Banned from some Furnet channel for telling the truth
10 years ago
Well, I opened my big mouth and told admins that they shouldn't be drinking and think they are fair. This certain channel had 1 or 2 admins who didn't like me for some reason that they have never told me and they probably passed the words. Someone mentioned the name of some old admins who hasn't be there and I had the great idea just to rehash the past about this said admin and his/her drinking problem and they didn't like it one bit. The admin who kicked me even told me he will make sure to permaban me, and as he wrote it, he even included a heart emoticon. Proves you they really didn't like me there to mock me of such way.
I think I will take some vacations from IRC for a while. I did take vacations for a long period of time in the past for similar reasons... and somehow, I feel like an asshole... but I think I'm okay with that, because.... I'm not a dragon. :/
Haven't talked to my the family in months... vacations from IRC... not playing on my favorite CS:S server because people think that I'm hacking and that I'm gay... I'm never going out... my social interaction is getting very limited. I'm getting the feeling that I'm really an anti social person.
Perhaps I should be drinking or something. *sighs*
Good night.
I think I will take some vacations from IRC for a while. I did take vacations for a long period of time in the past for similar reasons... and somehow, I feel like an asshole... but I think I'm okay with that, because.... I'm not a dragon. :/
Haven't talked to my the family in months... vacations from IRC... not playing on my favorite CS:S server because people think that I'm hacking and that I'm gay... I'm never going out... my social interaction is getting very limited. I'm getting the feeling that I'm really an anti social person.
Perhaps I should be drinking or something. *sighs*
Good night.
FA+

You still have some friends outside of that too much of a chat thing at my opinion.
Stay awesome like you are Deko! Don't change if there is no need of, just because some drunk guys told you to change because you are not good enough for their pretty faces.
Stay true to yourself and everything should be fine!
If some admins are acting like dicks, you prolly should either contact the head-admin (or file a complaint about those particular admins, something like that (any chat logs available?)), or simply find a different channel.
CS:S d00ds and pretty much all of online gaming are gonna accuse you of hacking and call you gay; that's just the way it works, that's internet, and I've certainly had my share. It's not nice to hear someone shout that to you, but they don't really have the capacity to do much else, so you pretty much have to just dodge it and keep your cool.
Aaand what comes to:
1)Never going out? -Check.
2)Feeling anti-social? -Check.
3)Limited social interactions? -Motherfucking CHECK.
-It's not as uncommon as you might think. Nothing wrong about that either.
BTW, you can be morally superior compared to any twat you encounter. It might not be easy, but at least you have the decency to not be like them.
Stay cool.
Also, administration + "enough" alcohol? Don't you think that equation might have some... erm... interesting results? (At least the way you put it let's me understand that they are drunk while on administrative duty.) That's prolly not the best environment to be under the influence in, especially w/ admin powers.
Btw, was he given any warnings before the kick?
It kinda looks like both sides would have to check themselves before they wreck themselves. That is, articulate in a bit more adult manner, or shut up completely.
Going out and bashing someone for their habits is not cool. Neither is telling the other to basically go fuck themselves with a ban threat coupled with a heart emoticon.
I really feel it's retarded to keep this shit going. Just make up and move on, all of you.
(p.s. just edited "relly" to "really")
The fact is as you stated above, Deko started running his mouth. he likes to do this from time to time. He started bashing two of my admins for going against his opinions, one of which wasn't even in channel to defend themselves.
My admin that had been drinking stepped back and didn't act on it, and I commend him for doing so. One of my sober admins told Deko to back off, which he didn't do, and was booted out of channel. A simple kick. No bans. He adhered to the administrative policy of warn, then kick, then ban if needed.
All in all I as the head admin of the channel, believe this whole situation was handled properly. I merely came here to set the record straight as Deko has completely misrepresented what happened last night.
Apologies for the inconvenience.
That being said, I'm done with this BS.
The admin in question? Yeah hes a bit of a troll. But in my eyes, if you cant handle unprofessionalism, don't act unprofessional yourself. A heart emoticon is hardly something to WTF over. Had my admin wished death or started bashing him back? thats when I'll step in and start scruffing them.
People are awful sometimes. Nothing enrages me more than being forced to reason with the unreasonable.
The human mind is not wired to seek the truth. It's wired to win. :P
Some words of wisdom I always go by.
Source: I run #dragons.
Quit being all emo n crap. And on a side note, causing drama about something that happened ages ago isn't smart either.
However, Deko! You do have a mouth on you from what i remember when i used to go on IRC. I think you toned that down some, but it seems it rears its head from time to time, hehe. Try to catch yourself when you may be doing that...probably when people start getting annoyed with you you need to step back and analyze what you're saying. If you have to make a point about something that happened a long time ago, make sure your point is valid before assuming the worst...i am kinda the pot calling the kettle black though, as i do the same thing regularly. x-x
Its called /join #dragons. The admin told him he was going to see about getting him banned. He didnt tell him he was banned.
If you have problems outside of irc, keep them outside. I'm not the best on this but I sure as hell don't start slamming others because if my own irl problems. The most I'll let cross over is when I'm having a bad day, mostly over my fathers recent passing, and just want support from my friends.
And yes, Deko is rather opinionated, which is what got him in trouble yet again.
Whether or not he was banned or not in reality doesn't matter, he was told he would be so of course he would think he would be. If a higher up that had significant power said something to you to that effect, would you not believe it would come to pass?
...My explanation to his behavior was hypothetical, as i was trying to get you to think why one would act that way with someone that drinks and be more understanding of things instead of just believing Deko's a dick without cause. But it looks like you feel that any past trauma should not affect one's behavior in the present. Obviously whatever happened before with the past drunk admins (or other individuals, hypothetically) left a scar on Deko big enough to be wary of something similar happening again. his actions may have not been correct, but hopefully you can understand why he had such strong feelings.
...I don't exactly like defending blindly, i'd much rather have the context in hand, friend or not. x-x but i always feel that mutual understanding is important in arguments, which is what i'm trying to pursue here.
I do understand your point on this, but its been an age old rule of our channel to keep outside drama, outside. If he really took such offence to one of my admins drinking while being in channel and opped (able to kick, ban, etc) he should not have gone on a bashing tirade on him in channel and against someone else that wasnt there to defend themselves, past scars or not. He should have taken note, and contacted a higher admin privately, like myself.
Edit: Spelling of course.
Perhaps you need to spell check before posting? = P
> ZOMG WHY DID YOU REMOVE ME FROM THE CHANNEL
Cry sum mooaarrrr baaaaaaaaahahahahahahahahahahaha
Protip2: Editing ALL of your posts in a Drama-related thread to be identical makes you look like you are covering something up, and is a really terrible idea.
1/10 DramaThread, Deko, on Both sides. Move on, the both of you.
TBH, leave the typos in if it's a dramathread. Until FA puts in a history system, there's no way to prove your claims.
Everyone's in the wrong here, including me for even posting. Let's move on.
I've been banned from at least three channels from pretty much the same reasons. Don't stress it, let cunts be cunts and just forget about it.