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does "apologizing" actually help at all?
9 years ago
does it? seems like no matter what i say or do i'm turning into a villain, which I've been trying to explain through notes i'm not, that i'm merely "misunderstood" and people take what i say out of context. i say one thing and they think it's mean, nasty and hurtful. very frustrating how people turn on each other like this and it makes me shake my head at us humans in the world. this fur http://www.furaffinity.net/user/eriborn/ is one such person. someone I've known for a awhile, over a year, i think? maybe two years? met her through some other sites and we have a lot in common. needless to say we've been having a "falling out" and like a little kid instead of solving our differences she's doing the whole "blocking" shit. seriously, "blocking" or "ignoring" people NEVER solves the problem, it only "pauses" the issue.
any way i saw on her page a few weeks ago that her nieces school had a shooting? or was it her cousin? i can't remember. anyway she's pissy and pouty because i took her message from Skype wrong. she claims i'm a "grammar Nazi" when i mentioned proper punctuation so no one misreads her message(s) like i do. every. time. really gets on my nerves when people think i'm being an ass when i'm offering advice. those who have known her much longer than i have are used to her messages and know what they mean. i somewhat understand. when she makes more than one sentence though.... >< it feels like it's one sentence, making it hard to read and i misread it, causing issues.
back to my point(sorry, kind of rambling or venting right now ><). i've tried saying sorry, nothing more that i can do. can't walk to her front door, hug her and say "it won't happen again". so does saying sorry actually mean anything these days? does being "nice" and "kind" really mean anything? we live in an age where little 5 year old's can call you a cock sucker and get away with it, with no parental punishment. so is it worth saying sorry to people you've hurt? i don't know any more, i honestly don't. maybe the world is better off being destroyed, and everyone and every thing being destroyed with it :'(
any way i saw on her page a few weeks ago that her nieces school had a shooting? or was it her cousin? i can't remember. anyway she's pissy and pouty because i took her message from Skype wrong. she claims i'm a "grammar Nazi" when i mentioned proper punctuation so no one misreads her message(s) like i do. every. time. really gets on my nerves when people think i'm being an ass when i'm offering advice. those who have known her much longer than i have are used to her messages and know what they mean. i somewhat understand. when she makes more than one sentence though.... >< it feels like it's one sentence, making it hard to read and i misread it, causing issues.
back to my point(sorry, kind of rambling or venting right now ><). i've tried saying sorry, nothing more that i can do. can't walk to her front door, hug her and say "it won't happen again". so does saying sorry actually mean anything these days? does being "nice" and "kind" really mean anything? we live in an age where little 5 year old's can call you a cock sucker and get away with it, with no parental punishment. so is it worth saying sorry to people you've hurt? i don't know any more, i honestly don't. maybe the world is better off being destroyed, and everyone and every thing being destroyed with it :'(
Why don't you call me? Talk things out with a friend. You know I'm here to support you and I'm walking distance. You need to let me know when you're feeling so terrible and I can be a friend and help support you. When we spend time together and you pretend to be happy and we seemingly have a good time together, I have no way of knowing that stuff like this is troubling you. I'm always here. Hang in there.
