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mom is sick... :/
8 years ago
early today they had to take my mother to the hospital with a hefty pnemonia. it had been going on for a few days, slowly getting worse until she woke up barely able to breathe. :(
no idea why she didn't go see the docs, which is a few houses down the street...
she'll survive, I guess. I feel at a loss at to what to do; I have to admit I'm not very good at living on my own, mom did most household things. my brother ain't no help, either, he's doing even less things.
I...
that is all. thanks for reading.
no idea why she didn't go see the docs, which is a few houses down the street...
she'll survive, I guess. I feel at a loss at to what to do; I have to admit I'm not very good at living on my own, mom did most household things. my brother ain't no help, either, he's doing even less things.
I...
that is all. thanks for reading.
Ich wünsche deiner Mutter gute Besserung. Das wird sicher wieder.
dankefein!
For now there's not that much you can do except for visiting her. If she's there for a few days, bringing her a few things might be helpful. I found this link very useful: http://www.gesund.at/a/checkliste-krankenhaus Although just asking her might be best. :)
Also, doing some chores and keeping the house clean might not directly help her but she will be happy to see it when she returns. Plus, it will keep your mind occupied so you won't feel as lost as before anymore. (And you will get used to doing chores on your own.)
jaa, bleibt mir ja nichts anderes übrig... :P
dankefein!
Stay strong for her, you can do it!
oh yeah, I just need to find out how things work and stuff. and overcome stupid (yet real) feels of insecurity.
Take care of yourself! Say "hello" to your mom. from me from Ukraine. Maybe this will make her laugh.
And do not worry. a household is sometimes boring and difficult. and sometimes even interesting. if there is a good company.
*hug*
I'm gonna tell her all the well-wishes for sure.
one day I'd have to find out, anyway. :P thank you!
Ansonsten, man wächst mit seinen Aufgaben, du bekommst das hin!
ja, das sage ich mir auch immer. :) dankefein!
On the meantime you can prepare the field to give her a warm welcome once she gets back home. Every situation we face can get either easier or harder depending on the mindset we use to face it. Living on your own is the same thing, try looking at it as a challenge where you'll have to take care of yourself and the place you live, it will be very rewarding as you learn you can do far more than you thought you could =).
Best wishes!
It's never easy to feel helpless, and in my case very far away to boot, regarding people you care about and their health. Just let them know you're there, maybe take care of some chores around the house she's been meaning to get to for when she gets home or starts to feel better!
Well wishes to you both!
I'll do that. I hope I can get news soon, or else we'll be going to visit her tomorrow.
I won't let the house go down, no worries. I'm not that lazy. :P
thank you!
Good thoughts your way! Hope things go well! <3
Just please don't have her come home to a sink full of dishes and such. Housework sucks, but it must be done.
thank you!
no worries, I'm lazy, but a smelly home with crusts everywhere is an even bigger horror. :P my brother will probably lean back and let me do it, though. too used to Hotel Mama.
I know you'll do a great job.
If you need to vent or talk, I'm here my dear!
For yourself, make a list of what needs to be done, then put the list in order from most to least important, then start doing them.
thank you!
I'll try to look out. I'm looking for a better job, maybe one that doesn't require me of leaving the house first and come home way late and never have enough funds for anything...
*snugs back* thank you!
thank you!
prayers and well wishes for your Mom and you.
as for house stuffs/bills
write up what ya need to do and by when
then hit a big thing and a few small things and repeat
see if that works for ya
it helps me so I can feel like i’m making progress
and poke your brother to help out too
it will help get things done
and I’m sure your mom will appreciate it when she comes home
been thru similar with my folks
it helped to visit them while they were in hospital
and also to set a bit of time to chat with friends and family
to let them know whats worrying ya, or just unwind a bit.
feel betters
she was a lot better already, so there is a big relief for me.
as for the rest, you're right; this is how we'll do it.
thank you!
continued prayers and a *hug* too