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7 years ago
so this might be a bit weird but i thought i'd try and see if anyone would be interested.. kinna doubt it but you never know right?
About Me:
i'm 30 years old, gay, male, androgynous and slightly feminine. i don't really consider myself a femboy but i have been mistaken for a girl on many occasions. i'm 5'11" and 165lbs, kinda slim, fairly average body type, i've been told i'm a little curvy but i don't see it! i live in between the Las Vegas and Henderson area in Nevada. i'm really quiet to the point where i'm sure people think i don't want to talk to them, while true for very few individuals, that's not the case! i'm just really bad at keeping conversation and am more of a listener, but i have a much easier time speaking my mind on voice or in person. i'm generally pretty chill, but i'm rather emotional, i do try my best to simply go with the flow~ i'd like to think i have a good sense of humor, but the only thing i have to go on is that i've been able to make my friends laugh on more than one occasion so i'm glad for that <3 i'm also a bit of a hopeless romantic, i love romantic gestures! however, there is a limit to where it can get really cringey or cheesy.. sometimes it can be all in good fun, other times it's just like.. yeesh.
i love to watch animated movies, cartoons, and anime! but i also enjoy live action and fantasy films like the Marvel movies, Harry Potter series, and Lord of the Rings series~ i'm a gamer, my main stays are co-op games and mmos~ would love more people to play FFXIV with <3 also games like Dark Souls and Monster Hunter series! i'm pretty bad at shooters(1st or 3rd person) and fighting games, but i can enjoy them well enough in good company~ especially Smash Bros! not very into racing or sports games. i do my best to be decent at the games i play, but having fun and playing my own way is my number one priority! i cannot stand elitism.. anyway, in case you haven't noticed somehow, i am an artist :p and i'd love to draw stuff with that special someone should they also be an artist! music i'm into is almost anything oriental, traditional, and classical~ absolutely love piano, guitar, and other stringed instruments <3 also video game music and almost any genre except death metal screamo stuff, country, and most rap, they're just not my thing. also i'm not much of a drinker and i don't smoke
Looking For:
i'm into the more masculine type of guys, but not macho or dude-bro jock types.. so yknow, gentlemanly, geeky, or nerdy i suppose, though a little dude-bro jock isn't bad, as long as he's still a sweetheart <3 21-39 years old, closer to my age is preferred. i really really would like someone taller than 5'11", and of an average body type/weight.. i have a weakness for muscles but that's not required, i'm really sorry for being picky :' i'm hopeful for a local relationship, and i'm not totally against long distance.. but i don't know if i can stick with one of those for too long again. being another artist would be amazing <3 but not required! being a gamer though is pretty high on the requirements as it's a big part of my life, please be my player 1 <3 personality wise, i'd like someone who is pretty chill but really knows how to just have fun, and knows when to be serious, who is also patient and understanding. and yknow, a bit of a romantic, sweep me off my feet why don't ya~? literally and figuratively! ahem.. anyway.. also non-drinking/non-smoking is preferred, but not against the occasional/social one or the other.. keep it within reason yknow?
when it comes to dating or hanging out, i'm a simple guy, i'm completely fine with staying at home, cuddling, watching tv or a movie, playing some games online or on the couch, even just kinna be in each other's vicinity doing our own thing! and i'm not against going out just for the sake of going out~ even if that going out is just a short or long walk~! movies, shopping, window shopping even~ i don't need fancy restaurants, extravagant travels, or expensive gifts.. i'm happy just spending time together~ even hanging out online, in an mmo or multiplayer online game in voice chat, or not even gaming and just in voice, it's good enough~ cuddling is way more preferred though!
one more thing! i'm monogamous, meaning i'd like to have a one and only~ i'm not super against an open relationship, but i'd really prefer not
and that about does it.. sorry for the slightly lengthy read, but yeah.. feel free to note me for my Discord if you'd like to get to know each other better, please add in a little bit about yourself too, i'd really appreciate it~ of course not trying to shoot off right into a relationship, gotta build up from a friendship first and foremost! i know this is like a total shot in the dark but hey, not much to lose i guess. if you'd like to know what i look like, i have a slightly old picture in my scraps.. i haven't changed much though! i think.. anyway, regardless of what happens, thanks for passing by and i hope you have a wonderful day/night~!
