more devastating news piles up...
9 years ago
This year is slapping me in the face with one blow after another..
First, two weeks ago my mate Garthwolf gave up on me and ended our relationship.. (left me) his reasons he claims was the distance, but i feel there is more.
I took Rudy to the Vet hospital today for a scheduled removal of some bad teeth, but something much, worse was found..
He has advanced cancer in his mouth, tongue, gums and lower jaw.. He has been loosing a lot of weight over the last few weeks, and it was thought to be due to bad teeth, but its much more serious than that. The Doc will clean his teeth for now, and put him on a strong antibiotic & pain meds to help him, but the prognosis is bad, he may only have a couple weeks left to live...
Losing Rudy will be a double blow after losing my Garthwolf. I do not know how i will be able to cope with the loneliness and pain of all this.
First, two weeks ago my mate Garthwolf gave up on me and ended our relationship.. (left me) his reasons he claims was the distance, but i feel there is more.
I took Rudy to the Vet hospital today for a scheduled removal of some bad teeth, but something much, worse was found..
He has advanced cancer in his mouth, tongue, gums and lower jaw.. He has been loosing a lot of weight over the last few weeks, and it was thought to be due to bad teeth, but its much more serious than that. The Doc will clean his teeth for now, and put him on a strong antibiotic & pain meds to help him, but the prognosis is bad, he may only have a couple weeks left to live...
Losing Rudy will be a double blow after losing my Garthwolf. I do not know how i will be able to cope with the loneliness and pain of all this.
I hope we can talk more at MCFC.. :(
There is a lot of good in you! Rudy has been amd forever will be a great member of your family and will always have good memories of the times together.
Though it may be hard to keep your chin up, there are people whom you can lean on if you need it, and I offer my support during this difficult time. <3
This years didn't start well for i either
Still lonely because nobody truely like me and show it and betrayaled by own country made by a big bunches of trolls that keep harassing me to death even still now .
It's hard to lost a relationship and even harder, I think, to lost a pet, a friend for life.... I hope you will give him wunderful last weeks of his life!! He surely deserves it!
I lost two friends last year cause of cancer, and my cat. And my mate lost his cat cause of cancer too, last year and he still is struggleing with the death of his cat....
It's always more than sad, to see and feel all this sorrow. We lose a part of our heart, everyone of us.
It's often hard to believe, life will go on... But remember all the great times, never forget these memories and keep on someday..
Wish you all the mest *hugs*
About your dog, double ouch. It's always sad to lose someone that has been 12 years and a helf by your side . For the time he has left, give him the best he's had in his life.
all this happened to you
hugs
im here for you if you want to talk .
Dont forget those around you who love and support you.
I know you will take care of Rudy just as you always have. Spend as much time with him as he wants and be happy together. He has been fortunate to have someone to love him...and in the end...that's all any of us can ask for.
*tight hugs*
I'm so sorry about all this. All you can really do for Rudy is keep him comfortable and be there with him until the very end. We're all here for you if there's anything we can do.
Its never an easy thing to go through these things as our pain reflects all the good times and love we will miss, but we are nothing but blessed in the end for having experienced the good times and love.
Try to hold it together.
My love to Rudy.
Keep your chin up & comfort Rudy as best you can~
This is how its got to be, and you are powerless over this all except how you choose to respond, and it's very difficult to see any positively in this moment... but know, when you look back at this road that life has forced you on- perhaps it may be a blessing in disguise which lead you to things you would have never stumbled upon otherwise.