Fantasy, Reality, and Mental Health
7 years ago
I feel I need to speak up about a topic that's become increasingly disturbing in the furry community. I am not and have no plans to ever become a "voice" in this community so it's likely that most people just won't notice or won't care about what I have to say, but dammit I have to say something because my conscience won't let me remain completely silent.
If you've taken a look at my favorites gallery you'll know that I'm into some very fucked up shit. My Inkbunny and Pixiv accounts even more so. I long ago stopped questioning what makes my dick hard, and decided to just accept my fantasies for what they are. But here's the key word:
Fantasies.
Nothing I jerk it to translates into the real world. In fact, if it did, I likely would find it incredibly disturbing and not arousing at all. You know why? Because the world of fantasy has no consequences. The real world on the other hand has consequences for everything. In fantasy, women can have magic, perfectly clean buttholes with erogenous nerves that remain tight after taking massive cocks. In reality, none of that is true. In fantasy, you can have a cock and balls the size of the universe that can cum enough to fill a hundred universes. In reality, physics, biology, and morality would want to have a word with you. In fantasy, ingesting or injecting large amounts of experimental drugs is a recipe for the time of your life. In reality it kills or permanently damages you. In fantasy you can piss and shit all over everything and have it be perfectly clean the next day. In reality, this is a recipe for huge cleaning bills and several easily preventable diseases.
In fantasy, fucking or being fucked by an underage kid causes no issues whatsoever, and the kid can even derive adult pleasure from it.
In reality, this causes irreparable mental and sometimes physical scarring. It is one of the most heinous things a person can do to another person.
I urge everyone, furry or not, to remember to keep a strong wall between your fantasies and your reality. If you or someone you love has deviant urges in real life that could cause yourself or someone else harm, I deeply, strongly, and without humor encourage you to please seek psychological help. These urges are not normal, but can be treated if you seek help for them. Every time I hear about a sex crime committed by a furry, it worries me more and more. Furry conventions have started to gain a reputation for trafficking in underage sex. This cannot go on. This is not a joke or something to take lightly or brush off; if this affects you or one of your friends or family members, please get treatment for it before you do something everyone regrets.
If you've taken a look at my favorites gallery you'll know that I'm into some very fucked up shit. My Inkbunny and Pixiv accounts even more so. I long ago stopped questioning what makes my dick hard, and decided to just accept my fantasies for what they are. But here's the key word:
Fantasies.
Nothing I jerk it to translates into the real world. In fact, if it did, I likely would find it incredibly disturbing and not arousing at all. You know why? Because the world of fantasy has no consequences. The real world on the other hand has consequences for everything. In fantasy, women can have magic, perfectly clean buttholes with erogenous nerves that remain tight after taking massive cocks. In reality, none of that is true. In fantasy, you can have a cock and balls the size of the universe that can cum enough to fill a hundred universes. In reality, physics, biology, and morality would want to have a word with you. In fantasy, ingesting or injecting large amounts of experimental drugs is a recipe for the time of your life. In reality it kills or permanently damages you. In fantasy you can piss and shit all over everything and have it be perfectly clean the next day. In reality, this is a recipe for huge cleaning bills and several easily preventable diseases.
In fantasy, fucking or being fucked by an underage kid causes no issues whatsoever, and the kid can even derive adult pleasure from it.
In reality, this causes irreparable mental and sometimes physical scarring. It is one of the most heinous things a person can do to another person.
I urge everyone, furry or not, to remember to keep a strong wall between your fantasies and your reality. If you or someone you love has deviant urges in real life that could cause yourself or someone else harm, I deeply, strongly, and without humor encourage you to please seek psychological help. These urges are not normal, but can be treated if you seek help for them. Every time I hear about a sex crime committed by a furry, it worries me more and more. Furry conventions have started to gain a reputation for trafficking in underage sex. This cannot go on. This is not a joke or something to take lightly or brush off; if this affects you or one of your friends or family members, please get treatment for it before you do something everyone regrets.
Self awareness is key.
Being a furry is about being a multidimensional creature, both universes equally valid, holding the portal open for others to pass between. When you connect intimately with someone in this culture, you connect with all their forms. Like a werewolf, loving them regardless of which form they're in.
Sometimes it seems like morality is well established, but for just a quick example look at how gay people were treated in the 1950s. How deeply rooted and toxic those beliefs were.
There is a lot yet to learn in science and philosophy. All that matters for now is that you care about other living creatures. Until then, if you find a harmless way to make yourself feel hyper IRL, or play around with watersports and scat in a controlled environment, or have a big orgy with friends and everyone's tested, you should do it and not feel bad about it. It will only become more possible.
A very wise text I wasn't anticipating when visiting your profile! ^^