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So yeah
9 years ago
I need some advice. I'm 37 years old and no longer sexually active. I wish I could be but I feel as though sex for me has gotten boring and non pleasurable.Not sure if its due to my relationship but when I was in my twenties I was a perverted sex driven freak. All I wanted was sex and lots of it. Now it's like I just snuggles, kisses and no sex. Not sure if this is normal or not or maybe cause of the relationship I'm in.
It varies from person to person, but if you want to still have sex, you can't force yourself physically, mentally and emotionally. The testosterone of men goes down close to their 40s and also usually prostate time checks are around this time. Also if you're depressed, stressed out, a bad diet or not exercising a lot, that's also a factor too.
Wolger2579
~wolger2579
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Thank you I really appreciate it. I doubt anything is wrong with said testosterone or prostate. Stress and depression is a huge factor I'm guessing. Its hard to be active when you are not really happy.
The-Inverted-Rainbow
~the-inverted-rainbow
Yeah I feel that. I'm on certain meds that's suppressing my sex drive really low and I'm only feeling intimate is when during certain days/weeks on my cycle and being on birth control it can depending on the hormonal balance, the weather, etc, which THAT means ..I rarely do it.
