Miami Furs is a disappointment
9 years ago
I should first mention that long before my falling out with them, I never felt welcomed! Never. And if you are turned off by rants. Then ignore this, art will continue as normal.
And believe it or not,but outside of this furry drama. Things are looking up for me and getting a job in my career field!
But since there is furry drama I am letting it air out.
Sure there was a couple friendly ppl. But like all things typical of Miami. Many miami furs are fake inside and out. Some more than others. I didn't want to accept this, but like all truths you can't deny them forever.
That local scene is now just a club House for a favorite few. Of which, should your opinion be different, then you too will be thrown out. Now I was not kicked out of the group. Rather stripped of my title(one I didn't ask for BTW, but performed fairly becuz that's who i am.) But since that happened I'm glad, they finally showed me the truth . I had no friends there. Confirming for me,that many Mimai Furs are not friendly and just fake.
Which for me is really sad. Because for a very very long time, I never even knew that there was a local thing. But whether I'm in anything or not I will always be true to who I am.
I give back what is given to me. So if you end up showing me just how fake you are, I will call you out and cut you out of my life. Should this scar me, oh well. I will move on.
I know ppl won't like my rant.But they don't know really how long i spent being alone. Not knowing about the local scene of furries. And now that I finally did find them. Many are fake as fuck,typical Miami petty and out to shame/bully/bash anyone who's opinion is different. There are many hypocrisies in the Miami Furs and I called out some and was punished for it. But I personally witnessed a mountain of shit talking from many admins. About many people in the Miami group. And all of that was tolerated, becuz of who was saying it. And they know who they are. But when I did it, i was told to at first get over it and when i didnt, that was not accepted. Even though I witness many long conversations of shit talking, apparely I talked about persons who where "off limits" Fuck that. None of them are special. All of them are furries just like me. None of them are better than me so I'm not going to force myself to feel bad over being pushed out.
Now I'm not saying everyone is bad. But the admins who do run it, definitely play the fake ass game. Weather they are part of the machine or just scared they would be kicked out if they dont. I will not be forced to be fake. Be forced to like ppl I don't. And I will not have my words twisted
I am a very fair person. So I will not say I didn't talk shit. But lemme tell you, if I talk shit about your ass. It will not be lies nor will it be fake.
So if you by chance have issues with me, that's kind of an achievement. Becuz I don't do that extra shit, drama is not my thing. I don't like it but I am not a push over.
I also believe if you don't live in miami, then you should not be admin of a Miami chat. Just saying!
So if you feel like I'm a bitch for speaking my mind. Oh well we don't have to agree to get along. But i will not be force to do something just to please ppl. Local or otherwise. I am real and refuse to be fake.
My opinion of ppl change depending on how they treat me. I've made friends with ppl who I used to hate and I make haters from beloved friends. But that's life, I can't force ppl to love me. And that's something I won't do for other ppl either.
And if that is a problem, then get in line hater.
I don't care what ppl think, ppl will always talk shit. But I will never be fake unless it's for a job. But not in my personal life. And this is my personal life
So if you love me and u show me love. I love u too and I appreciate you.
If you are a hater. Oh well bitch, I don't fucking like you too.
And if this shoe fit your feet and you feel some type of way. MAY BE SOMETHING I SAID WAS TRUE. And the truth cannot be buried forever.
I'm no angel , I make mistakes but I'm not fake either.
#realAF
And believe it or not,but outside of this furry drama. Things are looking up for me and getting a job in my career field!
But since there is furry drama I am letting it air out.
Sure there was a couple friendly ppl. But like all things typical of Miami. Many miami furs are fake inside and out. Some more than others. I didn't want to accept this, but like all truths you can't deny them forever.
That local scene is now just a club House for a favorite few. Of which, should your opinion be different, then you too will be thrown out. Now I was not kicked out of the group. Rather stripped of my title(one I didn't ask for BTW, but performed fairly becuz that's who i am.) But since that happened I'm glad, they finally showed me the truth . I had no friends there. Confirming for me,that many Mimai Furs are not friendly and just fake.
Which for me is really sad. Because for a very very long time, I never even knew that there was a local thing. But whether I'm in anything or not I will always be true to who I am.
I give back what is given to me. So if you end up showing me just how fake you are, I will call you out and cut you out of my life. Should this scar me, oh well. I will move on.
I know ppl won't like my rant.But they don't know really how long i spent being alone. Not knowing about the local scene of furries. And now that I finally did find them. Many are fake as fuck,typical Miami petty and out to shame/bully/bash anyone who's opinion is different. There are many hypocrisies in the Miami Furs and I called out some and was punished for it. But I personally witnessed a mountain of shit talking from many admins. About many people in the Miami group. And all of that was tolerated, becuz of who was saying it. And they know who they are. But when I did it, i was told to at first get over it and when i didnt, that was not accepted. Even though I witness many long conversations of shit talking, apparely I talked about persons who where "off limits" Fuck that. None of them are special. All of them are furries just like me. None of them are better than me so I'm not going to force myself to feel bad over being pushed out.
Now I'm not saying everyone is bad. But the admins who do run it, definitely play the fake ass game. Weather they are part of the machine or just scared they would be kicked out if they dont. I will not be forced to be fake. Be forced to like ppl I don't. And I will not have my words twisted
I am a very fair person. So I will not say I didn't talk shit. But lemme tell you, if I talk shit about your ass. It will not be lies nor will it be fake.
So if you by chance have issues with me, that's kind of an achievement. Becuz I don't do that extra shit, drama is not my thing. I don't like it but I am not a push over.
I also believe if you don't live in miami, then you should not be admin of a Miami chat. Just saying!
So if you feel like I'm a bitch for speaking my mind. Oh well we don't have to agree to get along. But i will not be force to do something just to please ppl. Local or otherwise. I am real and refuse to be fake.
My opinion of ppl change depending on how they treat me. I've made friends with ppl who I used to hate and I make haters from beloved friends. But that's life, I can't force ppl to love me. And that's something I won't do for other ppl either.
And if that is a problem, then get in line hater.
I don't care what ppl think, ppl will always talk shit. But I will never be fake unless it's for a job. But not in my personal life. And this is my personal life
So if you love me and u show me love. I love u too and I appreciate you.
If you are a hater. Oh well bitch, I don't fucking like you too.
And if this shoe fit your feet and you feel some type of way. MAY BE SOMETHING I SAID WAS TRUE. And the truth cannot be buried forever.
I'm no angel , I make mistakes but I'm not fake either.
#realAF
Also there's a clique mentality so it's really common for people to get left out.
Not to mention most of them are under 20, which is fine but it makes it harder for me to connect with them, you know?
Especially since I'm a huge social drinker and I like drinking with company.
I've met a very small handful (like two/three people) that I get along with but that's it, and it sucks. All the people I would hang out with live in other states/countries.
I often also find myself saying, everybody I would hang out with lives far the fuck away from me
I hate drama but at the same time I hate being fake in my personal life. I've never had anything but love for the furry community . But there have been a great many disappointments from ppl I thought where friends, here. Especially from my local scene
I don't like fake people either, I'm too old for the highschool drama shit. Just let me be myself dammit.
Come join SEFFurs! Some of them are also in miamifurs, though, just in case. Either way, shut MF out of your life, they're fucking poison and honestly should be broken up. I also heard of you being stripped of you admin privilege, that is ridiculous...See what I meant before? You're better than they are, so just do you. Happy your life is going well, btw
I should have never gotten involved in trying to fix a problem between two (maybe more) furs.
this mess probably never could have happened had I not done so.
But I can see where you are coming from