We need to talk about this.
8 years ago
General
Before I start typing out my post, I urge every reader to HEAR ME OUT. I'm fully aware that this is a sensitive subject for many people in the furry fandom and I want to make it clear that I'm NOT shaming anyone. If you find this insensitive, please take it with a grain of salt.
So. We need to talk about this. We need to talk about forcing yiff and murrsuiting on those who don't want to be involved. For clarity, what you do on your own time is what you do on your own time. If yiffing and murrsuiting is something that you personally take interest in, by all means, do what makes you happy. However, I personally DO NOT enjoy this and I certainly don't appreciate having photos and sexual comments directed and sent to me.
This has happened on two occasions. Once on Discord, when I befriended someone that I thought I could trust and once on Twitter. Twitter was just one picture, but that doesn't matter. It would be like a straight man hitting on a lesbian, or a straight woman, hitting on a gay man and vice verse. I'm not into it, so forcing me to look at that stuff and trying to "turn me" just makes me uncomfortable and should not, happen, ever.
I do not care what your true feelings are. I don't care if I'm your fursona crush, crush on me all you want, that doesn't bother me. Just do not involve me in the sexual stuff, please.
So. We need to talk about this. We need to talk about forcing yiff and murrsuiting on those who don't want to be involved. For clarity, what you do on your own time is what you do on your own time. If yiffing and murrsuiting is something that you personally take interest in, by all means, do what makes you happy. However, I personally DO NOT enjoy this and I certainly don't appreciate having photos and sexual comments directed and sent to me.
This has happened on two occasions. Once on Discord, when I befriended someone that I thought I could trust and once on Twitter. Twitter was just one picture, but that doesn't matter. It would be like a straight man hitting on a lesbian, or a straight woman, hitting on a gay man and vice verse. I'm not into it, so forcing me to look at that stuff and trying to "turn me" just makes me uncomfortable and should not, happen, ever.
I do not care what your true feelings are. I don't care if I'm your fursona crush, crush on me all you want, that doesn't bother me. Just do not involve me in the sexual stuff, please.
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