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7 years ago
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TT.TT *Hugs computer* I've missed you guys so much! I feel like I've been gone forever!
This is about to be a long story... so buckle up.
So I guess some good news, then bad news, then more good news. Here we go!
First good news:
My sister's wedding went very well! She was the most beautiful bride I've ever seen and I cried like a big baby... like way more than anyone else XD
We had a lot of fun and everything was lovely! Until...
Bad news:
My now ex got pissed. Reason? My sister had all her bridal party dance with the groomsmen they walked in with. It lasted for maybe 1 minute if that, nothing inappropriate, all good fun with this married man I didn't even know and had no interest in. Well... that wasn't okay and my ex lost his mind. He stormed out of the reception hall like a teenage girl and when he came back he was carrying an umbrella he had that looks like a sword, essentially scaring the shit out of everyone at the reception. My sister got worried and told me to tell him to go put the umbrella away because not everyone knew it was an umbrella and apparently he was pacing like he was about to shoot up the place.
So I asked him nicely and told him the problem and he got pissed and stormed out once again.
Apparently he told my cousin I broke his heart by participating in something that was my duty to my little sister. Something that literally everyone else knew meant nothing.
I ended up leaving early because I didn't want him coming in trying to ruin my sister's wedding. Once I got in the car with him he sped out into the middle of traffic and tried to kill us both.
At this point my mind was made up and if I managed to make it home in one piece I was going to move out.
I started making plans on where I'd go and I decided to go back to the only place I knew 100% I'd be safe, with my aunt.
Now, I know, I know... Didn't I just move out of there a year ago due to her being messy? Well, yes. But I think continuing to live is more important than having to clean up after someone.
Now the other good news:
I got moved quickly with the help of my Uncle, Sister, and Brother-in-law. We got me moved in 1 day but unfortunately everything was thrown everywhere as I didn't have much time to pack. I've spent that time since the move getting settled in, putting all my things away, and recovering from the madness I just had to deal with. Also, I've found out my aunt has improved quite a bit since I left! She's still not as clean as me, but she does try her best to keep the place tidy now too. She said it's been a lot easier for her recently, she even managed to completely clean out the laundry room! I'm quite proud of her!
I'm almost finished settling in and have finally gotten my computer hooked back up so hopefully I'll be back to drawing in the next few days.
Oh! I also have OTHER other good news!
I'm being put up for a promotion. I'm against another person who keeps running around saying she's had the spot promised to her, so I'm not completely sure I'll be getting promoted (though my other co workers say I deserve it far more than the other girl does) I guess we'll see how it goes! Everyone wish me luck!
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Anyway! Tl;dr for those who don't want to read all that. Wedding was great, almost got killed by my now ex boyfriend, been gone while moving back in with my aunt for my own safety. Aunt is better at cleaning and things are going well. I've finally got settled in and will be back to art very soon!
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I'm sorry I didn't update you guys sooner, and I hope you can forgive me. While this entire ordeal has been very stressful and scary, I managed to make it through in one piece and am a lot happier now than I was.
Also... My aunt is letting me get a kitty! As soon as I get the funds to do so XD
But anyway, I hope you all are doing good and thank you all for waiting patiently for my return. And again, I'm really sorry if I caused any of you to worry!
I promise I'm doing great now and am very safe!
Love and a ton of hugs,
Rose
This is about to be a long story... so buckle up.
So I guess some good news, then bad news, then more good news. Here we go!
First good news:
My sister's wedding went very well! She was the most beautiful bride I've ever seen and I cried like a big baby... like way more than anyone else XD
We had a lot of fun and everything was lovely! Until...
Bad news:
My now ex got pissed. Reason? My sister had all her bridal party dance with the groomsmen they walked in with. It lasted for maybe 1 minute if that, nothing inappropriate, all good fun with this married man I didn't even know and had no interest in. Well... that wasn't okay and my ex lost his mind. He stormed out of the reception hall like a teenage girl and when he came back he was carrying an umbrella he had that looks like a sword, essentially scaring the shit out of everyone at the reception. My sister got worried and told me to tell him to go put the umbrella away because not everyone knew it was an umbrella and apparently he was pacing like he was about to shoot up the place.
So I asked him nicely and told him the problem and he got pissed and stormed out once again.
Apparently he told my cousin I broke his heart by participating in something that was my duty to my little sister. Something that literally everyone else knew meant nothing.
I ended up leaving early because I didn't want him coming in trying to ruin my sister's wedding. Once I got in the car with him he sped out into the middle of traffic and tried to kill us both.
At this point my mind was made up and if I managed to make it home in one piece I was going to move out.
I started making plans on where I'd go and I decided to go back to the only place I knew 100% I'd be safe, with my aunt.
Now, I know, I know... Didn't I just move out of there a year ago due to her being messy? Well, yes. But I think continuing to live is more important than having to clean up after someone.
Now the other good news:
I got moved quickly with the help of my Uncle, Sister, and Brother-in-law. We got me moved in 1 day but unfortunately everything was thrown everywhere as I didn't have much time to pack. I've spent that time since the move getting settled in, putting all my things away, and recovering from the madness I just had to deal with. Also, I've found out my aunt has improved quite a bit since I left! She's still not as clean as me, but she does try her best to keep the place tidy now too. She said it's been a lot easier for her recently, she even managed to completely clean out the laundry room! I'm quite proud of her!
I'm almost finished settling in and have finally gotten my computer hooked back up so hopefully I'll be back to drawing in the next few days.
Oh! I also have OTHER other good news!
I'm being put up for a promotion. I'm against another person who keeps running around saying she's had the spot promised to her, so I'm not completely sure I'll be getting promoted (though my other co workers say I deserve it far more than the other girl does) I guess we'll see how it goes! Everyone wish me luck!
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
Anyway! Tl;dr for those who don't want to read all that. Wedding was great, almost got killed by my now ex boyfriend, been gone while moving back in with my aunt for my own safety. Aunt is better at cleaning and things are going well. I've finally got settled in and will be back to art very soon!
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
I'm sorry I didn't update you guys sooner, and I hope you can forgive me. While this entire ordeal has been very stressful and scary, I managed to make it through in one piece and am a lot happier now than I was.
Also... My aunt is letting me get a kitty! As soon as I get the funds to do so XD
But anyway, I hope you all are doing good and thank you all for waiting patiently for my return. And again, I'm really sorry if I caused any of you to worry!
I promise I'm doing great now and am very safe!
Love and a ton of hugs,
Rose
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~dimensionjumper1224
Oh gosh, Rose. I'm glad you're safe, and you had fun, but to have someone you thought loved you fly off the handle like that has to have been really scary. Bet he feels pretty stupid right now, having lost you over something so dumb. Glad to see you back either way.
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