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It doesn't get better....
10 years ago
Have you ever been at a point in your life where no matter what you do, you are constantly being knocked down to the ground at every turn?
This is where I'm at right now. I feel like I just can't catch a break. After I moved out from my ex, things were ok. I was adjusting and enjoying my new place. That lasted all of a month. I have since found out the my roommates, who I am, for a good part, financially dependant upon are looking for another place to live. All because the 4th person they moved in a few weeks ago without any notice, who doesn't have a job and who just sits here and plays the ps4, is doing more cleaning than I am. The original agreement was I keep the house clean and pay the utilities, while the other 2 pay the rent. I pay less than them, so I was ok with that. Until they moved the other guy in, I had no notice. They came home and said he would be here in 3 days. He doesn't have a job and doesn't seem to be looking for one. I assumed that, since I am at least paying something, he would do the cleaning. I was wrong, I was supposed to be completely ok with bringing another person in and support him fully, He shouldn't be doing most of the cleaning, that's still my job. Oh, and when he does get a job, he won't be paying anything at all. And they refuse to put him on the lease, which not only breaks our lease agreement, it also breaks the law because the state requires anyone over the age of 18 be on the lease.
So now those three are looking for another place to live and the only reason I know about it was because the new guy was kind enough to tell me. I wouldn't of even known anything until the day they wanted to be signed off the lease because that's what she did to a mutual friend about a year ago. I have no idea what I'm going to do. I can't keep up the place by myself and I'm not gonna find roommates that will agree to pay more than me. I called the renting company and from my understanding, they probably won't even let me stay if the others get signed off the lease because they know I can't afford it. I'm stuck and scared and honestly I just want my life to be quiet for a while. I have never been so full of anger and rage than I have been the past week. I have done nothing to these people and they don't care what effects their actions have on the people around them. Everyone said it was gonna get better after I move and if anything it's gotten worse.
This is where I'm at right now. I feel like I just can't catch a break. After I moved out from my ex, things were ok. I was adjusting and enjoying my new place. That lasted all of a month. I have since found out the my roommates, who I am, for a good part, financially dependant upon are looking for another place to live. All because the 4th person they moved in a few weeks ago without any notice, who doesn't have a job and who just sits here and plays the ps4, is doing more cleaning than I am. The original agreement was I keep the house clean and pay the utilities, while the other 2 pay the rent. I pay less than them, so I was ok with that. Until they moved the other guy in, I had no notice. They came home and said he would be here in 3 days. He doesn't have a job and doesn't seem to be looking for one. I assumed that, since I am at least paying something, he would do the cleaning. I was wrong, I was supposed to be completely ok with bringing another person in and support him fully, He shouldn't be doing most of the cleaning, that's still my job. Oh, and when he does get a job, he won't be paying anything at all. And they refuse to put him on the lease, which not only breaks our lease agreement, it also breaks the law because the state requires anyone over the age of 18 be on the lease.
So now those three are looking for another place to live and the only reason I know about it was because the new guy was kind enough to tell me. I wouldn't of even known anything until the day they wanted to be signed off the lease because that's what she did to a mutual friend about a year ago. I have no idea what I'm going to do. I can't keep up the place by myself and I'm not gonna find roommates that will agree to pay more than me. I called the renting company and from my understanding, they probably won't even let me stay if the others get signed off the lease because they know I can't afford it. I'm stuck and scared and honestly I just want my life to be quiet for a while. I have never been so full of anger and rage than I have been the past week. I have done nothing to these people and they don't care what effects their actions have on the people around them. Everyone said it was gonna get better after I move and if anything it's gotten worse.
What I can't understand is how people can do that to others..
And why is it that you're getting stuck with the lease since they're the original holders?
It almost sounds like they brought you in to put you on the lease so they could get out of it..
I have not done anything to them to warrant this. From my understanding Mary just cannot stand to live with me because I "don't clean", which her place before this was always gross, but this place is apparently disgusting, and I leave the toilet lid up, then the cats play in the water. I've gone 25 years without having to worry about that, it's gonna take more than a month to break that habit.