Still active
8 years ago
I know I haven't posted anything in a while, this is due to life keeping me busy with a lot. For one, I finally got done with technical school and now have a certification in Computer and Networking Technology. Two, helping out with a friend's wedding, and three, having to deal with an unexpected death in the family.
The last thing I've been dealing with is trying to break the habit of being introverted. I've noticed that I have a lot of people added in a few places, yet I hardly talk with them. It's not that I don't care, It's just that I have a hard time trying to start a conversation. Another reason is that I feel like I'm bothering people when I am messaging them. It's hard to know if I'm interrupting them, so I tend not to message anyone.
I'm not sure if anyone deals with this, but have you ever been afraid to message someone because you're afraid you're going to say something stupid? That's something I've also been dealing with.
The last thing I've been dealing with is trying to break the habit of being introverted. I've noticed that I have a lot of people added in a few places, yet I hardly talk with them. It's not that I don't care, It's just that I have a hard time trying to start a conversation. Another reason is that I feel like I'm bothering people when I am messaging them. It's hard to know if I'm interrupting them, so I tend not to message anyone.
I'm not sure if anyone deals with this, but have you ever been afraid to message someone because you're afraid you're going to say something stupid? That's something I've also been dealing with.
I dislike the expectation of instant replies on messengers, so won't use them. That being said, if people are busy, they won't reply until they can, so you're not interrupting...unless you expect instant replies.