Are you talking about the kink or the lifestyle? Cause, not everyone is out for their buttons to be pressed. I serve my Mistress cause she has earned my trust, loyalty and gained a strong bond with me. Whatever else comes after all that is just icing on the cake for her as I've given her my entire life.

Some just wish to experience being controlled for the kink, while others do it to feel true purpose in their life and to serve someone worthy of it that they completely trust without question. The first being just for sex while the other can be completely sexless, I make my mistress smile by simply bringing her hot tea and doing what I can to support and make her life easier. ^.=.~ Seeing her smile, hearing her laugh and knowing she is safe and healthy is what empowers me to continue this lifestyle.

So I ask you again, please do clarify for us ^^ <3

Whichever applies. The reason you enjoy the lifestyle should not matter as you will do what fill your need. Whether it be the kink or the lifestyle, something attracts you to them.

I like a pet I can nurture and direct. Pet play is non-sexual for me and my hubby. It's time for playing games like fetch or just cuddling with lots of ear scratching and tummy rubs.

All good pets should be willing to do as their told.. not fighting the truth of their status before their owner~ They should be very honest well asked to speak their mind and heart's desires~