A serious question. Your thoughts on furry porn.
9 years ago
Hi,
In the past I had an addiction to furry porn, whereas it was a daily thing for me. It continued for some time until it got to the point where I was having anxiety, and feeling more and more lonely.
Eventually, through much difficulty I reigned in my habits, and asking God to help and break free, I did. Some times I will fall, but it is not often, certainly not daily like it was before, and I am not actively seeking it out any more. It has been a difficult few years but I consider myself to be mostly reformed, as it is no longer an addiction.
During this phase I came to see artists who drew porn as part of the problem, and I refused to add an artist who drew porn to my watch list. To this day my settings are set to "general", if I want to check a gallery I have to go into my settings, enter my password, and set it to "Mature, adult", then go back and visit the page, it makes it hard for me to accidentally leave the SFW filter off and "See" stuff I shouldn't.
Recently though I found some small, mostly defunct furry groups dedicated to keeping things "clean".
What is you guys' thoughts on this? How many here like porn, and I would be interested to know how many really don't care for it, at least the furry stuff. I would love to hear from you.
Recently, though, my attitude has changed, while I am not "Pro porn" it does not help anyone to thumb their nose at people, or make people feel guilty, or bad, because that doesn't help anything and I regret making anyone feel ashamed. While I have overcome a lot, and am not the person I used to be, I am not a pillar of shining righteousness myself XD
So let me know what you think. No judgments. We all struggle with shit.
In the past I had an addiction to furry porn, whereas it was a daily thing for me. It continued for some time until it got to the point where I was having anxiety, and feeling more and more lonely.
Eventually, through much difficulty I reigned in my habits, and asking God to help and break free, I did. Some times I will fall, but it is not often, certainly not daily like it was before, and I am not actively seeking it out any more. It has been a difficult few years but I consider myself to be mostly reformed, as it is no longer an addiction.
During this phase I came to see artists who drew porn as part of the problem, and I refused to add an artist who drew porn to my watch list. To this day my settings are set to "general", if I want to check a gallery I have to go into my settings, enter my password, and set it to "Mature, adult", then go back and visit the page, it makes it hard for me to accidentally leave the SFW filter off and "See" stuff I shouldn't.
Recently though I found some small, mostly defunct furry groups dedicated to keeping things "clean".
What is you guys' thoughts on this? How many here like porn, and I would be interested to know how many really don't care for it, at least the furry stuff. I would love to hear from you.
Recently, though, my attitude has changed, while I am not "Pro porn" it does not help anyone to thumb their nose at people, or make people feel guilty, or bad, because that doesn't help anything and I regret making anyone feel ashamed. While I have overcome a lot, and am not the person I used to be, I am not a pillar of shining righteousness myself XD
So let me know what you think. No judgments. We all struggle with shit.
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I find it sad that many people have to draw porn for money because they have to pay their bills but some of them just do it for fun or worse, to get more watchers (and generally attention of commissioners). I really don't like people drawing nsfw stuff and for me it's kinda like 'selling yourself' (you know, you draw porn for someone, for me it's like being a prostitute) - even more if you draw your own characters in nsfw scenes.
I'm trying to support clean artists and that's why I'm one of them. For me, clean and good art is much better than porn which sadly sells.
Also, because of so much porn most of furry community is seen as weird sex addicts :/ I'm not one of them but I never tell people that I'm furry because they'll think I'm like the rest. That's sad because I love drawing furry art!
I'm glad God helped you with your problem! :)
A lots of people do things they don't like just to have money to live, almost all of us are prostitutes .
A long time ago I wrote a story with a sex scene in it and it was exhilerating... Except when I began to write new stories they seemed to revolve around an erotic scene... Which is not what I wanted... I want true love... True heart bond... sex can be, and is so cheap these days.
So I went back to my old ways... No sex scenes... Now I do not write sex scenes once in a great while, maybe. It helped me mature a bit writing them, but I cannot recommend it for everyone.
As far as drawing NSFW I am really struggling and on the line with that one. If I were to draw it it may be just for me, and only with two beloved characters.
Please keep drawing furry art... We agree on almost every level. I cannot tell people about my furry enjoyment either... because of the weird stuff... and the stereotypes... But furry is so beautiful... I cannot stay away from it... It is hard to find such beauty in this ugly world.
There is one thing I like it not exist is art displaying "young" characters in too "adult" situation explicit or suggested, that the only thing too weird for me.
Bottome line, I wish there were two separate categories or tabs for your watch feed. SFW submissions, and an alternate tab where all mature and adult arts go to. That way, I can just easily go through the SFW art, and if I need to nuke only the adult and porn art, I can. All at once. It is SO tedious to go through and sort what is what, especially when I don't delete everything at once. If I love something, I was to favorite it. But I do not favorite something without giving feedback or commenting so that slows me down.
