Fursonaly i love it when hir's presence makes me want to roll over and submit to hir while feeling warm and safe at the same time.
Kinky stuff is fun and all but the periods of intimacy are what makes life worth living especially when getting petted and being called a good girl

So i guse to sumerise id have to say Gravitas, a strong Will/Personality and being Intament when earned

Hnnnng yes this is so true

I want my mistress to discipline me, and make me WANT to serve her with the promise of rewards, I want one thats kinky, and rewarding, but punishes when i've been naughty

Gotta get some cuddle time in ^-^

I want her to pry, and force me to tell her every kink idea and fantasy I've ever had, and use them against me forcefully~ She would keep me dressed up in latex, or a nice sissy dress at all times, and I would have to sleep in a cage. And whenever she desired, she could use me for her pleasure. <3

I can relate and agree to this pretty much 100%. I don't think I could have explained it better. A physically fit, muscular woman is very attractive to me, and I would love to submit myself to one. Also, if I might add my personal bit, I like a mistress who is very dominant, one who would step on me constantly to show me my place under her feet, one who would tug on my leash to follow her on all fours. Maybe she could mix-in some abuse, since I can be quite the masoquist, hehe... This is more embarassing than I thought it was gonna be...

Hmm. Well, I was rented for BDSM play, which exposed me (heh) to women of different ages and experience levels. Some just wanted me for sex, but most were willing to work with my feelings; after all, it was LARP, not just fantasy.

I prefer a Mistress who knows what She wants, but also knows I'm trained and doesn't try to break me as if I was an unwilling captive. I like a bit of spanking when it's fun for us both, and I do enjoy *playing* reluctant.

As far as the sex... of course we're all consenting adults, right? Start me out on my knees, hold the leash and tug gently - that's all it takes to give me permission to crawl to Your feet, kiss and lick Your shoes. Let me undo them and put them aside respectfully.

Please don't just poke Your toes in my mouth; don't just wait for me to submit or expect me to know what You want. Order me, please. Tell me to kiss Your feet, let Yourself enjoy my lips; then tell me to lick. Please remember that a command implies permission.

I'll lick Your right foot first, the outer side from toe to ankle, the inner side; then Your left foot the same way. Long, languid, slow licks, darting my tongue in my mouth and back to its task. Once You're relaxed, push me on my back and walk on me if You like.

-- tl;dr -- I'm a kinky foxboy; try me, you might like me

Yup, I agree with the ordering part. I do like being ordered around by a dominant woman.

Mistress qualities...Facesitting and ballbusting as punishment to motivate me to obey. And be cruel to make me nervous and scared of her dominance.

I’m looking for a mistress. One who wants to take advantages of me and use me in public scenarios in RP. I also really giant boobs. Another thing is that I like my mistress to be very dom and bimbo like~ I’d love to be used by a mistress whenever she needs me~ I’m your own personal derg toy that you can do whatever you want with~ UWU

anything lmao

I'm a difficult person to please when it comes to those in a role of dominance. I am very upfront with what I want, what my boundaries are, what I do and don't like, etc and I expect the same brutal honesty from my partner(s). I despise when a dominant figure doesn't communicate and its the fastest way to get me to stop submitting.

If I can't trust you, I can't submit to you.

Much of my vetting process has to do with building a safety net of trust and support outside of scene play. Whoever is over me should, in theory, be equally if not more excited and willing to speak and explore our wants and needs.

I'm not interested in being someone's unicorn.

I dislike hierarchy, and while I am Polyamorous, it is only in regards to throuples. I don't do group nesting with a bunch of people I'm not personally dedicated to, as it doesn't make me feel as cherished. Which is one of my heavy kinks (praise). That said, I'm happy that it works for others. It's just not something I'd seek out in a Mistress for myself.

I don't expect my domme to be constantly in control. I'm independent, capable of fulfilling my own needs, and relatively low maintenance. That said, I do expect my domme to want control enough to try and take it from me. I'm a rough scene kinda gal and while there is certainly a time and place for being gentle, if the Mistress is only capable of empty threats and occasional "Good girl's" I'm going to get bored fast.

Notably, the rough play doesn't even have to be a punishment. Since I'm also a primal switch it can easily just be spur of the moment, and people who can work with things in the moment (or even better, develop a contract for them to be done later when its not expected) are the best. Physical punishment hardly works on me thanks to Sadomasochistic tendencies so lots of preying on the emotional side of things is the easiest way to get me to fall in line. I'm not difficult as a person, I'm just not typical.

Hopefully, I'll find a domme that matches these qualities to some degree. If even just for some quality fun. ♡

As for smaller unrelated notes:

_{- note that these are bonuses, not necessary -}

☆ I love it when my Mistress is taller or shorter than me; in fact opposing aesthetic in general is a minor turn on to some degree

☆ Red hair is such a weakness

☆ The more sadistic the better, especially when it's played up for dramatic effects

☆ Futa characters are cool because I have a breeding kink as well as a CNC kink, so a Mistress who fulfills those needs? Perfection.

☆ Aftercare is and always will be underrated; hold me, tell me I'm pretty, be interested in my concerns, watch cartoons with me, etc.

☆ Territorial natures make me melt

☆ Defensive/Aggressive reactions to defend me also make me melt

☆ Know how to use your words. I'm a writer. I appreciate wit just as much as dirty talk.

☆ Speaking of which, I do roleplay. I am literate, and I prefer paragraphs of detail. Minimum. I personally aim for 250 words but sometimes it can easily turn into 1k. If you like to roleplay great. Just try and keep up with me. There's no greater turn off then putting in a lot of effort and having someone respond with one or two sentences of garbage.

The list goes on really.