Update and Apology
6 years ago
General
Hey everyone,
First let me start by saying I'm very sorry for being quiet for so long... Over the past few weeks I was having a lot of trouble with my living situation with my sister and have had to find a new place to live and get moved.
The TL;DR is that she decided to blindside me by telling me she no longer wanted me living with her because she wanted my room back so she could use it as an office, I was not able to babysit all the time like she wanted me to, I was 'neglecting her' for work and friends, and I was not keeping her house tidy and picking up after her and her husband (and now the baby) anymore because I work 2 jobs and am trying to not self destruct.
Those are the excuses she gave me, there's a lot more underlying stuff in my point of view that made it a lot easier for me to be okay with this sudden move.
Most of them being the fact that she is probably by far the rudest room mate I've ever had. She was ungodly loud and annoying for no reason (playing music on all the Alexa devices through the house loudly at 7am, slamming cabinets and doors early in the morning, loudly playing with our nephew by screaming with him early in the morning, barking and growling at her beagle causing him to howl, and much more annoyingly loud stuff like that), she would wake me at stupid in the morning to come shopping with her (and by shopping WITH her, it was more of she shops, I window shop and feel bad because I was broke which made it not fun at all for me), her husband and our nephew would make giant messes around the house and it wouldn't get cleaned up until I cleaned it or complained enough in which she would say I never helped her clean up like I used to (which I will admit I wasn't, they weren't MY messes and I have 2 jobs, I shouldn't have to clean up after 2 adults.) That's just scratching the surface of annoyances I had living there so I'm pretty relieved to be gone.
Thankfully I got all my important stuff moved to my new place of residence and am settled in. The remainder of my things (Like... 70% of my stuff) is boxed up at my sister's house still in the basement, where she's letting me keep it until I find somewhere bigger. She's being far more pleasant now that I'm gone and she has her office...
Anyway, I am indeed still alive!
Even though I had to work yesterday (March 1st), I still had a pretty good birthday, and have been told that Animal Crossing: New Horizons has been preordered for me as my birthday present!
My new home is quite and cozy. The only real downsides are that I had to rehome one of my cats (Momo is no longer my kitty, she's now living with a friend and her family and has lots of kids to love on her), and that I have A LOT less room. But it's okay, hopefully next year I will have a bigger place to live. But until then I just work with what I have as usual.
Even though there was a lot of madness for a few weeks, now that things are settled down it's all going smooth again.
I had a wee bit of trouble with my computer when I moved (CPU fan broke again DX) But it's fixed and back in working order!
So be ready for more art soon!
And of course thank you all for your patience and I'm sorry I didn't give a warning as soon as I was kicked out. I was busy just trying to get all my ducks in a row and find myself a new home quickly.
Love and hugs,
Rose
First let me start by saying I'm very sorry for being quiet for so long... Over the past few weeks I was having a lot of trouble with my living situation with my sister and have had to find a new place to live and get moved.
The TL;DR is that she decided to blindside me by telling me she no longer wanted me living with her because she wanted my room back so she could use it as an office, I was not able to babysit all the time like she wanted me to, I was 'neglecting her' for work and friends, and I was not keeping her house tidy and picking up after her and her husband (and now the baby) anymore because I work 2 jobs and am trying to not self destruct.
Those are the excuses she gave me, there's a lot more underlying stuff in my point of view that made it a lot easier for me to be okay with this sudden move.
Most of them being the fact that she is probably by far the rudest room mate I've ever had. She was ungodly loud and annoying for no reason (playing music on all the Alexa devices through the house loudly at 7am, slamming cabinets and doors early in the morning, loudly playing with our nephew by screaming with him early in the morning, barking and growling at her beagle causing him to howl, and much more annoyingly loud stuff like that), she would wake me at stupid in the morning to come shopping with her (and by shopping WITH her, it was more of she shops, I window shop and feel bad because I was broke which made it not fun at all for me), her husband and our nephew would make giant messes around the house and it wouldn't get cleaned up until I cleaned it or complained enough in which she would say I never helped her clean up like I used to (which I will admit I wasn't, they weren't MY messes and I have 2 jobs, I shouldn't have to clean up after 2 adults.) That's just scratching the surface of annoyances I had living there so I'm pretty relieved to be gone.
Thankfully I got all my important stuff moved to my new place of residence and am settled in. The remainder of my things (Like... 70% of my stuff) is boxed up at my sister's house still in the basement, where she's letting me keep it until I find somewhere bigger. She's being far more pleasant now that I'm gone and she has her office...
Anyway, I am indeed still alive!
Even though I had to work yesterday (March 1st), I still had a pretty good birthday, and have been told that Animal Crossing: New Horizons has been preordered for me as my birthday present!
My new home is quite and cozy. The only real downsides are that I had to rehome one of my cats (Momo is no longer my kitty, she's now living with a friend and her family and has lots of kids to love on her), and that I have A LOT less room. But it's okay, hopefully next year I will have a bigger place to live. But until then I just work with what I have as usual.
Even though there was a lot of madness for a few weeks, now that things are settled down it's all going smooth again.
I had a wee bit of trouble with my computer when I moved (CPU fan broke again DX) But it's fixed and back in working order!
So be ready for more art soon!
And of course thank you all for your patience and I'm sorry I didn't give a warning as soon as I was kicked out. I was busy just trying to get all my ducks in a row and find myself a new home quickly.
Love and hugs,
Rose
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~darthkomar2
I know the feeling, I had just gotten out of hospital when my brother kicked me out :/
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