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I'm doing a bit better (bits and pieces)
8 years ago
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I said I was going to respond to Notes, and I will, not tonight tho.
I've grabbed all my submissions. I'm gonna wipe in the next few days. I'm gonna make a new account here, or elsewhere, and some of my favorites will be upped there. I'll keep you updated. If you have any fav pics, I'd love to hear what they are :3
I'm not going away. I am restarting. This may take some time, but drawing furry stuff is one of my taproots, and I'm going to be drawing and posting more, because, if I don't, I will probably die. I'm not the ultra-bouncy orange pervert I once was... I'm a slightly less-bouncy, introspective orange pervert. And I'm getting better so~
I don't think I've been super-clear about this, so to state clearly: I'm still definitely poly, and I think I will be forever. Being poly, either of us, was not the problem. Her having a BF, or my having a GF, was not the problem.
We were the problem. And, as has been pointed out by a couple insightful furs, my recent shift in outlook has actually catalyzed The End, as we were both able to finally see and acknowledge these irreparable faults. With clear vision, we can say to each other that our love is real, but it cannot surmount prior hurts. We simply can no longer be together. This conclusion may be years overdue, but only now are we able to observe with open eyes, and yeah, we both agree.
All of the "rightness" of this dissolution doesn't make it easy... but it's a good thing to grab onto. I believe we both have the very best intents for each other.
More tomorrow likely.
I really really really appreciate your Notes and comments.
I've grabbed all my submissions. I'm gonna wipe in the next few days. I'm gonna make a new account here, or elsewhere, and some of my favorites will be upped there. I'll keep you updated. If you have any fav pics, I'd love to hear what they are :3
I'm not going away. I am restarting. This may take some time, but drawing furry stuff is one of my taproots, and I'm going to be drawing and posting more, because, if I don't, I will probably die. I'm not the ultra-bouncy orange pervert I once was... I'm a slightly less-bouncy, introspective orange pervert. And I'm getting better so~
I don't think I've been super-clear about this, so to state clearly: I'm still definitely poly, and I think I will be forever. Being poly, either of us, was not the problem. Her having a BF, or my having a GF, was not the problem.
We were the problem. And, as has been pointed out by a couple insightful furs, my recent shift in outlook has actually catalyzed The End, as we were both able to finally see and acknowledge these irreparable faults. With clear vision, we can say to each other that our love is real, but it cannot surmount prior hurts. We simply can no longer be together. This conclusion may be years overdue, but only now are we able to observe with open eyes, and yeah, we both agree.
All of the "rightness" of this dissolution doesn't make it easy... but it's a good thing to grab onto. I believe we both have the very best intents for each other.
More tomorrow likely.
I really really really appreciate your Notes and comments.
Well, I definitely understand what's happened, you have my deepest condolences, and highest understanding, the both of you.
I can say I'm happy you're both doing so well about it, and able to deal amiably, that's a good thing. And yes, it will never not hurt... but you'll find it's pretty easy to care about someone and not be in any other sort of relationship with them ^-^
All the best with this new future. You're doing okay~