziemlich viele Leute in dem Fandom etwas...zu extrem sind, belassen wir es dabei. ^^; Hatte offenbar aber das Glück (Glück, Zufall, Schicksal...?) das ich bisher nur wenig solcher Leute über Skype und so getroffen habe, daher tut es mir doppelt leid, das du da so schlechte Erfahrungen gemacht hast.
Auf jedenfall möchte ich mich nochmal bei dir für das tolle Bild bedanken das du für mich gezeichnet hast und ich wünsche dir weiterhin viel Glück auf DA und auch so allgemein.
I don't mean to sound annoying but I'm just curious.
This is why o..o
And you still can find me on Deviantart o..o
You got people here who do enjoy just chilling and shooting the breeze whilst talking with ya that doesn't always have to be around such things. Perhaps you should seek out more like minded people to enjoy company with rather than leave just because of a few creeps.
But, it's your choice I suppose. I don't really see it as a solution since be it here, or otherwise you will always find such people.
Sure the fandom is not the only place like this and i already found out multiple times, no need to find it out again. I have been in other fandoms before, but this one here is the worst when it comes to that.
Why do i act up this way ? Well i think i've grown kinda old and consider myself an adult which acts sophisticated and smart, seeing and watching other furries which are only a few years younger acting like little childs wanting to have that motley lolly and many of them getting it, lets me shake my head in shame.
Well, seeking out such people is easier said than done, you know. I made the first step, which is letting everyone know how i feel and then some may come and share your feelings about a certain topic. I'll see what i get.
Hm, you said, i shall let those creeps be and enjoy the company of like-minded people, would be a solution as long as there won't be at least one showing me picture on their smartphone of some of their acquaintances showing of their schlong-dong into the camera while wearing a suit and such.
There is at least one who enjoys it to this day and have seen this a million times before... and as i said in my last journal "why don't they get tired of this ?"... i don't know and i don't get it.
And yeah i always will find such people, particularly inside the fandom. You never can't get out of their way unless you leave it behind.
And the best solution would be leaving it entirely.
Sorry, it just pisses me off to see people whoring arround which don't even know what the words dignity and self-respect mean.
Guess we'll see you in another time or place.
Just not active in the fandom anymore o..o
I'll most likely pop in your DA once every so often to see how you're doing through your profile page, unless you plan on wiping everything and locking down too. XD But try not to be a total stranger even still eh? Hope to see you around again sometime.
I'll still be the blue draggy o..o *tailwags*
okay then, i think I still watch you there.
Deviantart is the solution ^^
Wow. Tut mir leid zu hören das du so unangenehme Erfahrungen gemacht hast.
Ich hab selbst öfters das Gefühl, dass ziemlich viele Leute in dem Fandom etwas...zu extrem sind, belassen wir es dabei. ^^; Hatte offenbar aber das Glück (Glück, Zufall, Schicksal...?) das ich bisher nur wenig solcher Leute über Skype und so getroffen habe, daher tut es mir doppelt leid, das du da so schlechte Erfahrungen gemacht hast.
Auf jedenfall möchte ich mich nochmal bei dir für das tolle Bild bedanken das du für mich gezeichnet hast und ich wünsche dir weiterhin viel Glück auf DA und auch so allgemein.
Leider kann ich dazu oder in deinem Fall nur sagen .... naja ....Zitat "belassen wir es dabei"...mehr sag ich nicht.
Und nichts zu danken... ich habs gemacht und möchte damit meinen Frieden haben, also keine weiteren Danksagungen nötig.