Advice needed.
8 years ago
So hypothetically speaking.
If you had a parent inlaw that was doing everything in their living power to make your relationship miserable. Would you encourage their child, your spouse to cut ties with them?
I'm at a point that I am sick of my fiance's mother. She's the nothing but hateful towards me and toxic to her son because of me. She does these passive aggressive things to try to get a raise out of me when I have to be around her and when I'm not around all she does is tell him how much she hates me.
In the long run I don't want to tell my fiance to get rid of his mom for me.. But at the same I'm done seeing him suffer because of her problem with me..
I will not split with him because of her. This is our relationship not hers.. She does not need to feel like she has that kind of power. Besides, I'm not going to throw way five years of happy relationship with someone who loves me just as much as I do them.
If you had a parent inlaw that was doing everything in their living power to make your relationship miserable. Would you encourage their child, your spouse to cut ties with them?
I'm at a point that I am sick of my fiance's mother. She's the nothing but hateful towards me and toxic to her son because of me. She does these passive aggressive things to try to get a raise out of me when I have to be around her and when I'm not around all she does is tell him how much she hates me.
In the long run I don't want to tell my fiance to get rid of his mom for me.. But at the same I'm done seeing him suffer because of her problem with me..
I will not split with him because of her. This is our relationship not hers.. She does not need to feel like she has that kind of power. Besides, I'm not going to throw way five years of happy relationship with someone who loves me just as much as I do them.