I do not have prying eyes to look at what I do, but I must watch my passion, it can be sparked, but I have learned to control it as much as I am able.
Why not set your settings to general?
Are you using it as an emotional replacement? A release? Bored?
Humans are sexual creatures and what causes the depression isnt the porn, its absence of a mate, physically or emotional or both. There is a need longing to be met and porn is a method of dealing with it. Its not the best way, but an easy one.
I am a clean fur, thats just my style and preference. Intimacy of a sexual nature should be between my intimate partner and myself.
This world seems to want to let it all out and the idea of decentcy and privacy have all but disapeared. We become so disconnected and people become objects that meet a desire oppossed to a connection that forms a bond of trust and intimacy.
I personally believe that the desire to be loved, and for sex, has corrupted and destroyed more people than it has ever brought together in a healthy, meaningful way.
You are right, it is the absence of a mate, the absence of a body present in your life, more than that THE ABSENCE OF A SOUL, a HEART, a PERSONALITY, someone to LOVE, who is fathomable!
You have explored the depths of wisdom, who's children are pain and loneliness.
It's a heck of a lot harder for me to say such things out loud, that's part of why I'm so closed off I guess, especially with this part of my life.
It's always easier to put the sin on others and blame them for your own flaws. I had done this for many years.
I guess part of what I myself as a Christian must remember is that Christ didn't eat with sinners to feel better than them or be above them.
There fore, niether should I treat them as lower.
I am a Christian Fur, and I will not actively seek out porn, Furry, or otherwise, because I know that it displeases God. And I do enough that displeases Him... like my foul language... this is certainly not something that I am proud of. And I find that I need to ask for His forgiveness, daily. It is very difficult to break free from "social norms" in this day and age. But Jesus Christ is my Rock and my Salvation, and on His firm foundation will I stand. I am not here to judge anybody. We ALL fall short of the Glory of God.
I appreciate, that there are other Furs, that are of the same mindset, as I am, in that I don't need the Furry Art, to be pornographic, in nature, in order for it to be good art. I wish more people would speak up, about how they would rather see the clean art, without the fear that others will think them strange, or a prude. It's not what others think of you. It's how you think of yourself, and ultimately, how are you pleasing God? God knows your heart. You cannot hide your true desires from Him. If those desires are pornography, will God be disappointed? Probably... but He will still Love you, no matter what. God is not this huge being in the clouds, who is going to zap you with lightning, if you do something He deems wrong. He will Love you, no matter what you choose... even if that is to turn your back on Him, or actively defy His Commandments. For this very reason, God sent His Son, Jesus, into the world, to die for each and every one of us. To become a Holy, Living sacrifice, for all of the past, present, and future sins that humanity has committed, is committing, or ever will commit. He covered us in the Blood of THE LAMB, that we all might be washed, white as snow. Now THAT is LOVE!
Sorry for preaching to you all... but I am very passionate about my relationship with Christ. And I want you all to know, that God isn't some scary monster that is going to punish you, for slipping up... All He wants to do is Love you, and to have you love Him, in return. That's it. Plain and simple.
I used to think that was the normal until i saw some superbly drawn adult stuff, I am not justifying it, however, the artist did put a ton of effort into it, and that can, at the very least, hold some of my respect.
Personally, I do, sometimes fall, I am a man and my cravings for intimacy are very strong. I wish some days to be delivered from it permanently. I once read about a monk who demasculated himself, only to find that after that, he was tormented by the thoughts of intimacy. Reading up on transgender forums, I wanted to see how HRT would affect me, if only in low doses, to take the edge off of my constant desire for intimacy, but it turns out taking too much of one or the other can actually increase libido.
It should be noted that to partake in forgiveness of sins, one must do God's will, and be in a covenant relationship with Jesus Christ. That means you speak with your mouth that you believe Jesus is the Son of God, and also believe deep in your heart, that God sent Him to die for your sins. (Look up Romans 10:9) This begins a lifelong journey of being transformed, from inside, into the likeness of Jesus, bringing Heaven to a fallen Earth, when you listen to God and obey Him. This can be best done by reading the Bible, attending a Bible believing church, and fellowshipping with your fellow Christians.
Sadly, forgiveness is not automatic for everyone, we all must come to God through Jesus, as Jesus has said, "No one comes to the Father but through me". (John 14:6)
I encourage everyone reading this to cry out to God for help, for salvation, as Jesus has said, anyone who comes to Him, He will never turn away. (John 6:37) My relationship with God has taken many turns, and it is absolutely difficult at times. But I know I am not the person i used to be, and I am continually being made better for Christ's sake, and for the sake of the world. There is no way one can accomplish this on such a deep level unless God was the one doing it.
If anyone needs prayer or help, feel free to note me, if you want.
Thank you, MiLayna1018