P.S. i'm really not into like.. "murry purry" talk? like, "rawr! *pounces and nuzzles u* hai der :3 *tail wags*" so.. please don't :' sorry if i've offended anyone, but yeah..
About Me:
i'm 30 years old, gay, male, androgynous and slightly feminine. i don't really consider myself a femboy but i have been mistaken for a girl on many occasions. i'm 5'11" and 165lbs, kinda slim, fairly average body type, i've been told i'm a little curvy but i don't see it! i live in between the Las Vegas and Henderson area in Nevada. i'm really quiet to the point where i'm sure people think i don't want to talk to them, while true for very few individuals, that's not the case! i'm just really bad at keeping conversation and am more of a listener, but i have a much easier time speaking my mind on voice or in person. i'm generally pretty chill, but i'm rather emotional, i do try my best to simply go with the flow~ i'd like to think i have a good sense of humor, but the only thing i have to go on is that i've been able to make my friends laugh on more than one occasion so i'm glad for that <3 i'm also a bit of a hopeless romantic, i love romantic gestures! however, there is a limit to where it can get really cringey or cheesy.. sometimes it can be all in good fun, other times it's just like.. yeesh.
i love to watch animated movies, cartoons, and anime! but i also enjoy live action and fantasy films like the Marvel movies, Harry Potter series, and Lord of the Rings series~ i'm a gamer, my main stays are co-op games and mmos~ would love more people to play FFXIV with <3 also games like Dark Souls and Monster Hunter series! i'm pretty bad at shooters(1st or 3rd person) and fighting games, but i can enjoy them well enough in good company~ especially Smash Bros! not very into racing or sports games. i do my best to be decent at the games i play, but having fun and playing my own way is my number one priority! i cannot stand elitism.. anyway, in case you haven't noticed somehow, i am an artist :p and i'd love to draw stuff with that special someone should they also be an artist! music i'm into is almost anything oriental, traditional, and classical~ absolutely love piano, guitar, and other stringed instruments <3 also video game music and almost any genre except death metal screamo stuff, country, and most rap, they're just not my thing. also i'm not much of a drinker and i don't smoke
Looking For:
i'm into the more masculine type of guys, but not macho or dude-bro jock types.. so yknow, gentlemanly, geeky, or nerdy i suppose, though a little dude-bro jock isn't bad, as long as he's still a sweetheart <3 21-39 years old, closer to my age is preferred. i really really would like someone taller than 5'11", and of an average body type/weight.. i have a weakness for muscles but that's not required, i'm really sorry for being picky :' i'm hopeful for a local relationship, and i'm not totally against long distance.. but i don't know if i can stick with one of those for too long again. being another artist would be amazing <3 but not required! being a gamer though is pretty high on the requirements as it's a big part of my life, please be my player 1 <3 personality wise, i'd like someone who is pretty chill but really knows how to just have fun, and knows when to be serious, who is also patient and understanding. and yknow, a bit of a romantic, sweep me off my feet why don't ya~? literally and figuratively! ahem.. anyway.. also non-drinking/non-smoking is preferred, but not against the occasional/social one or the other.. keep it within reason yknow?
when it comes to dating or hanging out, i'm a simple guy, i'm completely fine with staying at home, cuddling, watching tv or a movie, playing some games online or on the couch, even just kinna be in each other's vicinity doing our own thing! and i'm not against going out just for the sake of going out~ even if that going out is just a short or long walk~! movies, shopping, window shopping even~ i don't need fancy restaurants, extravagant travels, or expensive gifts.. i'm happy just spending time together~ even hanging out online, in an mmo or multiplayer online game in voice chat, or not even gaming and just in voice, it's good enough~ cuddling is way more preferred though!
one more thing! i'm monogamous, meaning i'd like to have a one and only~ i'm not super against an open relationship, but i'd really prefer not
and that about does it.. sorry for the slightly lengthy read, but yeah.. feel free to note me for my Discord if you'd like to get to know each other better, please add in a little bit about yourself too, i'd really appreciate it~ of course not trying to shoot off right into a relationship, gotta build up from a friendship first and foremost! i know this is like a total shot in the dark but hey, not much to lose i guess. if you'd like to know what i look like, i have a slightly old picture in my scraps.. i haven't changed much though! i think.. anyway, regardless of what happens, thanks for passing by and i hope you have a wonderful day/night~!
