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10 years ago
So, I think I've done something stupid.
I think I rushed into this relationship with a friend of mine
and I have come to realize, that I don't love him. Everything he does annoys me and makes me angry.
Even something like "Hey honey" or "I love you" makes me angry and upset.
Maybe it's because I don't really love it.
Maybe he ruined it by constantly asking "What are you doing honey?" and then he got insulted when I told him to stop constantly asking.
Now my parents, or well, my dad, is saying that I can not just break up with my boyfriend because it would 'hurt' him, but is it fair to him that I am with him when I don't even love him and everything he does annoys me?
Like, he apporached me today and my immediate reply was "Not now."
Stone cold, no emotion, no nothing and I do not reply to his messages already, cause he's annoying and bothering me to no end.
So how do I break up with him without 'hurting' him?
I mean, I could continue freezing him out or 'ghost' him.
But idk, that would be mean?
I'm not a good person, I know that, but I am not really gonna try and change in this exact situation.
I am almost 100% that I have lost all feelings.
Like, I'm just angry and annoyed with everything.
I think I rushed into this relationship with a friend of mine
and I have come to realize, that I don't love him. Everything he does annoys me and makes me angry.
Even something like "Hey honey" or "I love you" makes me angry and upset.
Maybe it's because I don't really love it.
Maybe he ruined it by constantly asking "What are you doing honey?" and then he got insulted when I told him to stop constantly asking.
Now my parents, or well, my dad, is saying that I can not just break up with my boyfriend because it would 'hurt' him, but is it fair to him that I am with him when I don't even love him and everything he does annoys me?
Like, he apporached me today and my immediate reply was "Not now."
Stone cold, no emotion, no nothing and I do not reply to his messages already, cause he's annoying and bothering me to no end.
So how do I break up with him without 'hurting' him?
I mean, I could continue freezing him out or 'ghost' him.
But idk, that would be mean?
I'm not a good person, I know that, but I am not really gonna try and change in this exact situation.
I am almost 100% that I have lost all feelings.
Like, I'm just angry and annoyed with everything.
If its come to that, I think confronting him and telling him politely how you honestly feel is important. There is no need for you to stay in a relationship if you are unhappy. More than likely if your partner knew you were unhappy they would be unhappy too. Because a relationship isn't a one sided thing. So. Explaining to him how you feel seems like the best option. It will hurt him, I'm sure. But I'd think he'd rather you be happy than to fake your happiness in this one. Just my two cents though. What do I know about relationships. Pfffh.
