Hello just a little thought that's been on my mind okay we can all not ignore the fact that popularity in this fandom is something that is deeply rooted into it. I eat if you're a very popular person in this fandom people generally flock to you like Mindless sheep to Fresh grass for nourishment.

I have always been the kind of person that is always loved friendship and connecting with new people and just basically enjoying life with them. To me a friendship is very important and very sacred.

I also find that there is a trend that some people do online where if you have wronged them in some shape or form they basically just stop talking to you people can also do this in real life if anyone did not know this is called ghosting I think it is a very cowardly way of telling somebody you don't want them to contact you anymore.

We are all adults here and I mean anyone who's over the age of 21 or 18 I believe it's an adult and I just want to give a shout out to anyone who has goes to somebody I'm probably sure you had a good reason to ghost them but if you feel that what may be there a little bit annoying or they're just too much talk with them and start a dialogue just don't ghost them I actually remember something a long time ago that the cold shoulder which is another word for ghosting or ignoring somebody can cause serious damage to a person's psyche and self-esteem.

I have some artists on here that I don't really talk to anymore some shit kind of went down most times I can't even recall what I did wrong but some people can just get easily triggered there's one famous artist who I know of and I believe he has created the popular webcomic my life with fel.

I do believe I tried talking to him now and then trying to get commission him and one day he was like dude listen I don't know you and I'm not your buddy and I don't want to do any free work for you. And it's not like I ever asked him to do any free work. Sometimes it's just so hard to talk to an artist on this website you know to basically commission them. And I hate that when I find a really good artist and I want to commission them and I have to jump through all these hoops and ladders and whatnot.

Now it is Everybody's Free right to block someone and act the asshole act like they're taking the high road it's easy to block someone and move on it's much more harder for them to actually start a dialogue that will show that they wish not to be contacted anymore. I have had some friends that have done this like adults and it has hurt less because I respect them for actually letting me off easy.

I think it's important to have little rants like this to de-stress and discuss the problems in this fandom. It's that people make mistakes does it mean they're evil or bitches or even trolls. Or even very weird it just means that they're different. And when they make mistakes I just really hope you don't do anything drastic like block them or tell them all like there's some kind of weird monster. Words are very powerful things instead of thinking about that blocking button try using them