Where do I draw the line...
9 years ago
Hi there.
So an irl friend of mine is having life troubles with his family and just problems with himself in general. I'm up at 4:16 am with him for the 3rd night in a row because I don't want this guy out in the rain that's coming down on us over here. But this guy has show up drunk, made rude sexist comments in front of me, no manners to speak of and practically burping in my face, trying to drag me out of the house at night to go pick up random girls, and trying to pressure me into drinking with him when I've repeatedly over and over and over again, declined his drinks. It's wearing my patience thin.
I don't mean to be rude, he's my friend. I don't want to kick him to the curb while it's raining, I dunno where he'd end up. He's gotten into fights outside of stores while wandering around before coming to my place. He is offering me to just let me go to sleep, but no way in hell am I leaving him alone in my house while he's drunk and smoking.
So I ask you, where do I draw the line?
Am I the one with the problem?
Or is it him?
I don't mean to be rude, he's my friend. I don't want to kick him to the curb while it's raining, I dunno where he'd end up. He's gotten into fights outside of stores while wandering around before coming to my place. He is offering me to just let me go to sleep, but no way in hell am I leaving him alone in my house while he's drunk and smoking.
So I ask you, where do I draw the line?
Am I the one with the problem?
Or is it him?
FA+

My place, my rules. No drinking. If you're drunk, you're out.
If you can't respect that, it means you don't wanna be here.
But maybe am I a bit too rough?
I just think that if someone chose drinking and acting badly instead of acting normally to stay at your place, it just means they don't want/deserve to stay.
I am.... Extremely strict when it comes to my friends it seems,.... No friend will come to your door to abuse you and your home
But yeah, I understand your point. I shouldn't let him do this.
Before it you should negotiate and evidence everyone before judge him