So, stuff has been happening in my life. You know, life stuff.

I've been going to trans discussion meetings with a friend and they have been absolutely wonderful, I've come away from every one feeling energized and happy and just really great. It's fantastic being able to talk to people face to face about this sort of thing. There is a lot of interaction and information that is just wonderful to get in actual in person conversation. There are also so many different people there with different experiences, and it's really helped me reflect on my own experiences.

So, I think it's best to say I'm non-binary. When I wrote my last journal I barely really knew what nb was, it wasn't till last year that I really started looking for info on gender stuff. Previously I just sort of collected info through osmosis, so it was all rather scattered and incomplete. Looking at things now and examining how I feel I think nb is a much better representation of who I am. As such I would prefer they/them, but I am still okay with she/her, and really whatever makes people comfortable to talk to me as.