P.S. i'm really not into like.. "murry purry" talk? like, "rawr! *pounces and nuzzles u* hai der :3 *tail wags*" so.. please don't :' sorry if i've offended anyone, but yeah..
nice personal summary btw. you sound pretty great to me, but i am not the muscley type sadly, the body is slightly weak, esp at the moment, but the mind is plenty active, perhaps too-much so at times.
thank you :' and forgive me for assuming anything but i hope you feel better soon!
you're welcome. and i don't count educated guesses against folks. ^!~ yeah, other than the other unpleasantnesses i've also been going through some medical things. which has been another factor in the lonely/depressed thing and also adds in the "SHOULD i approach or pursue anyone? would it be fair to them? it'd just be a burden." thing that rolls around in my brain. i've had several long-term relationships, but these days i honestly don't know if i'm Anyone's type. i also don't do the murry,purry stuff, but i'm always open to meetng new people and talking. sometimes it feels like i've got all the time in the world in the small hours.
but thank-you. if you ever wanted to talk or chit-chat, i try to be on discord or telegram when i can. and yeah, i'm terrible at small-talk myself, but i know a lot about a wide range of stuff, ^^
I dunno if you'll find someone through here, but I know you'll find someone great~
i dunno if i will find someone here either but can't say i won't either!
But hey! I'm still open for chatting if you want. ^w^ I'm never out of bounds And i'm a big time gamer, so there's check one for you
if you'd like to add me on discord or steam, feel free to note me! though please remember that i'm really bad at keeping a casual conversation, sorry in advance :'
i find it's more important to understand and respect each other's space and passions, while not neglecting each other either. couples don't always have to spend huge amounts of time together or on each other, just enough~ communication and support is key!
i've kinna done this thing before on other, slightly more suitable sites.. i expect more or less of the same outcome. maybe something will happen, maybe not, but life is about taking chances anyway~ and thank you~
Yeah you're right I suppose it's also up to the couple too, for example for me and my spouse we are very loving and close and we tend to be involved in each others hobbies and likes and I feel like that's a nice feeling and for me it makes me feel very.. involved with my partner and closer because of it, perhaps you too could do something similar with who ever you find or someone is willing to be open minded at least, communication like you said.. Absolutely important.
It's a little sad when I see particular younger couples not doing such I'm happy you know how important it is, it's super refreshing.. Seriously.. Especially if you've been in shitty relationships. I feel like.. Looking for love on FA is good in terms of finding people with similar interests.. Maybe to broaden your search you could put up a picture or something, like.. Maybe just a simple sketch or something with the info you had here in the description as well. I feel like you'd have even better choices if the sketch represented you as heavily as possibly too. Either way like I said I hope you find what/who you are looking for and.. I apologise for commenting in the first place, since you probably looking for possible matches y'know? ^^;
it is my intent to meet someone with similar interests to share with, kinna why i put thought into what i'm "looking for"~
younger couples are still learning what they like and don't in a relationship, they're still growing, finding out things one should and shouldn't really do. though heck, some younger couples are the older couples now, still together because it either just worked for them or they worked through it. i don't regret the relationships i've been in, regardless of how they ended, because they've helped me learn more about myself and what i'm looking for~
and i've already planned on doing a pic, just gotta figure out how i wanna do it :'
Yeah.. you're right, sorry ;w; I didn't mean to act dumb my apologies
Yeah I get that, but.. I feel like learning doesn't excuse someone for being shitty to another human being, something things are obvious.. Especially when the other person has been in multiple relationships them self y'know? Maybe I just have awful luck.
