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Please Help - Several Crises at Once
8 years ago
My husband is in jail and never coming back. I'm getting divorced. Unfortunately, I'm disabled and he was our main income. Currently I've got to keep all the bills paid like we were doing before without like 50% of our previous income. I'm about $500 a month short on just paying the bills, and I'm not allowed to sell anything (until the divorce is done) or earn income (ie commissions) for now without risking losing my new Medicaid coverage that I need for the next crisis that's come up.
In all this mess, I also found out I have precancerous lesions on my cervix. I had a colposcopy to check them and they were biopsied, and now I'm having a LEEP procedure (for your own sakes, don't Google that) to remove them on October 10th. Meanwhile, I had a colonoscopy today to check that end because I've also had symptoms of rectal cancer. Maybe it's nothing, but I always hope for the best and prepare for the worst. They didn't find anything so far, but they did a biopsy. So we still don't know what's wrong, but at least it doesn't seem like it's too bad. :/ Still worried.
TL;DR: Please donate so we don't lose our house...
https://www.gofundme.com/qqy2k-save-our-home
In all this mess, I also found out I have precancerous lesions on my cervix. I had a colposcopy to check them and they were biopsied, and now I'm having a LEEP procedure (for your own sakes, don't Google that) to remove them on October 10th. Meanwhile, I had a colonoscopy today to check that end because I've also had symptoms of rectal cancer. Maybe it's nothing, but I always hope for the best and prepare for the worst. They didn't find anything so far, but they did a biopsy. So we still don't know what's wrong, but at least it doesn't seem like it's too bad. :/ Still worried.
TL;DR: Please donate so we don't lose our house...
https://www.gofundme.com/qqy2k-save-our-home
CrushedCrowd
~crushedcrowd
Bad to know about those new injuries :/ Here's hoping that it shall be nothing serious. Better to go through some medical procedures now and prevent worse case scenarios. All good to you and Eevee, as far as it's possible right now!
Shayla06
~shayla06
OP
Biopsy came back fine, so I guess I just have teeny hemorrhoids that are being obnoxious because I'm stressed out all the time or something. My side had been hurting and tight and heavy, and I think that's either stress related or a minor infection from the colposcopy. I have had a very minor fever (99's) since then. Not enough to bother with antibiotics, but enough I don't feel that great and am clearly fighting off something (and have no other cold symptoms or anything). I did actually have some good news yesterday. I figured when they changed my pay date they would just wait the week to pay me, but I didn't realize that since it's by month, they couldn't do that because they'd be skipping a month. So I got my disability payment on the 27th for September and the 3rd for October. Since I got paid basically twice in a row, I have enough for my bills for a few months. But I still need to find a way to sell the farm (which will hopefully be approved as able to be put up for sale after next Thursday). Once we get the farm gone, I think we'll be alright...
Doberman_Guard
~dobermanguard
Blarf, so much goin on. Glad that shit came back negative though and that must be a massive relief to have had that money come in. Hope things keep improving even if a tiny bit. Keep on fightin through it.
CrushedCrowd
~crushedcrowd
Glad to know about that light you can see at the end of the tunnel! Unfortunately you'll have to get rid of your farm, but I hope that's just a step back so you can give two forward next :) Also good that the biopsy results aren't alarming. Keep on tracking your health, that's your most valuable asset! Hugs from afar!
