2017, and looking ahead to 2018.
8 years ago
So... This was a weird year. Tremendous highs, crushing lows. and lord did it seem to both rocket by but also felt like every week was a million years long in some deeply unsettling way. :/
Started off great, with a trip to Atlanta to hang with
ONightwish and
Ranan at their new year's party. Rolled along to havung
ONightwish: and
lordborel up in march, which was wonderful even though I was sick. Then we got to surprise our friends by showing up at blfc, which was fun and interesting, if not always to my taste. Oh, and I got a body suit for my suit finished, and new handpaws made!
And then AC happened, and my grandfather died, right in the middle of it. I'm still sorting that out. It hurts, a lot. Especially these first holidays without him. I just wish I'd had, well. More time. More chances to do things with him, and learn from him, and to keep around more of the things that meant so much to him and my grandmother.
Lots of other personal drama surrounded this, but I'm coping now, to some extent.
We went to Vancouver to visit
cygnovum and
jerbie, and got to visit with
chiswickgryphon,
nynn and Artimoverne too.
Then there was a trip to Atlanta to see the eclipse while visiting
ONightwish and
Ranan, which was great. :3
lordborel moved here to Columbus around August, which has been great :3 Been really nice to have someone to regularly have around for gaming and hanging out. I think if we move somewhere else we might have to drag him with us. :3
A bittersweet moment came in the fall, when
Jousterl and
Skytea moved out to California, but it was a good move for them, and we'll just have to make sure we try to hard to visit our friends in KY still.
More visits from
ONightwish and
Ranan in November for Thor, and then a whole boatload of people came up in December for "Woof Wars", including
ONightwish:
nynn
sekh765,
Cygnovum,
Nandrattle, and
frozenfox. It was a huge amount of fun, and seeing star wars with friends was really great. :3
And through it all, the crazy political shit, some personal health stuff, weird fandom drama, and me feeling older in ways I dislike. Also lots of flying. More flying than I've ever done before, actually. Which that's kinda not much fun, but it's worth it to see people you enjoy hanging out with. :3
Also some personal (read adult) discoveries about my interests, that definitely have helped me discover more stuff I enjoy, and be more willling to engage on it. That's been nice, and thanks to you know who you are for... well a lot of help there, honestly. I appreciate it in a lot of ways, more than just the obvious. And thanks for putting up with me being... well, me. I really appreciate it, and I'm trying to do better over time.
So next year we're gonna at least hit FWA, AC, and MFF at least for a couple days. Beyond that I definitely wanna visit friends some more, and we have some plans to do that already in the works, and some that need to be planned further. I'm hoping the political BS settles some, but I don't have much faith that it will. Also hoping my personal health stuff get less ridiculous but... we'll see.
Through it all I know
L0st will be with me as best he can, and I'll be there for him as best I can.
Sometimes, that's all you can plan on.
Happy New Year to you all, and I hope your next year is a little friendlier, a little more peaceful, or at least maybe a bit better in some other small way that's meaningful. If nothing else, I hope you all stay warm tomorrow, it's frigid out there.
Started off great, with a trip to Atlanta to hang with
ONightwish and
Ranan at their new year's party. Rolled along to havung
ONightwish: and
lordborel up in march, which was wonderful even though I was sick. Then we got to surprise our friends by showing up at blfc, which was fun and interesting, if not always to my taste. Oh, and I got a body suit for my suit finished, and new handpaws made!And then AC happened, and my grandfather died, right in the middle of it. I'm still sorting that out. It hurts, a lot. Especially these first holidays without him. I just wish I'd had, well. More time. More chances to do things with him, and learn from him, and to keep around more of the things that meant so much to him and my grandmother.
Lots of other personal drama surrounded this, but I'm coping now, to some extent.
We went to Vancouver to visit
cygnovum and
jerbie, and got to visit with
chiswickgryphon,
nynn and Artimoverne too. Then there was a trip to Atlanta to see the eclipse while visiting
ONightwish and
Ranan, which was great. :3
lordborel moved here to Columbus around August, which has been great :3 Been really nice to have someone to regularly have around for gaming and hanging out. I think if we move somewhere else we might have to drag him with us. :3A bittersweet moment came in the fall, when
Jousterl and
Skytea moved out to California, but it was a good move for them, and we'll just have to make sure we try to hard to visit our friends in KY still. More visits from
ONightwish and
Ranan in November for Thor, and then a whole boatload of people came up in December for "Woof Wars", including
ONightwish:
nynn
sekh765,
Cygnovum,
Nandrattle, and
frozenfox. It was a huge amount of fun, and seeing star wars with friends was really great. :3And through it all, the crazy political shit, some personal health stuff, weird fandom drama, and me feeling older in ways I dislike. Also lots of flying. More flying than I've ever done before, actually. Which that's kinda not much fun, but it's worth it to see people you enjoy hanging out with. :3
Also some personal (read adult) discoveries about my interests, that definitely have helped me discover more stuff I enjoy, and be more willling to engage on it. That's been nice, and thanks to you know who you are for... well a lot of help there, honestly. I appreciate it in a lot of ways, more than just the obvious. And thanks for putting up with me being... well, me. I really appreciate it, and I'm trying to do better over time.
So next year we're gonna at least hit FWA, AC, and MFF at least for a couple days. Beyond that I definitely wanna visit friends some more, and we have some plans to do that already in the works, and some that need to be planned further. I'm hoping the political BS settles some, but I don't have much faith that it will. Also hoping my personal health stuff get less ridiculous but... we'll see.
Through it all I know
L0st will be with me as best he can, and I'll be there for him as best I can. Sometimes, that's all you can plan on.
Happy New Year to you all, and I hope your next year is a little friendlier, a little more peaceful, or at least maybe a bit better in some other small way that's meaningful. If nothing else, I hope you all stay warm tomorrow, it's frigid out there.
MTT3
~mtt3
Wow. You truly met a looooot of people there.
FA+
