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10 years ago
Whenever i have the spare time, I will respond to messages whether they are notes from here or anywhere people ends up finding me. If you find me on other sites and you do not know if it is me, you can contact me here to make sure.
However, there are certain things to keep in mind when you do try to keep in contact with me:
-For one thing, overall, I am not talkative. One of my dearest friends knows that I love seeing her messages, no matter if its a greeting, or if its to show me something silly. She also knows that if I am there and she needs me, I'd be responding to her in a heartbeat. I care for all of my friends, but I am not a good friend in general. Regular talks isn't my thing, some of the times I do end up forcing myself, and that drains me. So, for many cases, expect either slow or dropped conversations. Its not you, its more of the fact that I like to be in my world. Just be aware that I see everything you send me, even if I don't respond.
-If you find me on other sites, you can hit me up on there, if you don't think its me, message where you do know its really me. I will tell you right away if that is the real deal or not.
-If you find me on skype, and you add me, I HAVE to have a reason why you want to be on my list. I don't like randoms very much. If you need to commission me, or if you want to try to be friends and you found me on so-so site, I need to know
-If you are on my Steam, I hate being messaged there. I find it stupid and annoying, especially when I play my games. I've recently edited my settings to where i won't get the pop ups anymore, or the sounds. If you need me, and you have my skype/facebook/twitter, then hit me up there. Otherwise your messages WILL be ignored, no matter how important this is.
-Facebook is facebook, if you find me, YAY. I might not add you or let you add me, though. I try to keep it towards select friends, and family. I only keep FB for messenger, anyways. But I will say that I've seen quite a few familiar faces through the suggested friends bit. But you probably won't recognize me unless you are familiar with my real name.
Whether I am at work, drawing, or playing games. I am always doing something. I am sorry for sounding like a big dick, but I like my space. I've been alone for so long, that I am used to staying alone. I've had a lot of great friends at one time, but in the end, I can't manage anyone truly trustworthy. Most wants something from me, and its not what I can give them.... And I am just sick and tired of constantly reminding them that fact.
Anyways... I figured to have this off my chest so I can go back underground and do what I can
However, there are certain things to keep in mind when you do try to keep in contact with me:
-For one thing, overall, I am not talkative. One of my dearest friends knows that I love seeing her messages, no matter if its a greeting, or if its to show me something silly. She also knows that if I am there and she needs me, I'd be responding to her in a heartbeat. I care for all of my friends, but I am not a good friend in general. Regular talks isn't my thing, some of the times I do end up forcing myself, and that drains me. So, for many cases, expect either slow or dropped conversations. Its not you, its more of the fact that I like to be in my world. Just be aware that I see everything you send me, even if I don't respond.
-If you find me on other sites, you can hit me up on there, if you don't think its me, message where you do know its really me. I will tell you right away if that is the real deal or not.
-If you find me on skype, and you add me, I HAVE to have a reason why you want to be on my list. I don't like randoms very much. If you need to commission me, or if you want to try to be friends and you found me on so-so site, I need to know
-If you are on my Steam, I hate being messaged there. I find it stupid and annoying, especially when I play my games. I've recently edited my settings to where i won't get the pop ups anymore, or the sounds. If you need me, and you have my skype/facebook/twitter, then hit me up there. Otherwise your messages WILL be ignored, no matter how important this is.
-Facebook is facebook, if you find me, YAY. I might not add you or let you add me, though. I try to keep it towards select friends, and family. I only keep FB for messenger, anyways. But I will say that I've seen quite a few familiar faces through the suggested friends bit. But you probably won't recognize me unless you are familiar with my real name.
Whether I am at work, drawing, or playing games. I am always doing something. I am sorry for sounding like a big dick, but I like my space. I've been alone for so long, that I am used to staying alone. I've had a lot of great friends at one time, but in the end, I can't manage anyone truly trustworthy. Most wants something from me, and its not what I can give them.... And I am just sick and tired of constantly reminding them that fact.
Anyways... I figured to have this off my chest so I can go back underground and do what I can
Kimi_On_Kibbles
~kimionkibbles
I can respect that. From my interactions with you you're an awesome person and I'm always here if you need it.
WolfMoonDesires
~wolfmoondesires
OP
ovo; Awesome person? Are you sure you are not confusing me with someone else?
Kimi_On_Kibbles
~kimionkibbles
Absolutely not. XD You don't have to be outgoing or in constant contact to be awesome.
Megan Bryar
~meganbryar
I don't think you sound bad. It makes perfect sense to me. I love my friends, and if someone genuinely needs to get in touch with me I'll drop everything for them. But for the most part, I'm really bad at conversations, especially if it's nothing but small talk, and dealing with even my dearest friends can be pretty draining sometimes. I've always been very much an introvert, and I can definitely sympathize with people needing their space. It seems like keeping in constant contact with people is the done thing now, and you're somehow rude for not wanting to constantly be on some kind of messaging service or social site, but it's not something I can deal with very long, either, and I really hope that people will be understanding.
WolfMoonDesires
~wolfmoondesires
OP
Y'know its always a worry of mine when it comes down to this. I always feel like I am imposing, or being a total asshole, which is why you'd see me end up apologizing or trying to reconfirm that I am not (most of the time I sound pissed anyways, so it gets stressful when people think I am what I am not)
Ursa-Mina
~ursa-mina
*huggles lots an' lots*
