how else to express i'm not interested in African Americans? lol

but I digress, I do need to change my profile, it was written long long ago, at a time when my life was probably at it's bleakest..

however, if I don't look, I won't find. and being me is mostly what I do, so that's never panned out in the many years that i've had this account and not bothered looking, it just won't do to sit still and do nothing

Easy snags, that's all i'm going to say

I respect your opinion, just not in the way it's being delivered. Ozone is a good friend of mine, and have great respect for him, thus I feel I should have respect for you too as well, but this is getting to the point of actual abuse, Insulting me up and down when you hardly even know me. Ozone is more acquainted to what i've been through, and is quite sensible when dealing with people, something I admire.

Second, you're making a lot of assumptions about me snags, I don't consider anyone trash, I just happen to have a personal preference, is that a bad thing? do people who are gay consider women trash? no, they don't, so how is this any different?

also, I don't force anything on anyone, dating sites are made for the purpose of finding a special someone. I don't go looking on FA mind you, but if I see someone else looking on FA, why not try?

regardless Snags, all I gotta say is that you misjudge me something fierce, and I would appreciate a stop with the hurling of insults as if they were a penny a piece.

Thank you.

How I appear "to you" maybe is a more accurate statement, but while we're in the subject of pointing out character flaws, I think being this blunt about it is in fact a character flaw of in of itself.

Insulting people however you see fit, just because you see it that way. You know... I could be quite brutally blunt about you too if I wanted to, but I don't, because quite frankly, it's beneath me.

but while we're on the subject, consider knowing someone first, before jumping the gun misjudging someone as terribly as you just did with me.

calling me a jerk, calling me a creep, making assumptions that i'm an abuser, a stalker, that I see everyone as trash... calling me obsessive, and desperate, does any of this not constitute as an insult to me? especially when I'm none of these things? Honey, this calls for a reality check.

I'm 28 years old, I've never sought after a special someone, hell, i've never even had a single girl friend, and you're calling me desperate? I have to start looking at some point or other, lest time slips by me entirely. Most people find some one in their early 20's, I'm almost 30 here, and you're calling me desperate? that's what's actually laughable.

No, I'm not interested in the advice, especially from someone who bases her entire preaching criteria around unfounded assumptions... but thanks anyways.