*Giant Facepaw* OK...let me Clarify some things here.....
10 years ago
(¯`·._.·(¯`·._.· One with the Hive ·._.·´¯)·._.·´¯) Ok so this has happened to me on more than 1 occasion.
And i really cant believe im making a journal about this... But i really dont know how to react to it. Am i in the wrong here? or are people just taking this way too far?
Its soo unbelievably childish i cant even fathom where people get these concepts and understandings for it.
Ive Created The Bal'Kar for myself and for others to enjoy, I love sharing its concepts with everyone. Lots of people love it, Lots don't, i get that.
But some people take it to such personal extremes, as if its somehow integrated into the very fabric of real life events, or as if I myself am the embodiment of the creature ive made and designed, as if it somehow has an impact on the decisions i make in real life situations.
NO!!!!!
Just.......
NO!!!!!
Ok for example.
If i note or shout to someone saying things like *wraps tentacles around you and starts to corrupt you*
Lets say that person has a partner...or someone else that is interested in said person i have shouted to.
They then think i am encroaching on that person like im ACTUALLY going to coerce them into corruption and legit take that person away IRL.
Ok so...maybe I'm learning a lesson here...i dont know. Am i going too far in my little twerks to others that have interests in my designs?
or are they just acting so unbelievably ridiculous.
I get it people are in closed relationships and whatnot. I myself am in one. but that shouldn't stop me from relating to others should it?
Those kinds of shouts to me is just playing around, having fun with them.
I just cant see the big deal over why some people would get so worked up about it.
I am a Fishmonger in real life, i have a business, my own department, my own life i run separately from my other fantasies like the Bal'Kar or even the Furry community in general.
Bal'Kar is not on the mind 24/7......as much as i'd LIKE it to be!
that is simply just not the case.
But people think that im actually trying to Rub of some of this Bal'Kar "taint" (their nature) onto others....as if this is actually what i do in the real world
I just.....
NO!!!!!
And i really cant believe im making a journal about this... But i really dont know how to react to it. Am i in the wrong here? or are people just taking this way too far?
Its soo unbelievably childish i cant even fathom where people get these concepts and understandings for it.
Ive Created The Bal'Kar for myself and for others to enjoy, I love sharing its concepts with everyone. Lots of people love it, Lots don't, i get that.
But some people take it to such personal extremes, as if its somehow integrated into the very fabric of real life events, or as if I myself am the embodiment of the creature ive made and designed, as if it somehow has an impact on the decisions i make in real life situations.
NO!!!!!
Just.......
NO!!!!!
Ok for example.
If i note or shout to someone saying things like *wraps tentacles around you and starts to corrupt you*
Lets say that person has a partner...or someone else that is interested in said person i have shouted to.
They then think i am encroaching on that person like im ACTUALLY going to coerce them into corruption and legit take that person away IRL.
Ok so...maybe I'm learning a lesson here...i dont know. Am i going too far in my little twerks to others that have interests in my designs?
or are they just acting so unbelievably ridiculous.
I get it people are in closed relationships and whatnot. I myself am in one. but that shouldn't stop me from relating to others should it?
Those kinds of shouts to me is just playing around, having fun with them.
I just cant see the big deal over why some people would get so worked up about it.
I am a Fishmonger in real life, i have a business, my own department, my own life i run separately from my other fantasies like the Bal'Kar or even the Furry community in general.
Bal'Kar is not on the mind 24/7......as much as i'd LIKE it to be!
that is simply just not the case.
But people think that im actually trying to Rub of some of this Bal'Kar "taint" (their nature) onto others....as if this is actually what i do in the real world
I just.....
NO!!!!!
FA+

*hugs your tentacles*
Its Definitely a mental thing. I'm totally cool and understanding that people run their lives a lot differently to each other. Sometimes life events leave scars that result to social anxiety.
It hurts me when people Shun those others with them kinds of disabilities without first realizing it.
You can go to Conventions and see people that you cant help but raise an eyebrow at. But at the same time i realize there are reasons behind it and i take it from their perspective.
That way i can still accept them and be nice to them. But there are just things you just dont do...and this is one of them. Despite what mental conditions you have.
*huffs and Squirts ink at you*
*Murrs covered in ink* Yesss.
*offers you to shake my tentacle in agreement*
*Squish*
Um, yeah. Glad we could agree on this.
I suppose some people get so far into this RP stuff that they lose the ability to determine what is real and what is not. My general idea of roleplay is that things are all pretend.
People really need to calm down.
*Hides from the Bal'kar*
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KHJbSvidohg
I wish you luck with it all though, it can be a bit much at times.
Regardless, I'm gonna flop onto your tentacles now. *Does just that and hugs the slimey things.*
Secondly: You own your own business? Dude, that is AMAZING. :D
I just adore you for your squishiness, tentacles, and freedom
Oh, and of course cuteness!
Some people need to take a chill pill
personally if you did that to me i wouldn't even acknowledge it, i find persona play childish and only do it when im mocking fictional characters from films/games i like.