You do your thing girl. Don't let him get you down. You keep doing what you're doing and continue to be happy <3 Love you sis!

Oh yea! He calls all hours of the night lol but the funny thing is I turn my sounds off during the nights so I don't lose any sleep xD
Love you too.

You should block him on your phones and if he doesn't stop all this crap, you can get him in trouble for harassment.

He is blocked from my phone, but when he blocks his number when he does so it goes through x-x

I think you should get the police involved. Like the other said, I'd get pics and save everything he sends to you.

I've already done all that, went down to the police and showed them everything before.

Yikes what a disrespectful goof. Sounds like you escaped an abusive relationship which is both hella smart and brave of you. Best of luck to you in pushing toward happiness with the new guy and giving the old one the slip. I *think* it's best to keep a record of all the crap the old fella has been shoveling your way in case the police need to be involved.

Anyhoo, keep strong and please update us. You deserve better than to have such an ugly time with the old guy. I would think relationships in general would not have a clean breakup because of all the emotions and whatnot involved, but most of us should be able to respect the other person enough to leave them alone.

It's was a very abusive relationship on all counts x-x I wasn't aloud to leave the house let alone leave the room without him knowing why and where I was going. Even then he had to be right behind me.
I was able to get back to my family due to him going to jail.

Jeezalou! Thank goodness for small favors. Hopefully he will either take the hint to go away or return to jail to sit things out for a while......

That's a super scary situation to be in and I'm glad you're in a safer spot where there's support for you. :)

Yea me too, he made it hard for me to contact my family.
He would take my phone either hide it or keep it with him. Never let me know they messaged me.
That or he broke it.

you know I got your back riny. Keep on keeping on. Forget that little boy and do your thing you sexy beast

Lol I fucking love you Remy x3

I know, I'm just fucking awesome like that

Yes you are x3

And I love you too riny

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I don't know you personally however I'm glad you got out of what sounds like an abusive relationship.I know exactly how it is because recently about 3 months ago I got out of a two year relationship with someone who was emotionally abusive towards me. And to see someone probably admit that they got out of a situation like that and move on with your life and still try to be happy regardless even though their ex is still causing drama, makes me very happy. I've been going through much the same of what you're currently going through. Of course with mine its more getting a divorce and everything but all in all I understand with the whole ex trying to start drama because that's what my ex has been doing ever since we split. So keep at it keep your head up and don't let your ex get you down and keep being thankful for everything that you have and be happy.

Wow, I'm very sorry all that happened to you.
If you ever just wanna talk about it, I'd be more then happy to listen.
I was never married to my ex, we do how ever have 7 month old baby together, but he thinks I cheated on him all the time and thinks the baby isn't his. I've been done with my ex for awhile now. Just wish he'd just go away.

It's all good, I mean I'm handling it quite well to be honest. It's easier now that I'm with someone who really does care about me. And yeah, that's ridiclous, your poor child that his dad thinks that, even though from what it seems like you said in this journal that it's highly unlikely ou cheated at all. But I guess it's his loss right? I'm sure eventually it'll stop, best thing to do is father evidence and probably get a personal protection order on him at this point, that's what I'm having to do with my ex. Cause mine has been causing all kinds of drama. Its probably that your ex and mine see how much happier we are without them, they can't stand that, that there's no control over what you do now.

Yea I've never cheated on him at all, and even if I wanted too. There was no way of me doing so, but truthfully I believe he cheated on me all the time. He was aloud to go and do what ever he wanted and I wasn't.
He even kicked me out one night while I was pregnant and told me to walk to my grannies house. I was going too but then before I could get down the road he dragged me back.
Yea I think that's what's driving them crazy, cause we're both finally happy, living our lives, and find someone 1,000xs better then they were. So they don't like it.
He isn't aloud to call any of my families phones or come within 500ft of my house, I also have a restraining order on him for both my son and myself.

Exactly, that's what my ex said about me. Even though I cheated on him once but that was at theme d of our relationship with the guy I'm with now. To me after I was put through I felt justified in it. And exactly I know your pain, m y ex pulled the same crap with me, that he could do whatever but I just sat at home where he could keep an eye on me which I really didn't like that at all. So I understand completely.

And he kicked you out one night while you were pregnant? What the hell is that guys issue? Regardless of what you fight about, pregnant or not you don't just throw someone out. Especially when their pregnant. That a horrible.

Exactly, it's more so the control factor. Mhm. Gah it seems like you pretty much went through what I did lol which sucks. But I ended up marrying mine though which I shouldn't have. But I guess it's a lesson well learned.

Yeah, I'm working on getting a ppo on my ex. My ex kinda isn't all there mentally, so I'm working on that. I have my ex not only harassing me, but my family, my bfs family, my friends. Its kinda ridiclous all to try and get back at me. But yeah good on you for getting that done to him to not only protect yourself but your son too. I'll be a step mom soon so I'm rushing to get my stuff put tthrough, he's already tried to throw my boyfriend's daughter into this, Which is messed up, so I'm getting the divorce and ppo done at the same time.

Wow yea deffently get that done as soon as you can, it'll be so much better once that's all finished for you and your family.

My ex doesn't know or know who my new boyfriend is which is a good thing for me. I don't want him doing what he does to me and my family to his, my bf works hard and doesn't need that bs while he's working.

Yea he's nothing but a rude disrespectful asshole, and he woke me up during the middle of the night cause he wanted sex and I was feeling sick and tired so I told him no and that's why he threw me out. He had to have it his way at all times or it's was all my fault for everything and when I told him I wasn't leaving that night and I'd go in the morning he snatched me by my feet and dragged me out side.
He has a lot of anger issues and is very bi-polair.
He's push and shove me and hit me. It didn't matter if I was pregnant or not, and even when my doctor told him I wasn't to be having sex anymore cause of being pregnant when he wanted it he had to have it and didn't care what my doctor said.
I'm just glad to finally be away from all that, and got my baby out of there before he was born.

He's pathetic.... really amazingly pathetic.

-nods-

oh well... There's nothing I can do that will stop him. so I won't stress.

Nothing no one can do, so no one should stress it

truth. :)

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