It might just be down to how others take that sorta thing or even the type of "bad relationship decisions" they make, for instance for me a lot of the time their bad decisions involved them having multiple affairs and not ever telling me about it and for me to find out afterwards.. As well as just constant abuse and unrealistic expectations and them being controlling or.. In the cases of others being told they're going to cheat on me just because I wanted them to talk to me about "us" because I felt a sad over something. Anyway.. You can at least see why for me at least my thoughts on the whole thing are a little more cynical. I try not to be and keep an open mind it's just hard sometimes.
Hmm.. Maybe it could have a similar set up to an art meme, like.. Have different panels highlighting key points.. Like for instance your preference and things that are super relevant to you. As for the icon.. Maybe have a cute shot of nuku or something? I don't know..
Sad thing is I'm conflicted with what I actually want out of life. I'm also quite small 5'4" and not really too strong, but I'm trying to change the latter of that. Though I guess that'd disqualify me from trying.
But if you feel like being friends, I'm up for that
friends are cool~ if you can deal with my being not very talkative at least :' note me for my discord if you'd like!
Still, all things considered, I'm sure you'll get snapped up and swept off your feet by just the right man soon enough, cutie. Best of luck!
You are correct, you don't talk much so I learn about you through what you do show and say (creepy *shakes head side to side LOL!). I can't find much that I can say I don't like about you. My only and very minor hangup is I am not the gamer I once was, however, I am getting into a couple, one is called Hammerwatch. I do like a game with a good story, with good company I would play more.
I am your height but rather active so not much flub (not indicating you are flubby). (; My physical age is 34 but my mental age has a lot to do with the company I am with and the location (I only like to be "professional" when it's necessary). Despite being active, I love to chill and cuddle, ...and I tend to stroke long hair without thinking about it, just did that since I was small. Usually it's a massage for you and tension release for me, double plus! If your hair is still long, I'd probably run my fingers through it. Hehe!
I am an extrovert introvert, I fall into neither category but also do well in both. I am primarily an empath at heart, it's both good and bad. But hey, I love to love and have so much to share.
My interests are vast, very very vast, what I practice is equally so. I am a nerd, yes, but very comfortable in my skin (looks, build, etc...), no external approval required (no, not a narcissist despite saying "I" so much). My top 10 practiced categories are metal work (I have my own machine shop), electronics, lighting, pencil art (would love a good teacher here), music (piano, drums), complex machinery, computer, gaming (VR is really reeling me back in), camping (I cheat with an RV), and writing. That's 10 of probably too many, the shorter version is, VERY adaptable.
What I 'think' you might and will also not like about me is simple. I run my own business, I own my house, I command my own happiness, and completely accept my responsibility in all that I do and that happens around me. I do travel, cruises are wonderful and have taken me to some neat locations, so has the road. None of this is about me being better or worse than anyone, I prefer to create opportunities for people under me to become better than me. Anyhow, it means I live in Boise Idaho and probably going to be here awhile. The intriguing part is that you live in Nevada which is so nice and close (air fair is SO cheap to Vegas from here), Henderson is so close to Las Vegas. Also I really like Nevada in many respects so I like excuses to visit.
I would literally fly there just to have lunch with you. Even to be a friend. I have so much I could share with you, but hey, I am merely keeping up in the "slightly lengthy" writing here (absolutely don't be sorry, Id' read your novel). Hehe! Also you do have your picture in you scraps, I forgot where, but I found it once when wanting to know more about you (I know, creepy again (;, but hey, you're interesting so hey...) Though I ran across that picture long after I found you to be interesting, you should feel perfectly great in your skin, you're beautiful and that's just how it is, I won't change my mind.
*wags tail* Haha! Sorry, I had to throw that in there just because it was "purry murry" and I like have a laugh. (;
I did just make a discord a few days back, first use really, perhaps I try it out. Also as side note, I like good restaurants more than fancy. I do drink VERY lightly, drunk is just not my gig regardless of any amount of peer pressure. I do not smoke or use drugs, nor will I ever despite accessibility.
Anyhow, I can write until your eyes close, so I'll cut short here. Regardless of the outcome, I would be more than happy to know you better. I simply think you are awesome and I've told you that on DA a few times (User: animadragonlibra *Free Dragon Spirit). Also, you and I see eye to eye on music, car radio simplicity! Yay!